2007-01-18 07:54:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Zero. Get your hooks into her before you steal her ATM card.
2007-01-18 09:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above answer. If the question "do you have a criminal history" ever pops up, (although unlikely), you could say "Let's just say I've done things that I regret and am not proud of. I don't feel comfortable talking about it." should do fine. If the question pops up, it's because girls do have to care about their safety. If you are not a serial killer, or rapist, a child molester, or a wife-beater, then perhaps you could explain what you did that you're not proud of.
But only if it is asked. Otherwise, you don't have to say anything about your criminal past. This is not a job interview.
However, if you did one of the above, then the law may require you to give out that important info. Then, you should tell your date - otherwise, they may freak out later and you could get into trouble.
2007-01-18 16:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't reveal anything at all. You want the girl to see you for who you are now, rather than your past criminal record. I would hope you have changed, or are working on charging for the better :) Good luck!
2007-01-18 16:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Olivejuice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you want to impress the chick in the first date don't mention anything about you being a criminal. but if you didn't like her maybe you should tell her everything and so then you'll scare her of!!!!
2007-01-18 16:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by julieta r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of it b/c I started talking to this guy for about 3 weeks and them he final told me that he had been in prison and I was FREAKED out......I ended it then and there b/c I could not get over what he told me. I was mad that I Let myself start liking him so you should just be honest up front. Remember no one is perfect but not everyone can handle the truth.
2007-01-18 16:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by lizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you are planning on dealing with this person on that level.. I don't think you should tell all about nothing on your first date. You two are really trying to see if there is a connection to keep you thru the night
2007-01-18 15:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its good to be honest, yet you don't have to reveal all, particully if it is sensitive to you, just saying "i've done a lot of things im not proud of" can be enough, or maybe saying a bit more, but just say its really one of those things that you find quite upsetting to talk about and can we move the conversation on
2007-01-18 15:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of your criminal past should come up on your first date...wait give it time first .....then reveal......
2007-01-18 16:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by little sister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need be very open minded and tell the girl/woman everything you have done that you have on your criminal record....hiding things will hurt you in the end. be upfront with her from the start. women/girls want to know what guys are around and their stories.....such as you guys want to know more us woman/girls our stories and what we have done. its called getting to know one another before anything serious happens if it does. well good luck on you date. god bless you.
2007-01-18 16:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by honey2bloved 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really have one or is this a total troll question?? If you're serious, all of it - hiding it will only make things worse and potentially get you in trouble.
2007-01-18 15:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋