If you are friends with a person, and then for absolutely no reason (or no decent one that they will say) they stop talking to you, is it best to just walk away or pursue it???
I'm tempted to just walk, but I thought I had something special with this person, and it hurts...
2007-01-18 07:55:25 · 13 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I mean if they were any kind of decent person, they would answer the question. But as that doesn't seem to be the case...
I'd probably try to talk to them once more and just tell them exactly what you said...that you thought you may have had something going with them, but since doesn't seem the case, you'd simply like to know what happened...they should realize that you do have a small right know.
Obviously, there's a fine line between searching for an answer, and stalking for one. If they still don't seem very likely to respond, then just move on....
Good luck to you, I hope you get it all worked out.
2007-01-18 08:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by allthree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you owe to yourself to see why this happened. Try to find out why this person feels that way. If they cant give you a reason, then you can totally just walk away, and you will have the mindset that it was nothing that you did.
2007-01-18 16:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by hank 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's better to just walk away. People move on for different reasons. Perhaps it's nothing personal, they just don't have anything in common with you anymore. Just move on, and don't expect an explanation. It may make you feel worse.
2007-01-18 15:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by philyra2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have tried talking to them a few times and nothing came of it, walk away. Some times people just don't want to deal with friends anymore. It's probably nothing you did, it's them.
2007-01-18 15:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Atousa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the opportunity came, I would ask them "whats up" one last time. It's not like its going to kill me to do that. If they want to talk about it than-great, but if they blow me off, hey-what can I do? Nothing. But at least I tried...I totally understand it would hurt, but I would also keep in mind I did try to find out what the problem was. Good luck!!
2007-01-18 16:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always find out what the issues are. At least you will know even if you need to end the friendship. Otherwise you will always wonder what happened
2007-01-18 16:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jesse H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to take your favorite mother's underwear and put it on your head and run and up and down your street, then jump naked into your neighbor's pool. Knock on their door with your mom's underwear on and ask for a skimmer, and tell them that you will skim their pool for free because you love to skim. You can do it all day long wearing your mom's underwear. That's what I recommend.
2007-01-18 15:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it a try.Life's all about taking risks; well take this one and what ever happens... happens. The person could be in a weird situation too.
2007-01-18 15:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away.If they don't talk to you then it means that they are trying to get away from you. And if it hurts then Try to think if it's your heart telling you to walk away or telling not to.
2007-01-18 16:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by carebear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out what is the problem first and any friend would say to you what went wrong.
2007-01-18 15:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋