I am just your average junior in high school and well the main problem with me is im shy and I don't like fighting back, but there is this grl in my gym class and right now we are playing volleyball and the only thing I am good at is taekwondo. Anyway I stink and volleyball and everytime I miss ( which is all the time) she keeps bullying me about it. Calling me things like stupid and idiot to my face, what should I care if some slutty, freshmen, airheaded grl is calling me names right...I do care though. That saying sticks and stones my break my bones but names will never hurt me is just wrong. Name calling does hurt though, I should know being bullied by someone who has it all. I want to talk back but I just don't have the words or time to get myself into the fight mode. I don't know what to do, wait for karma to work its magic...
2007-01-18 07:55:22 · 12 answers · asked by anonydipity_09 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know it sucks right now, but things will get better.
You have three choices:
1. Ignore her completely. Don't even acknowledge she said something. When you do speak to her, kill her with kindness.
2. Get a friend or two and tell her to knock it off. Having a couple of friends with you will give you some confidence, and they can back you up. Don't be threatening, just matter of fact. Practice in the mirror first.
3. Ask your teacher for help.
High school doesn't last forever. It hurts now, but it will be a distant memory soon. One day you'll look back and laugh at her.
2007-01-18 08:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by lickitysplit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you're good at Taekwondo, you don't really need many words to get into fight mode. The next time she starts giving you ****, just get up in her face and tell her to shut her ***** face before you shut it for her. Make sure she throws the first punch too, since that would make anything you do after self defense. If she doesn't throw a punch, leave her alone, but make sure you point out the fact that she can't back up her words with any action. That way you'll win no matter what happens (just make sure you know you can take her). Remember that karma sometimes comes in the form of a roundhouse kick to the head. :) Good luck, let us know how it turns out.
2007-01-18 16:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away unless she actually lays a hand on you.
If she assaults you even with the slightest of pushes you giver her an immediate Flying Drop kick followed by a round house punch and a Leg Break.
Once you have applied all these moves and she is laying there helpless you then proceed to call her everything she ever called you and also offer to share a pizza after school.
2007-01-18 15:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
don't take it.....you need to invest in yourself. take action even if it lands you in the principles office. mention it to her in a very matter of fact tone, without being angry.....stop right in the middle of the game and walk right up to her in her face and say shut you face or I will see you down town at the police station.
then go to the teacher or observer and let them know that you are not going to take this and the next call will come from your attorney to the Superintendent of Public Schools in your district.
Heck, if you want, call the cops right in the middle of class, right in the middle of the game. Do it calmly and without crying, just say you are being harrassed almost every day and you are now not wanting to go to school because of it. If they don't do anything ask for their badge number and their supervisor. And that you have been putting up with this too long and don't want to see things escalate into a potentially VIOLENT situation which you are prepared to take it to if you are required to defend yourself. Walk right up to the punk and let her know that her parents are going to love getting that call from the cops and their attorney.
Do it right in front of the others so you have wittnessess, provoke her by being damned determined and defiant, if she wants to hit you all the better....let her, then she's all yours!!!! Everytime she
says anything negative to you or anyone for that matter CONFRONT her. It's really not as bad as it seems, plus you will impress people and probably earn a new level of respect from others and for your own self.
Be Brave and face the music, get your friends to stand behind you if you have some in your class, most bullies are chicken deep down, if you notice they don't do this when they are alone with you, just in front of others......perhaps you should mention that to her in front of the other kids in class....she's a big chicken whimp who probably would be the first one to cry like a baby in a fight.....I'd take her down to the principles office, and let them know what's going on and mention that you are not returning to class until she apologizes and once you let the the school know twice they are on the hook to fix the problem or face legal problems. I'd deal on her or make the school do something. Just don't take it with out at least tryiing.
I hope you pummel her;-)
Good Luck!
2007-01-18 15:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its actually better to stand up for yourself, I was in the same situation in junior high, I actualyl made fun of the guy back and teased him and he never talked bad to me again after that. Just mak sure you have a good comeback.
2007-01-18 15:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and get them to talk to the school. The principal must put a stop to the bullying.
2007-01-18 16:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her but not aggressive. Tell her you would appreciate it if she stopped saying things to you. Tell her if it happens again you will report her to the teacher. If that doesnt work put her in a legscissors lock and squeeze the hell out of her:)LOL
2007-01-18 15:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by hank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id knock her out or tell the teacher that she is using obscenities.
2007-01-18 15:59:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kicks and throws also break bones.
2007-01-18 16:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by Neil M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*********.E.S like this need a punch in the face. I no violence is not always the answer but, unlike the cliche, it works.
2007-01-18 16:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋