Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

Even though I am in a relationship or have been in relationships since these past relationships I still have feelings for certain guys that I had sex with and gone out with. Some I never had sex with or seen him naked, never dreamed of it. I still find myself thinking of these guys, and dreaming about them sometimes. I've tried to tell them in the past that I still have feelings for them, some I have just let go...some are harder than others. This one has a smile that makes me melt, and if he were to show up any day of the year and ask me to do something I would most likely do it. One of them I wanted to have his kids and I gave up sex because he didn't want to have sex until he was married, I was with him for 3 yrs, that was a long time with no sex...for someone that was just introduced to it and wanted to know more. The last one I thought that I was over him, I went out with back in middle school. He had came to my b/fs' house one night and asked me to leave with him, but I didn't.

2007-01-18 07:15:51 · 11 answers · asked by Tigerlover 2 in Singles & Dating

She's bisexual. She has a first girlfriend, and I know who it is and am okay with it. What don't like is that she went and found this other grl who wants her. She went over that girl's house, they got bored, started playing truth or dare, and dared each other to make out. She says that she guesses that they got a moment going, one thing led to another, and it happened. She says that it 'just happened', but with sex, both people have to want it. They weren't even together yet, and they did it. She told me that she wasn't going to go out with this other girl, yet I saw them holding hands, flirting, and walking around together hand-in-hand. What should I do?

2007-01-18 07:14:44 · 12 answers · asked by badams1990 1 in Friends

2007-01-18 07:14:13 · 18 answers · asked by alwaynemckenzie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 1 1/2 years and I have been unhappy lately. My husband refuses to do anything social with me. I run errands alone, attend our daughters engagements alone, go shopping alone so on so forth. I am a very outgoing person and he is too but only with his friends, he only wants to do the above named stuff with his friends very rarely with us only when I complain about it will he do something with us. We met at a niteclub since we both love to dance but since we became a serious couple we do not do that I go with my friends and he goes with his friends and always makes sure that I do not go to the same club as he does. Also the single friends that he goes with I have NEVER met nor has he attempted to introduce me to them and some of them have girlfriend but I am never included. Do you think he is meeting other women at the clubs and that is why he makes sure I am not at the same place or is he just ashamed of me. By the way I am very attractive. Please help.

2007-01-18 07:14:06 · 25 answers · asked by rscottsluv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was adopted when i was 3 1/2, my real parents kinda did it when they were young so they gave me up
i miss them.
ive never seen them and i dont even have a picture of them.
is this natural? and other ideas on how to find them?
i feel like i dont belong in the place i live now

2007-01-18 07:13:59 · 4 answers · asked by emont_1029 2 in Family

I want to make sure I am getting atleast the average. Thanks

2007-01-18 07:13:46 · 27 answers · asked by FromTheTop 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok girls, I'm talking about backdoor sex. I have always loved to receive it in my rear and find it very pleasurable. My husband loves it when I surprise him by putting it in my rear, especially when I am on top.

My question is, how many of you girls have tried a-nal and loved it? How many of you haven't tried but would if your man asked?

And guys, would you indulge your girls' taboo and give it to her in the rear if she asked you? (please no gay male answers)


Betty

2007-01-18 07:13:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:13:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:12:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

11 months ago i ran into this guy and we really hit it off,i was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentman,thnigs were awkward when he left the next morning,a mutual freind told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)i ran into him again 2 months later,he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and freaking out that we liked eachother.I sent him a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him at a party 6 months later he walked in saw me and looked away quick.later in the night we made eye contact and smiled.I still think about him.Should i go for it,or let it go?

2007-01-18 07:12:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On a previous question that was posted on here, someone asked if you could tell what a person was like from their questions/answers. Eg. What sort of person they are etc. The one thats gets closest to what i am like will get 10 points. So what am i like?? Good Luck.

2007-01-18 07:12:19 · 16 answers · asked by S 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I will not be living together anymore when our lease is up in 3 months. She wants 'space' etc., and I might move to go to graduate school. She caught me flirting with this attractive older successful woman, and told me I should sleep with her if I get the chance. Well, lo and behold, I keep running into that woman, and she has been VERY flirty, and lives -get this- a block away, and my girlfriend works nights. What would you do?

2007-01-18 07:12:18 · 9 answers · asked by Year of the Monkey 5 in Singles & Dating

Like:

Can i have your picture,I collect natural diasasters
Id tell you to go to hell but all dogs go to heaven

That kinda fing

??Any1 else got any gudens??

2007-01-18 07:11:17 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 07:11:15 · 32 answers · asked by insanenaughty 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the mother of a 3 month old, I have 1 felony on my record from 2005 for drug possession and the father pretty much has a clean record, EXCEPT I know he has a criminal sexual conduct charge from when he was a juvenille for being accused of rape. Were both 22, and he is just controlling and possesive and only wants to be with me because I bring in alot of money, he makes me pay for grocheries, babys stuff, home repairs, bills and food and everything while the money he gets goes to his new car and himself. He's very stubborn, smart and selfish and will say anything to make himself look good and make me look like a bad, unresposible, immature, neglectful person. He's very good with words, and I'm shy and I have a hard time with my words, I know he'll make me look bad in court he's white and I'm mexican
He also, has another kid, she's 4 and doesn't have custody of her, he gets to see her for one night every other weekend. But the mother of that child is better no record, works

2007-01-18 07:11:02 · 11 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a guy of 18yrs who like girls but dont want to have a relationship with them (neither i am a gay),as i really dont like all the activites done in it for example calling alot,talking always,saying sweet words and all tht bla bla bla
iam a confident guy in every case but i did not like all these stufs
or in short i love being single as at tht time iam freeeeeeeeee:)
is its ok or iam mad aor anything else
wht do u think of me?

2007-01-18 07:10:44 · 1 answers · asked by rishabh 2 in Singles & Dating

I am wanting to get playful with my husband and was thinking of ties and blindfolds...only thing is I don't have a headboard....any ideas for me??

2007-01-18 07:10:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 07:09:55 · 9 answers · asked by suede1 1 in Singles & Dating

Dumped me two weeks ago, text me a week after saying she misses me. I called her a day after to meet she said on a text"i don't know what to do. Just give me a while. I'm sorry". She has not returned my calls since the break up. That last text was six days ago. Is this thing over? If not, how long would you give it? Would you ever contact again if the breakup was mostly your fault? How long from now would you contact her? Or would you just wait for her? HELP!

2007-01-18 07:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a buffet dinner with a bunch of friends last few day . i do like this girl .When my friend joke about me being her husband ,she pretend to throw up. Then she ask me to accompany her to get some ice cream. Is she trying to be funny or she want me to bash her up?

2007-01-18 07:09:17 · 19 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2 in Singles & Dating

when he is not talking to her
or u can say by body language of the girls

2007-01-18 07:09:05 · 11 answers · asked by rishabh 2 in Singles & Dating

When i was with my ex bf, he cheated on me and blamed all the problems in our relationship on me. Well he just recently apologized to me for my heartache and hurting that he caused me. He also says that he realized what he had done. It also took him almost 3 years to apologize, he's with another girl now but im not sure if i should forgive him. should i?

2007-01-18 07:08:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do men make other men think that they are sleeping with a woman that they are not sleeping with especialy if she is a nice girl why woulld he ruin her rep?

2007-01-18 07:08:32 · 4 answers · asked by java348 2 in Singles & Dating

Please be serious.
I have been in a relationship for over five years, married for three and we dated for almost two. The problem is, I think it was a mistake we got married in the first place. We have nothing in common, and I am not physically attracted to her anymore. I thought we had a good relationship, but it really isn't. She is the type of person who doesn't seem to ever be happy, she hates where she lives, she hates her job, she hates not having a ton of extra money to blow on things, and I feel I always have to tip-toe around her not to set her off. We have had so many screaming knock-down, drag out fights, that I have lost count, and I just don't know what to do any more. I am miserable, but know that divorce isn't always the easiest answer too. We have tried consuling, and it doesn't seem to get us anywhere. She was on anti-depresents for a while and things were better, but she learned she can not be on them and get pregnant. Now she wants a kid, I don't think I do..

2007-01-18 07:08:11 · 16 answers · asked by jman1542 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My g/f and I agreed to open our relationship up. We have been dating for 5 years. She is not particularly sexual, I myself, am. We both are deeply devoted to making sure each other lives a good life and is safe... we also care a lot about each other emotionally. Our decision is based on the physical needs I have and for her, since I work a lot, it offers her the ability to make new friendships as well. If we break up because one of us falls for someone else, we have agreed to remain friends... all in all it seems like the ideal situation. Now, how do I proceed? She already is making new friends. What do I tell people I meet, what are peoples opinions of this relationship, and has anyone had a successful relationship like this... just wondering!

2007-01-18 07:08:11 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, there is this guy who works at my gym who i really like and we have been friends for a long time but over the past year my feelings for him have grown.

Just before Xmas i decided to ask him out which did not go to plan because he said he was not ready for a relationship (he had just split from his girlfriend at the time) and that there was too big an age gap between us (he is 15 years older than me).

I was gutted, but he is such a nice guy so we have still remained really good friends. However, the past few times i have seen him he has been really flirty with me and been acting as if he likes me more than a friend.

Am i imagining this because i like him so much or do you think he is changing his mind??

Some friendly advice needed, PLEASE!!

2007-01-18 07:08:07 · 13 answers · asked by anastacia500 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok guys. The big v-day is coming up, and I've got a bf this year for the first time in three years. I really don't know what to buy him and I could use some help. He's 16, blond-haired, blue-eyed, very preppy (AE clothes every day), athletic, and very smart. He loves Physics and Astronomy, his favorite candies are Hershey's kisses, and his favorite color is gold. (I hope all these random facts help a little). We've been together for a month and a half, so nothing too big, just something thoughtful. We haven't said "I love you" yet, either. So what should I get him?

2007-01-18 07:06:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does everyone ask how to win the ones their not with or if someone likes them? JUST ASK THEM OR TELL THEM AND THEY WILL KNOW!

2007-01-18 07:05:36 · 4 answers · asked by Bear 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 07:05:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ALot of men are attracted and get turned on by womens feet and toes. I was just wondering what is it about that part of the body that get us that way. What do you guys think?

2007-01-18 07:05:22 · 8 answers · asked by CHURRO 2 in Singles & Dating