She's bisexual. She has a first girlfriend, and I know who it is and am okay with it. What don't like is that she went and found this other grl who wants her. She went over that girl's house, they got bored, started playing truth or dare, and dared each other to make out. She says that she guesses that they got a moment going, one thing led to another, and it happened. She says that it 'just happened', but with sex, both people have to want it. They weren't even together yet, and they did it. She told me that she wasn't going to go out with this other girl, yet I saw them holding hands, flirting, and walking around together hand-in-hand. What should I do?
2007-01-18 07:14:44 · 12 answers · asked by badams1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like she is experimenting. You should let her go experiment and find someone else.
Take care,
Troy
2007-01-18 07:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you could have satisfy her properly then she would not have gone the other way..it is a problem on your hand you do not have the right inch penis to properly satisfy her and also you are not giving her the proper love making that she needs a woman knows what a woman needs so that is why she has to go the other way.. pull up your socks brethern and just join the happy gang.. sex who you can sex and lick who you can lick ie. if you have to go down low then friend do just that sometimes it does work but please dont go to a man because your girl goes to woman..... bye
2007-01-18 08:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should understand that your girlfriend is a cheater who uses her bisexual status to make an even bigger fool of you than cheaters normally make of their partners. You're right, sex doesn't "just happen". It's either rape or it's the choice of the two people who engaged in it. In my opinion, your mistake was to "be ok" with the first cheating partner, which apparently gave your girlfriend the impression that she is free to do whatever she wants to. You'd be better off ending this relationship and saving yourself more heartache in the future.
2007-01-18 07:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump her like yesterday's trash she is no good for you at all! She is filthy for being in two relationships first of all and the fact that she CHEATED on you is absolutely vile. If she really cared for you she wouldn't be doing any of that sstuff with guys or girls. Sorry if this hurts you but its the truth.
2007-01-18 07:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by Consigliere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then if it doesn't bother you 'bout your girl being BI then join them you'll have fun and besides it wouldn't hurt you!! and about the flirting and other stuff you better do something before you loose her like take her to a fancy restaurant and make her forget all about that other girl and make it all about you two. and try spending more time w/her.
2007-01-18 07:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by julieta r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. you could dump her... OR... join in! Let it 'just happen' for all 3 of you... problem solved. ;)
It's quite natural for a woman to be bi - it seems women are more likely to be bi than men... So.. thank the heavens - now you may have 2 women instead of just one.
2007-01-18 07:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...if she can't stay true to you, just let her go.
I'm sure there are plenty of other young women out there who you can be in a relationship with.
2007-01-18 07:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Elle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you make a trio? after that you can dump her. and look for another girl.
2007-01-19 10:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by bella_emperatriz_1a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join in!
2007-01-18 07:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by demilspencer@yahoo.com 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
join in
2007-01-18 07:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋