its been like this for ages, and the woman on top is my favourite position, whats up with her?? sometimes its like having sex with a sack of potatoes, because of this do you think i should trade her in for a newer model or what
2007-01-18 06:58:44 · 28 answers · asked by lee b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be the boss...
Demand her submission...
2007-01-18 07:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Get her into some sort of sport that will strengthen her legs..maybe she doesn't have enough stamina to do the work. Also, if your hips are wider than hers and her legs are short, it might be difficult for her to move up and down on top.
When she finally DOES get on top next time, ask her to lean back more and play with herself too. Leaning back puts your tool hard up against her G-spot and it feels awesome. If she's playing with her clit at the same time it will feel doubly awesome. Try it.
2007-01-18 07:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the problem is acommunication one. If you are not talking to her how would she know and furthermore if you are willing to leave a relationship by "trading her in for a newer model" then you should seriously think about whether you want a relationship and not just a sex partner
2007-01-18 07:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Marie B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's probably because she's self conscious about her body, and doesn't feel comfortable with you looking up at her during "mating". You may want to try to complement her on her body for a while and let her know that she's sexy and turns you on. Maybe that will help her get more comfortable and build some self confidence.
2007-01-18 07:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to go on top and that's her prerogative. I don't like being on top either, I just like to lie back and enjoy :-p personally I think it's the mens works :-p. And plus if she doesnt want to be on top why don't you suggest other positions she might want to try, like from behind.
2007-01-19 01:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wife probably feels insecure about her body...tell her you think that she's drop dead gorgeous and that you want her to have a good time in bed too...it's the best position for a woman to have an or...sm.If she's shy do it with the lights off then try it with the lights dimmed.. .and when she gains confidence she'll do it anywhere...just reassure her.
2007-01-18 07:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear Lee. i was quite like your missus at one point in my life. I was young, shy and inexperienced but i had a patient loving and understanding man who taught me to be comfortable in my own skin and who taught me what he wanted me to do to him while on top. the point is, does your partner know what she is supposed to do while on top? have you taught her how you want her to move etc? perhaps there are certain inhibtions that she has. have you discussed it with her? or maybe you at some point remarked how badly she performed while on top? Discuss with her, teach her, be patient with her. besides, is your relationship based on sex only? are you willing to overlook her personality because she cant move the way you want her to? Are you such a STUD in bed yourself?
2007-01-18 07:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by poopsie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't the both of you compromise and find a totally NEW way to do it... The same way all of the time gets boring... Talk to her, tell her your back isn't like it used to be if your older than 35!! Lie to get what u want.... make it interesting...
2007-01-18 07:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be an A s s
Have a lil talk (in bed) with a lil wine (or two) next time - and see what happens.
2007-01-18 07:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God your strange, if you called our sex life mating times, i would feel like just lying under you and be like a mammal,wake up dude, and get your sex life in order.
2007-01-18 07:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by live life 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont hold against her, speak to her and talk and get some answers,,,talk as a ccouple and work it out, most times keepinjg a cool head can solve a problem so do not shout at her when you do not understand her reason
2007-01-18 07:06:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋