Ok it started like this i like this girl.This is the problem i really like this girl but i don't know if she likes me back
1)She starts talking to me randomly
2)she sais all these stuff about her personnel life like who she is going out with
3)she comes to talk to me or site next to me and just looks in the wide open space like if thinking of something
Ok but today i heard that she was asked out to the school danse but she only tells me.does that mean she wanted for me to ask her.I would but she is nice to everyone.she hasn't answered that guy yet.But i don't even know if she really was asked out.I really like her but i don't know how to tell her she is always sorounded by people so i is kinda difficult to tell her without anybody around. I was going to ask her if she wants to walk home(she lives very close to my house and i can walk with her.But she then told me that story but i didn't ask her yet.How should i get her to walk with me or be alone with me
i really really like her .
2007-01-18 06:59:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MY BEST ANSWER GET'S 20 points
2007-01-18 08:58:34 · update #1
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Stop worrying about what she is thinking and feeling and tell her what you want. Grrls like men who know what they want and they don't like wimps.
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2007-01-18 07:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she was asked out by another guy, she hasn't answered him yet. If she's taking the time out of her day to talk to you and sit by you then you have a chance. Just ask if she wants to walk home with you. Just talk to her like a normal human beign and then ask her if she's going to the dance w/ anyone else. If she says I don't know then ask her. What's the worst that can happen? She'll say no and you will stay friends with her. But what if she says yes. Then your foots inthe door and at the dance you can confess your feelings. If you don't ask her or tell her how you feel you may be passing up a huge part of your life. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-18 15:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think she likes you. If she is telling you about dates she has with other guys, she just views you as a friend. If she is surrounded by people all the time, then that means she has a lot of friends. If she has a lot of friends and really did like you, then she would get one of them to talk to you for her...because i bet you are young. At any rate, if you want to know for sure, all you can do is talk to her because we are not mind readers. Why don't you send her an email or something if you feel a little ackward to ask her in person since she is always around others.
2007-01-18 15:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I think you are in a good situation here, she is communicating with you and telling you things. Now, I believe that she is interested in you, and is giving you small hints that are hard to decipher interest or not. So what you need to do is talk to here one-on-one. Go to her house, and ask her if she wouldn't mind taking a walk, or just ask her if she can talk to you for a few minutes. DO NOT LIVE IN REGRET. Don't ever get to the point where you ask, what if I did this? Go for her, tell her you really like her, and say that it would be a honor and a privilege to take her to the dance. What do you have to lose?
2007-01-18 15:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each situation is different, but from what I read in your post I think you should find another girl to ask out...
You might like her, but she sounds like a "taker" rather than a "giver". She wants your attention and takes it as much as she feels like, but surrounds herself with her friends when she doesn't feel like your company at that specific moment.... You said she talks to you "randomly", leading me to believe she's not the most down-to-earth person. I'm afraid you'll eventually feel used and upset.... You deserve a girl who will be interested in you as much as you're interested in her....
I hope this makes sense... I wish you the best of luck!!!!!
2007-01-18 15:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by VoiceOfReason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually this isn't really that hard to do.........just ask her politley...if you can talk to her private. And i am pretty sure that she will say ok and then just tell her that you really like her and that you would love to walk her home one day............oh yeah and then since the dance is coming up you better ask her before she answers that other guy!!!!!!!!!!! Well hope you this advise is good enough......Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-18 15:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by baby_ems_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha I did the same thing to someone I liked, definitely say something, I only randomly talked to my SO b/c I had a huge crush on him and he was a lot like you, afraid to say anything and knew it. I don't really know why I didn't just ask him, I guess it's a girl thing, we just have to drive you guys crazy :)
2007-01-18 15:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you need to 1. ask her to the dance, then if she says yes, 2. tell her that you'll walk her home.....If another guy did ask her out and she didn't respond its more than likely cause shes waiting on you to ask her out...It looks like she likes you to! Good luck!
2007-01-18 15:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by yeah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really really like her but you're wasting time typing this long story while another dude who may just like her (not really really) has asked her out to the dance. U should sending this msg to her to let her know u like her. There are all kinds of signs that someone may like u but u never really know until u muster up enough courage and just ask her...so just ask her
2007-01-18 15:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooookay...
there are two possibilities
first, let me point out that she obviously likes you, just not necessarily loves you. you get what i mean? she wouldnt just say random stuff like that if she hated you, so if you ask her out, she will most likely go easy on you(if she declines,she wont be mean about it, and if she says yes, then yay for you)
1 she could "like" like you, and shes waiting for you to say something. (trust me, i know the signs, and this sounds really likely) if this is true, then you better talk to her now, or shell get frusterated and move on
2 she could just want to be friends, cuz... well... i dunno... she just wants to be your friend... which would make it akward if you asked her out, but its not really likely shell say no, even if shes not that into you, so dont worry about that.
and all you gotta do is (insert her name here) could you walk home with me? cuz i have to talk to you... or something to that extent and it doesnt matter if anyone is around.
so while youre walking, ask her how whats up with all that stuff shes been saying lately? and then... well, what do you want to ask her??? you take it from there, just say how you feel, if thats not too hard (cuz honestly, guys have such a hard time wiith things like that... and sometimes, it gets annoying, especially if you know they like you...) and dont assume she doesnt already know, (cuz most girls have like a sixth sense about that stuff) so you could say something like, do you know that i like you? and, i dunno, you fill in the blanks...
just say what you want to say!!! and get it over with...
2007-01-18 15:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by M T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she looks at you like her bestfriend thats why woman cant have guy friends u all want more keep being just her friend in a couple years she will relize she is compleatly in love with you and you guys can get married and live happily ever after remeber friends first
2007-01-18 15:09:10 · answer #11 · answered by i am who ever u say i am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋