So, this great guy asks me to a school dance. I already have a bf, so I say, "Sorry, but no." After that I'm thinking, "Dang it, I screwed that one up!" And then I break up with my bf right before I see this other guy again (coincidence? I think not!). Now, though, another girl is with him all the time, sitting on his lap, holding hands, acting like they're together. I ask around, apparently they're "not officially," (what the heck does that mean? but they just act like it, and he says, "Naw, I don't really like LIKE her, I just..." WHAT? You just what? Is he doing that to make me jealous? I flatter myself. I kinda think he doesn't really care anymore, but I like him, and I am SO not going up to him and telling him, I am WAY too shy! AND I have to see him, like, all the time because we're in a school play together...what do I do/think?
2007-01-18 06:56:04 · 18 answers · asked by Ask Shirley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FLIRT WITH HIM AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE WEN HES AWAY FROM HER OR EVEN BETTER RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER BECUZ HELL SEE YTHAT U LIKE HIM AND SHELL GET ALL PISSY WITH HIM FOR FLIRTING BACK AND HELL THINK SHES TO BOSSY AND WANT TO BE WITH YOU!!
2007-01-18 07:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by brittany bear! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably moved on after you said you wouldn't go to the dance with him. Not all goes move onto other girls to make others jealous. I'm thinking that he has moved onto this other girl. By him saying "Naw, I don't really like LIKE her, I just..." he's trying not to hurt your feelings and let you down nicely.
Sorry, hun, it looks like its a no-go. You just need to make the best out of the situation.
2007-01-18 15:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a school play together, you should try to stand close to him as much as possible and see if anything happens. When you see him you have to look him straight in the eyes, say hi and S M I L E .
It is going to be tough cuz that other grrl seems to know what she is doing and will do what it takes to get his attention and affection.
2007-01-18 15:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, the same thing happened to me! Well, in the same sense.
It depends if he does all this stuff wiht that girl in front of you or not. If you are around him when they're together, and he looks your way before doing something...he's doing it to get you mad.
In my case...the guy I like just sorta moved on from me, and is ALWAYS touchign and flirting wiht this other girl, but the arent together.
Friends with benifits.
2007-01-18 15:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Elle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna have to suck it up and tell him you like him or act like the other girl and start hanging all over him. He's gonna keep flirting w/ her unless you step up to the challenge. You'll never get what you want if you don't go after it. Get over your shyness. If you really liked him then you wouldn't be asking everyone what to do, you would just do it.
2007-01-18 15:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight...
He wanted you. You turned him down. He got with someone else. Now you want him.
And you think he's just with her to make YOU jealous? Are you that self-absorbed? You think this guy plans his life around YOU?
Get real. You said no, so he moved on. If you ask me, he did the right thing.
2007-01-18 15:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you screwed that one up. No getting it back now. He asked you out and you told him no. He moved on and found someone else. Now it's your turn to move on or wait for him and see what happens with his present girl.
2007-01-18 15:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it appears he has a friend with benefits. If that is the type of guy you want to make a bf, then go ahead. Just make sure he realize your not a friend with benefits.
2007-01-18 15:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine23511 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer. He'll figure out how you fit the equation.
2007-01-18 14:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, sounds like you're out. Find yourself another
2007-01-18 15:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by jayjinsd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋