As the great song goes: Love Hurts
2007-01-18 07:02:49
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answer #1
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answered by BlueSea 7
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Cheating on someone you say you love is not the same as truly loving someone. People who cheat do not respect the person that they say they love or really love that person.
The hard part for most people is that they grow up seeing couples in bad relationships and they repeat that history. In order to stop that cycle, people need to find true love, trust and respect.
True Love is mutual care, concern and kindness. People who share true love are best friends as well as lovers.
Trust must be mutual. If both people do not fully trust each other than their relationship will not last.
Respect requires thinking about what your partner would think of your actions and how your actions affect your partner. If those actions would hurt your partner than they are no good.
Take care,
Troy
2007-01-18 15:18:58
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answer #2
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answered by tiuliucci 6
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People cheat for all different reasons.
Maybe the person sees sex as more of a casual/physical thing than an emotional connection.
Some people are addicted to sex, and like any other addiction will do what ever it takes to get it, doesn't matter who they hurt.
Some people really like variety, and have become disenchanted with their current lover.
Often, though not always, when a person cheats, they are dissatisfied or not 100% satisfied with their current relationship therefore they stray.
Sometimes, when the cheated upon finds out, they're able to work things out and figure out how to build a mutually satisfying relationship, sometimes not.
Some people will always cheat!
Some people don't care so much, others find it devastating.
2007-01-18 15:13:18
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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Nobody has to cheat. Those that cheat on their mate, chose to cheat. They try and make excuses but the truth is if you truly love somebody then you should be strong enough to not cheat. If you are having issues then you work on them but don't try and use them as excuses for why you decided to stray. Cheating only makes things worse. I would get a divorce from my husband if I found out he ever cheated me. He knows it too. I don't care how upset I am with him, I'll always give it up to him when ever he wants it. He'll never be able to say he got it from somebody else because I would not give him some!
2007-01-18 15:26:44
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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Sometimes, people are tempted by an evil force and lead in a path of destruction.
No, we should not cheat on the ones we love. Some do it to see if the other person really loves them. Stupid, but it happens.
We don't live in a perfect world sorry.
2007-01-18 15:04:53
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answer #5
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answered by Coda2 3
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It is too easy to say if you love you dont cheat. Put yourself in a situation where you have to be in a long relationship, or you have to work overseas for few month or even up to a year or so. People get horney and the not necessary just start doing their thing once they get to that point but it takes a little process where you try to fight a temptation. Now once you cross that line where you decide to flirt a little with someone they take advantage of it, you become cool, start chilling, you realize of your problem of not getting any and you give up on everything without looking at your status of feelings. And then once its done, its done! And its all about how guilty you feel now because there were no feelings in sex, just sex, but you messed up. Same thing happens when partners live together but one of them get neglected most of the time in sexual department. Example.....hubby do his things, get off, then turn around towards the wall with his teeth and snores his butt off without worrying about if his wife had hers or she wasnt even close. At that point a lot of people afraid to ruin relationship or marriage for watever reasons and do not approach with their problems to significant others and seek easier way out of the situation seeking satisfaction someplace else. Also another situation when some people are not mono-people. They can never be faithful period and never will because they were raised that way and to change for them is like to change their whole life for missery. Ohh and one other good reason why people would even cheat on each other when they realy do love each other is because life is a *****! Sorry to put it that way but at some point each one of us had an incident when we felt like thats how life turned out to be like for us.
2007-01-18 15:14:55
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answer #6
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answered by BK thang 5
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We don't HAVE to. People who cheat blame others or try to come up with an excuse for their behavior. There is no excuse. It's not about the victim, it's not their fault. It's all about the cheater and the kind of person they are.
There are a lot of people who are faithful, good, caring people. I personally know a lot of people this way.
One of my favorite lines in a movie was when a man and woman were in a situation that could have lead to something. The woman had political connections. The man acted honorably by not giving in to the moment. She said "Why not? Is it because of who I am?" He said, "No, it's because of who I am."
2007-01-18 15:10:52
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answer #7
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answered by Get it Together 3
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We cheat because something is missing from the relationship we are in. Sometimes it's an emotional thing, sometimes it's a sexual thing. Sometimes it's just that spark that is there when you're chasing someone, you never really know.
Then there are people who cheat because they enjoy the pure thrill of cheating, that's what does it for them.
2007-01-18 15:10:02
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answer #8
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answered by Therious 3
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If you cheat on the one you claim to love you never really loved them at all.
2007-01-18 15:09:14
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answer #9
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answered by Anonymous
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this is the life you must suffer from the other gender
what did you mean from this question
you have got hurt or some body else you get him the hurt???
2007-01-18 15:29:40
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answer #10
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answered by sakura ♥ 3
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