Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

Hi I love my wife with all my heart. We talk and get along well together. When it comes to sex and romance she is not interested. When I try to talk to her about it all I get is "get over it " " that is just the way it is" " i am too needy" . there is always some excuse. What am I to do?

2007-01-14 14:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Hyme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where do you live... I'd like to move there please.

2007-01-14 14:39:29 · 8 answers · asked by Erutpar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And how do you get her to realize that you're interested in her?

2007-01-14 14:38:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anthony D 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im 13. 5'7 and about 103 and i have braces brown hair and blue eyes
im told that im pretty so i guess i am
im srry i culdn't provide a pic but i dont have a digital camera
so based apon wut u no wuld u go out with me?

now for a little more info
my style is kinda skater and yes i really skate.
im in the 8th grade and im really smart
im really quick with comebacks and im not mean just brutally honest
so with the information given would u go out with me

2007-01-14 14:38:45 · 15 answers · asked by I <3 Sublime 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is not one of thoughs reverse psychology questions... Once againe my best friend (*Brook) called me in tears. her mother has yelled (cursed and threatened) her sister (*Lidia) and her again. She also picked Lidia up by the colar of her shirt and some what choked her. i know for a fact that her mother beat Brook on the back to a point where the father had to pull her off of Brook, (i saw the bruises). Another thing that happened was that when Lysia got too scared and went to hide in the only room where the door locked, the mom knocked down the door. Their dad is a pushover twords the mother's side. We emailed the shcool guidence councelor... was this a bad idea? What are the other options when talking does not help? I talked to my parents about this and they are clueless, but they did say that if anything went wrong they would let ther stay over at our house for a period of time. How can she deal with this and how can I help?
* not their real names

2007-01-14 14:37:33 · 17 answers · asked by MeMyselfAndI 1 in Family

im going to see this girl and im going to take her out (she already said yes)what are some good icebreakers? im shy and she isnt so i could use a few good ideas thanks but i dont have a major problem talking to girls but i dont knoe what to talk about help!!

also how do u greet a girl ur taking on a date for the first time ?

2007-01-14 14:37:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i made the first step of getting out of an ugly relationship.Now how do i get over it.I tried everything.From keeping myself busy to convincing myslef hes a loser.But somthing inside me keeps saying let him back.

2007-01-14 14:36:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

everymonth for a year and a half, we go through this. She hates me, don't want me around, and can't even kiss me. When the Pms is gone, she's an angel, she wants to get married. Why so drastic of a change. She is worth it to me to learn and get through it eaier.

2007-01-14 14:36:39 · 5 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Singles & Dating

this sounds sooooo corny, but from a guys point of view, what does love mean to u, and im not talkin bout what u have read in a book or poem or something.....what do u really think, plz answer honestly!!!

2007-01-14 14:36:06 · 14 answers · asked by courtney 5 in Singles & Dating

FIRST OFF: this is not some middle school question - we're in our 20's. ANYWAY, my guy friend and i have been good good friends for about 3 years now - we've both grown up alot, espcially me. These past 2 months i've grown to be a very mature, controlled, and CONFIDENT woman and have been more in tune with myself (sensually) and have gotten a "i don't give a---" attitude. About a week ago when we were on the phone, i was giving some "attitude" - being a "firecracker" and just being typical me - playful and some mind games and good combacks and let's just say he was "shocked". (before this convo we haven't spoken in 3 weeks). The whole time he was in dismay to what had happened to me and was "impressed". Now, we find ourselves being like little teenagers...it's more akward when we see each other, more "games", he gets this goofy looking smile on his face - soo what's goin through his head? Has he always liked me but my "attitude change" was just icing on the cake?

2007-01-14 14:35:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister calls when she is drunk, but she never calls to talk to me AT ALL...

2007-01-14 14:35:02 · 18 answers · asked by lane 1 in Singles & Dating

everymonth for a year and a half, we go through this. She hates me, don't want me around, and can't even kiss me. When the Pms is gone, she's an angel, she wants to get married. Why so drastic of a change. She is worth it to me to learn and get through it eaier.

2007-01-14 14:34:49 · 3 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is hard to swallow when bitterness but i am posing the question of unconditional true love of a husband or wife to their spouse.

2007-01-14 14:34:06 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend of 4 months has been acting a little weird. we went to a dance last night and we spent the whole time with eachother at the back.... just me and him... he's usually all touchy feely and stuff but he was for a bit but then he just stopped. then when we slow danced he'd dance for a while but then just randomly stop and back up then motion for me to sit down with him. we talked as much as we usually do... but we usually makeout and kiss a lot but we only did once... i just sense there's something wrong... i asked him about it today and he said that he was just tired... but i know him well and i know when he's tired, and trust me that wasnt tired... is there something wrong with him or am i just over reacting?

2007-01-14 14:33:31 · 9 answers · asked by Brandi// 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do he said he still likes me yet he doenst want to be together he is so nice but i dont understand he doesnt want respnsiblity of like callin me and stuff i juss dont understand help please

2007-01-14 14:33:13 · 27 answers · asked by kristi c 1 in Singles & Dating

I went up north with my friends to go snowmobiling. We went to a bar and I danced with a girl (I was drunk). I am happily married but if my wife ever found out, she might divorce me. Is this grounds for a divorce? I didn't do anything but slow dance. No hand holding, kissing, fondling or anything.

2007-01-14 14:32:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance wants to get married but I keep saying wait till I have a bunch of money or in a few years. I want a big wedding and she doesnt care.

2007-01-14 14:32:34 · 14 answers · asked by yo 1 in Weddings

What is the best way to get over an ex? We were together almost 2 yrs, today would have been our 2 yr anniversary, we just spent the weekend together cause i have been goin thru some ****, i had a miscarriage, was his kid, we split a month ago, i realised how much i still love him, we had a lot of fun together and it really was like old times. I know hes not over us either but he maintains this is how he wants it to be. What can i do to get over him, it really hurts!

2007-01-14 14:32:28 · 7 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 14:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by bill m 1 in Singles & Dating

She told me she doesn't like me and she wants to break up after 5 years 11 months and i talked her into staying. She swears were ok and were going to get married. I'm still unsure about it and when i bring it up she says i want to go home or I'm going to get off the phone. She says why would i want to talk about bad things. I said how do you feel she said the same maybe because you wont let it go. I said if you have a problem we need to fix it then she said i wasn't the one who said i have a problem you brought it up. I am afraid if i let it go it will get worse, but it could just be a phase that has nothing to do with me. Should i let her sort her problem out or should i keep trying to talk about it.

2007-01-14 14:32:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for example, both were born in November, what do you call them?..November born---???

2007-01-14 14:31:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girlfriend and I make each other happy, and its an amazing thing. But her parents have tried to put a stop to it since she told them, and they aren't acting the same to her as they used to, and it's hurting her. Yesterday she mentioned to her dad that her and another girlfriend were going to go out sometime next week and her dad yelled at her, telling her not to lie etc. and he knew she was going to see me. She got home and cried her eyes out, and now she’s devastated her parents don’t trust her, even though she’s never done anything wrong or behind their back.
She has told me that she can't talk to them about it, it's just not the culture (she's asian, i'm white), and she has to obey them. But she's 18, and she doesn't know that giving up on us is what they want, or will help anything. But she is willing to do anything for them.

2007-01-14 14:31:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Was it the second you met? Your first date when he pulled your chair out for you? Etc, etc, I am curious.

2007-01-14 14:31:15 · 8 answers · asked by GeekGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have lost 50 pounds in the last year. I have worked very hard. I have not got comment from him. Not you look good or wow honey your doing great. Everywhere i go people notice how hard i have worked and how good i look but not the most important man in my life. How do you make him understand that i need him to say it.

2007-01-14 14:31:07 · 13 answers · asked by diana b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 14:30:53 · 4 answers · asked by starbucks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys like girls who r wild or do they like em sexy but shy?

2007-01-14 14:30:53 · 12 answers · asked by bobblehead_93 1 in Singles & Dating

is there something wrong with me?guys only pls...?
im 20 years old and already have a stable job in a known company here in our place, tall, sexy, people would say im good looking and smart. i have lots of friends becoz they say im kind, sweet and have a sense of humor. our neighbors respects me and adores me for what i am now (successful and kind yet young).

but the problem is, i still dont have a bf!!! is there something wrong with me or is it with the guys? sure i have suitors, but i dont like neither one of them so i turned them down. and if i like some guy, its either they have a gf or ignore me.

could you please answer me guys?

2007-01-14 14:30:49 · 7 answers · asked by ---q.ty pie--- 2 in Friends

im 20 years old and already have a stable job in a known company here in our place, tall, sexy, people would say im good looking and smart. i have lots of friends becoz they say im kind, sweet and have a sense of humor. our neighbors respects me and adores me for what i am now (successful and kind yet young).

but the problem is, i still dont have a bf!!! is there something wrong with me or is it with the guys? sure i have suitors, but i dont like neither one of them so i turned them down. and if i like some guy, its either they have a gf or ignore me.

could you please answer me guys?

2007-01-14 14:29:52 · 12 answers · asked by ---q.ty pie--- 2 in Singles & Dating

She leaves her clothes around on the floor, on the chairs, and just about everywhere.
Even when she gets in the car, the passenger side is always full of trash and junk.
She has O.C.D. too--she likes to shop almost every day and buys stuff to clutter up the house. Every flat surface and drawer is full of something.
Any advice? I've tried to be nice and not so nice but nothing works. Please help.

2007-01-14 14:29:39 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. love 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 14:29:36 · 5 answers · asked by K W 2 in Singles & Dating