Hi I love my wife with all my heart. We talk and get along well together. When it comes to sex and romance she is not interested. When I try to talk to her about it all I get is "get over it " " that is just the way it is" " i am too needy" . there is always some excuse. What am I to do?
2007-01-14 14:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Hyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nothing you can do if she doesnt listen i guess masterbate more
2007-01-16 13:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Providing she has no medical condition interfering, I find this selfish behaviour on her part.
Read Dr. Phils advice;
"Your Troubled Sex Life"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/59
"Sex Styles That Don't Match"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/66
2007-01-14 14:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is I feel your pain. LITERALLY! I am in pretty much the same situation right now. If you find an answer please pass it on. I have a husband that says sex is not important to him. Unfortunately it is to me. I know how bad that hurts and I am sincerely truly sorry.
2007-01-14 14:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Surprise her! Take her to a hotel or condo. Go to couple's massages. Get her mind on time alone. Hotel sex is the BEST!
2007-01-14 14:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. It sounds like she has a low sex drive, maybe she needs to explore her sexual feeling inside
2007-01-14 15:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife how you feel and you both may need counseling and possible a sex therapist.
2007-01-14 14:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife doesn't like you in a sexual manner anymore. She might have something on the side.
2007-01-14 14:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her point blank that you need to have this in your life and that you don't feel like she loves you if you don't receive that from her anymore.
2007-01-14 15:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋