my boyfriend of 4 months has been acting a little weird. we went to a dance last night and we spent the whole time with eachother at the back.... just me and him... he's usually all touchy feely and stuff but he was for a bit but then he just stopped. then when we slow danced he'd dance for a while but then just randomly stop and back up then motion for me to sit down with him. we talked as much as we usually do... but we usually makeout and kiss a lot but we only did once... i just sense there's something wrong... i asked him about it today and he said that he was just tired... but i know him well and i know when he's tired, and trust me that wasnt tired... is there something wrong with him or am i just over reacting?
2007-01-14 14:33:31 · 9 answers · asked by Brandi// 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry sweetie. It's over. Maybe give him one more chance but it doesn't sound like his heart is in it anymore.
2007-01-14 14:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by Tumbling Dice 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He could be just tired, but YOU know him best. Has he acted like this before when tired?? Otherwise, I'd say it sounds suspicious, especially since he's usually so affectionate. Maybe there was someone at the dance he didn't want to have see you with him. It's definitely something worth keeping your eyes open about!!
2007-01-14 22:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by Justcurious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give him a bit of space...maybe he's got something else on his mind that's really bothering him, maybe he was just tired, or maybe there are issues. My advice about giving space though is that when men feel "pressured" into giving an answer, they'll often push back, and that may damage your relationship further. If after a week or so he hasn't come back around to what you consider "normal", then you should just flat out ask what's going on.
Best of luck.
2007-01-14 22:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should re ask the question and let him know u sense something is wrong and u want to know whatsup .
Something maybe bothering him , but I can understand u not wanting to wait I'm the same if I sense something is wrong I have to ask whatsup . And giving me half answes or no answers really bugs me.
So u can ask him again and this time try to be firm and keep at it until he tells u something
2007-01-14 22:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hes in another relationship and the person hes with was at the dance and he didnt want her to see yall being all touchie-touchie, but she knows yall are in a relationship. Thats what i think.
2007-01-14 22:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by christopher f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he wants to build a real relationship with you.by talking to u and spending quilty time with you. making out and **** isnt the bonding u need to have a real relationship
2007-01-14 22:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by devries58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the biggest cynic alive, but it sounds like he just has stuff on his mind
2007-01-14 22:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is moving on.
2007-01-14 22:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh...sounds like he's gay, and he just discovered it.
2007-01-14 22:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by mesquitemachine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋