what should i do he said he still likes me yet he doenst want to be together he is so nice but i dont understand he doesnt want respnsiblity of like callin me and stuff i juss dont understand help please
2007-01-14 14:33:13 · 27 answers · asked by kristi c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Khrist C!!!
He probably is confused, by the seriousness of the situation.
Or probably he is just bored!!! That doesn't mean that he do not love you. Is just that he woke up to the fact, that he want to do other stuff, meet or go places without the "chuckles"on!!!
I advised you do the same. Experience, life on your own, and tell him you understand. But please, do not be waiting for him, as he probably might not come back!!! (I'm being honest).
If he does good for you!! but if he doesn't good for you too!!!
You should learn early in life, not to keep some one next to you, if that person doesn't want to be with you!!! Let live and let go!!!
In the mean time, go and live your life , he is not the only nice man alive!!! Give yourself the chance to meet others, so at the time, your true, love and future husband comes alone, you already have experience live as one!!!!
If it is O.K. with you keep him as a good friend but, do not interfere in his life. Unless he invites you to do so!!! Remember that you have a better chance if you are lose to him, as a friend than being far as an ex-girlfriend.
GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
ALLIV Z
2007-01-14 14:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand either. I'm sure there's a reason, if you can, talk to him again, just tell him you just want to know why. Is there an age difference? Is he coming off a bad realationship? Is he just not feeling for you what you feel for him? These are all reasons men give when they don't want to hurt you, but if he didn't say that's hard to know. If you think he is still a nice guy even after you broke up, he probably has a good reason, he just didn't know how to tell you without hurting you. Maybe it's best to leave it at that so you don't end up resenting him later
2007-01-14 22:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a guy needs to tend to certain responsibilities in their lives that take a lot of their time, otherwise they can't be the guy they want to be. Good men handle their responsibilities and they also think ahead to plan their decisions and make the best choices for their future. Maybe he just needs to get his life in order and a girlfriend is just another responsibility in a way, as you have to tend to their wants and needs as well....maybe he is just not ready for anything extra because he has too much on his plate already. I would let him go if he says that is what he wants, especially if he is a nice guy. Let him go and if he is happy with that then he probably just isn't ready for a relationship with you.
2007-01-14 22:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm sorry to tell you this...but your ex lied to you. He's not breaking up cause he doesn't have enough time.
If a man loves you completely and is determined to make your relationship work he will MAKE the time to be with you.
He just wanted to have a nice sounding excuse to break things off with you.
Move on and maybe your next boyfriend will give you the love, time, and attention you deserve. Don't settle for anything less.
2007-01-14 22:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no. boys do not just break up because they dont have time. That is a common excuse for not wanting to put int the effort it takes in a relationship. Move on and find someone that truly values u as a person. You dont want n e one that wont give you the "time" of day.
2007-01-14 22:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on'. That is a really stupid reason for dumping you. If he didn't have the time for you, then why did he start dating you in the first place. Sweattie, if that is what's really going on, he is an IDIOT. He sounds totally immature and he doesn't sound commited. You should move on and find someone who really appreciates you. Like they say, there are many fish in the sea. Go out and hang with your friends and family and have a great time with them. Breakups hurt a lot, believe me, Ã'm still crying about mine, but I have found that moving on is best, because a guy like that, who doesn't appreciate what we have to offer isn't worth it. Believe me, it's his loss. The guy for you is out there so go out and find him.
2007-01-14 22:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by maidapr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he lead an active social life, is he a workaholic? Maybe you should find someone who does not have a life. I broke with a guy because he waited for me to call him and talk to him for an hour. I have a life.
What do you mean by "calling you and stuff"?
2007-01-14 22:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by hammer&nails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he doesn't like you anymore. He's just making EXCUSES. trust me, if a guy really likes you, he will make time for you no matter what. Relationships are not obligations, if starts to become one, that means it's time to end it. He doesn't like you, so just move on. find someone else that will make time for you, if he doesn't want the responsibility of calling you & stuff then that doesn't necessarily make him nice, does it?
2007-01-14 22:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows that it will be more painful because hes busy but u should remain friends maybe in the future..u guys will have a shot ..dont stop talking to him hes being honest...but he doesnt want u to think thats hes a bad guy he knows taht he cant satisfy u right now he sounds like a great guy!!!
2007-01-14 22:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by NotCliche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who truly wants to be with you will find time to call you and see you.
He's just trying to be 'a nice guy' about ending the relationship with you.
2007-01-14 23:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋