im 20 years old and already have a stable job in a known company here in our place, tall, sexy, people would say im good looking and smart. i have lots of friends becoz they say im kind, sweet and have a sense of humor. our neighbors respects me and adores me for what i am now (successful and kind yet young).
but the problem is, i still dont have a bf!!! is there something wrong with me or is it with the guys? sure i have suitors, but i dont like neither one of them so i turned them down. and if i like some guy, its either they have a gf or ignore me.
could you please answer me guys?
2007-01-14 14:29:52 · 12 answers · asked by ---q.ty pie--- 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I'm the same...
There aren't many girls like us out there now and I think that (at least with me) part of the difficulty of finding a b/f lies not in any shortcoming of mine but rather a strength: I don't want to settle. If you're the same way, then kudos! Don't lower your standards b/c a guy who is deserving of you will come along when you least expect it....
"Some people are settling down, some people are just settling, and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies" -SATC ;)
2007-01-14 14:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are only 20, forget men...they are a ball and chain... go out with your friends and enjoy life a bit!! Men will screw u, hurt u and not fulfill you emotionally. There is probably nothing wrong with you, but maybe u r looking in the wrong places??? pubs? clubs?.... i dont know u at all... I am the same, 29 but cannot hold down a relationship/.. anyway, it is worth waiting for the right one, if u truly deserve him for being so nice and sweet... I always think just wait till 40... guess bit different being a girl if u want kids... go to church is my answer...not that I have done this...but i know there are good guys there...
2007-01-14 22:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that anything is wrong with you, you might not be spending much time looking, or you might not be looking in the right places. In situations like this, you can't blame yourself because you didn't do anything wrong. It's the consciousness of the guys that you would like to have that's not compatible with yours. There's no hurry to get a boyfriend. Just have fun.
2007-01-14 22:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by arsenology 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong. This is a numbers game. It's like sending out a resume. If you get 5% response you are doing well. So far you've just had bad luck. Keep on looking and eventually you will get a hit.
2007-01-14 22:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the rush. You are 20 years old. We have a couple that has a daughter who is 25 years old and has NEVER been on a date with any guy.
She wrote down the guy she wants to marry, and is waiting for him to come into her life.
Write down EXACTLY the guy you are looking for and he will come to you, when it is the right time.
2007-01-14 22:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do these 3 things and u will get ur man.
1. Learn to cook.
2. Learn to stroke a man's ego.
3. Learn to give a good salami wash ;)
If you do this, you will have no prob.
2007-01-14 22:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're lookin for love in all the wrong places. Be patient, it will happen.
2007-01-14 22:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound like a good catch. be patient the rt one will come along.
2007-01-14 22:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like it just tell some1 that u like the truth and see what happens
2007-01-14 22:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by Elliot M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its bcos your a pompous git.
2007-01-14 23:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋