Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

We've been together for 8 months & he says that he loves me, but he's not inlove with me. He's only been inlove once, with the mother of his child who left him for another guy. They don't communicate at all unless it concerns the baby. He says that he wants to be with me but he can't give me what I want because he doesn't want to do the in LOVE thing and this has been his mind set before the baby mama, what happened with her was unintentional. The continuence of this relationship is entirely up to me. I'm madly inlove with him, but him JUST loving me is not enough, but I can't leave him because I love him so much and he's so good to me for the most part...what do I do?

2007-01-13 05:37:10 · 6 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 05:36:48 · 18 answers · asked by Tabbie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 05:36:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I hang out with the not so popular group in my school, and i really wanna be with the popular crew...
and my cousin came to school in year 7(when she came from primary) she is now more popular than me.
Should i just wear the right clothes to school?

2007-01-13 05:35:57 · 5 answers · asked by Jpegg 4 in Friends

sometimes i call her and she answers her phone but sometimes she doesnt. and when were on the phone she talks for a little while then she says that she will call me back in a couple of minutes but then never does. but then she sends me texts that say hey hun sorry i didnt call you back and stuff like that. is she trying to avoid me or is she jsut really busy and forgets about calling me back.

2007-01-13 05:35:45 · 5 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Singles & Dating

Please read all so you would understand, well most of the time my house is a mess, and it's getting real frustrating because I expect my wife to clean it. I work from 9am to 6pm weekdays and saturdays from 10am to 2pm in a office work, she only works part time as a teller, around 6hrs from 9:30am to 3pm she doesn't pay any bills in the house but hers, ( Car, credit cards, clothes ) and that's fine I don't mind I do pay for everything that has to do from mortgage to cell phones, all of it. Am I wrong by telling my wife that I expect the house to be clean all the time? Yes we have a 1 1/2 year old baby, and she puts the excuse that I never help her that's why she is not going to clean the house. Is that crap, or am I just really patient?

2007-01-13 05:35:41 · 18 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 05:35:15 · 35 answers · asked by steve s 1 in Weddings

i found the site on yahoo ask and answer, but lost the site. any help of where to find it again would be of great help. It was about 15 questions long and delt with the 1920's Thanks for any help

2007-01-13 05:34:58 · 3 answers · asked by spencer b 1 in Weddings

I've been married now for about 9 months. My wife and I have a 5 month old. Things were happyer before we moved last but now she is just snappy cranky and unrully. She's told me that she has an anxioty disorder and because of her allergies the persciption cost $2000.00 for a month supply. It didn't seem so bad when we meet, her little temper tantrums weren't any big deal. But now they're more frequent, violent, and sometimes involve my son. It's to the point where if you offer help she snaps at you for "trying to take over" and if you don't then she's upsett for help not being offered. She also smokes pot which I don't agree with but I don't see how I can stop that. I just can't take it anymore. I'm about broke no thanks to some other drama she caused, and I've even though about hanging myself to get away from her and the trouble she's caused. What should I do from here?

2007-01-13 05:34:46 · 5 answers · asked by knucclescs63 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do most people get married in their hometown? Or where they live now? I've lived here for nearly seven years, and my fiancee has lived here for four. I always assumed I'd get married back home but there are pros and cons to both (tradition & family location vs. friends and co-workers & convenience)
Any thoughts?

2007-01-13 05:33:38 · 11 answers · asked by butterflychica 1 in Weddings

I'm 25 yrs. old and went out twice with a girl I like from JDate.com. She's 24 and most of the time I feel a connection with her but I'm sort of afraid to make a move and hold her or kiss her. I did, however, give her a short very quick kiss on the lips at the end of our second date. It was nice but sort of awkward because we didn't have our eyes closed. I wasa tiny bit nervous and pulled away to fast. So, we just sort of stood there and did it but it did happen. Now, she's very busy and teaches high school art while going for her master's in ESL. So, it's hard to communicate at times and sometimes, she's so busy that at first, I think she's playing me but I guess she's not because she now found time for a third date. She said she thinks we have alot of stuff still to learn about each other but said she'd really like to see me again. I told her I felt the same way and it's definitely true and she was glad we established that. NOW--I met another girl online who I only exchanged numbers

2007-01-13 05:32:28 · 9 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1 in Singles & Dating

I was always brought up to respect and be nice to women, i.e treat them how I would like to be treated. When you do, women only want to be your friends and not have sex with you. However when you treat them really bad and are really horrible to them or are just a jerk in general they will have sex with you. I don't want to change the person I am and be a jerk but I really like getting laid with hot babes, therefore why are women retarded?

2007-01-13 05:31:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 05:31:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my new girlfriend of about a week and a half now has just moved a couple hours away because of family issues. i was calling her everyday jsut to see what was goin on and stuff but now she didnt answer her phone the last time i called her and she hasnt called me back yet. its been about a day or so since ive talked to her. and she jsut recently changed me to number 2 on her myspace and put some other dude in front of me. what should i do. shouldi just wait and see if she calls me or what? thanks for the answers

2007-01-13 05:30:50 · 10 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Singles & Dating

whats it mean when a guy ask my bestfriend if i like him! and then he was like i just wanna know what shes gunna say tell her i like her! and then i went up to him and was like omg why do you keep telling her to tell me all this crap cuz i thought he was just messing with me! but then he went up to her and said omg why did you tell her i said that, becuz it was just a joke! and then the pass couple of days hes been not talkin to me so i havent been talkin to him either! and then he tryed to bump into me on purpose but i didnt even look at him i just kept walk right passed him! after all that happened he was like yea kali's really pretty but idk if i like her like that! was it really a joke! or does he really like me?

2007-01-13 05:30:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want to get a boyfriend but I think that the guys I like think of me as like a friend. They all like my friends and I am just as pretty or athletic as them if not more. What should I do ? I am in 7th grade and I am 13.

2007-01-13 05:28:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my boys were having a sleep over and when i went in the room to check on them they all had there penises out and they were playing with eachother i automaticle took the guest out of the room and drove them home i told their parents and they told me that it is perfectly harmless there learning about there bodies and i was about to punch them is it wrong for kids his age to do this is it normal should i give him the talk and about men and woeman and men and men is he to young to here this talk?

2007-01-13 05:28:16 · 12 answers · asked by villevallo77 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ever time she gets mad she always yells at me like im the one that caused her to get angery

2007-01-13 05:28:14 · 5 answers · asked by Moneymike 3 in Family

My husband started a business three years ago and he has been putting all his time and money into it. I have helped him every step of the way, but he acts like he did it all by himself. He even took credit for ideas that I came up with. Individuals refer to the company as "his" business and he does not correct them. If we have an argument, he refers to the company as his. He has put us in financial binds time and time again. It was so bad that I actually went back to school to get a second degree so that I could get a better job to compensate for the money he was spending. I just entered a new field and I am really excited. He really does not show any interest in what I am doing. He is trying to figure out how my new knowledge and skills can help his business. Honestly, I do not want to work in the business. It is in an industry that I do not particularly want to be part of. He has been saying that I am not supportive (normally when I will not give him $$$). Help!!!

2007-01-13 05:28:00 · 13 answers · asked by Twilight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to a basketball game last night, but I lied to my boyfriend because I know he would get very mad. He always thinks I'm going to cheat on him! He was working and it was going to be a really good game. I went with the girl friends only. I didn't tell him I went so that I could tell him later that night so he'd understand. I don't tell him because when I do he does things like go to parties, drink, and whatever. Isn't that worse than a basketball game? I don't know how to handle it. He called this morning calling me a liar and a cheater... It hurts. He said I deserve to hurt, it's karma and more revenge is coming. What am I supposed to do? It's been 14 months together.

2007-01-13 05:27:37 · 12 answers · asked by Cieeeee <3 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 8 months & he says that he loves me, but he's not inlove with me. He's only been inlove once, with the mother of his child who left him for another guy. They don't communicate at all unless it concerns the baby. He says that he wants to be with me but he can't give me what I want because he doesn't want to do the in LOVE thing and this has been his mind set before the baby mama, what happened with her was unintentional. The continuence of this relationship is entirely up to me. I'm madly inlove with him, but him JUST loving me is not enough, but I can't leave him because I love him so much and he's so good to me for the most part...what do I do?

2007-01-13 05:27:13 · 2 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

My roomate talks, yells, laughs, sings and whimpers in his sleep ALL night long.

I don't talk to him too much about it cause its embarrasing to him, but what causes such constant behavior like this in a person?

Some of the things I hear him talk about make me wonder what's gone on in his life.

Is there anything I can do to help him?

2007-01-13 05:26:46 · 11 answers · asked by Big D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

anyone else out there addicted to "revenge"?


if someone does or says something I don't like ....Lordy Lord, it flips my resentment and revenge switch!

2007-01-13 05:25:16 · 22 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 05:25:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 05:24:34 · 3 answers · asked by sk8tergurl808 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a grown woman who moved home with my parents after a bad break up. Just to make a long story short, I'm finally ok with my break up. I'm praying more and talking to God and he is helping me get thru this. My mom still thinks I'm talking to my Ex-boyfriend but in actuality I haven't seen or talk to him for almost 2 months. I will admit at times I still miss him and want to call him, but my hunger for happiness and a peaceful spirit is stronger. I haven't dated anyone and I don't want to, I just want to be by myself. And I want to continue my soul searching. So my question is how do I tell my mother that I appreciate her concern, and I love her for loving me. But she doesn't have to worry that I'm ok?

2007-01-13 05:24:04 · 21 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a simple question I Am just curious what everyone thinks. what is love.

2007-01-13 05:23:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 05:22:43 · 6 answers · asked by mr.murder45 1 in Family

i need to fell more sexy and with out him i cant

2007-01-13 05:21:40 · 16 answers · asked by shanalla m 1 in Singles & Dating

I cannot say no. I say yes to babysitting and it turns into 12 hour sessions. I give them rides, money...etc... Its draining me. HOw do I say no without hurting them.

2007-01-13 05:21:26 · 17 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Family