I've been married now for about 9 months. My wife and I have a 5 month old. Things were happyer before we moved last but now she is just snappy cranky and unrully. She's told me that she has an anxioty disorder and because of her allergies the persciption cost $2000.00 for a month supply. It didn't seem so bad when we meet, her little temper tantrums weren't any big deal. But now they're more frequent, violent, and sometimes involve my son. It's to the point where if you offer help she snaps at you for "trying to take over" and if you don't then she's upsett for help not being offered. She also smokes pot which I don't agree with but I don't see how I can stop that. I just can't take it anymore. I'm about broke no thanks to some other drama she caused, and I've even though about hanging myself to get away from her and the trouble she's caused. What should I do from here?
2007-01-13 05:34:46 · 5 answers · asked by knucclescs63 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find a lawyer. Get legal aide. Look in the yellow pages of your telephone book. With her drug use, I'm sure you'll have no problem with evidence and support to get your daughter and a divorce!! It is grounds for one, too I believe!? But check with a lawyer, though!! No one should put up with that!!
Have you thought about marriage counseling first? Good luck to you in whatever you decide to do. Sounds like a bad situation and what ever you decide to do has got to be a better one by the sounds of it!!
2007-01-13 05:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really serious about getting a divorce, then look in you local phone book for divorce attorneys, most attorneys will give you a consultation for free. Then decide on what attorney and go through the paperwork the attorney will have you sign and of course there is payment terms he will discuss, along with you child being the most important issue to discuss. With her problems you could very well be granted parental custody of the child.DO KILL YOURSELF OVER THIS, YOU DO HAVE A CHILD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-13 05:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by sirmrmagic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your city there should be center for those who are abused, and you are being mentally abused. File for separtion, and see if she gets her act together by seeing a counselor and get her off that pot. The smell of that is not good for your five month child, but first go to place where you can take your child. Her temper might affect him/her, and don't hang yourself your child needs you to get him/her out of that situation. If her counseling doesn't help you may have to file for a divorce.
2007-01-13 05:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your child and leave before she hurts you, your child or herself. Then, borrow the money and get a divorce atty and start proceedings so you can keep the child safe. Don't tell her you've thought about suicide. What you tell an atty is safe and confidential. You can always get back togeather if she cleans up her act, but you have a child to protect. Take the hard action and leave. Be a father; be a man; protect those you love and the child who needs you.
2007-01-13 05:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by David M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really in this situation then you need help NOW.
Start with the family doctor because there maybe more going inside her head then you know, there are hospitals that treat depression and violent anger disorders. If she refuses and is really violent then you need a lawyer, fast.
this may all seem like to much to to handle, but it is you job as a father to protect yourself and son from this.
Do not give up seek help from family, friends.
2007-01-13 05:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by wyldman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋