My husband who is in his late fifties has the habit of hugging some of my nieces in a way that makes them rather uncomfortable. He does not touch them inappropriately (though tightly), but the issue has been raised by one of them and I am aware that the others feel just as uncomfortable as this one. He does not hug the one who has a disability.
He has previously had an affair and has admitted to me, many years ago, that he thinks teenagers whose breasts are just developing are nice.
I'm feeling quite sick about this and although I had previously many times felt that I am not happy about this hugging of my nieces, I don't know how to approach this subject to him. Please help me. You should know though that he is unapproachable. A professional once suggested that he ought to see a psychologist for other reasons, but although he has agreed in the past, he is not doing anything about it. Help!
2007-01-13
22:48:28
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