she was my 1st love....then for a few years goin steady ..i started to cheat on her...until she caught me kissing the other girl...i was so stupid....i know...i tried getting back wit her but no use..she jus kept ignoring me...n this year(2007)we happen to be in the same class as each other...so i sit at the back of her in class...sometimes i jus stare at the back of her head n start dreaming bout wat we did together n wat we could have done...so lately i tried ignoring her back to show that i'm over her...but i don't know whether its working?HELP!!!
2007-01-13 22:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by the don 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Face it. You made a huge mistake and she is not going to forgive you.
If you had a dog which bit you once, you would always worry that it would do it again.
Think about it, and don't ever do it to the next love of your life until you find another one you would like to be unfaithful with.
2007-01-13 22:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A rather normal situation. We all at some time or another seem to want that which we cannot have. Ignoring her can work if she has feelings for you. You know what she likes and what she does not. Do some of the things that she likes but do not appear too obvious. And do present a challenge to her, like maybe have an interest in someone else. That usually gets one's ego in overdrive.
2007-01-14 06:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not much to do - she doesn't sound like she is interested at the moment. You hurt her and she may not feel that she can trust you again.The relationship can't be the same as it was before even if you started going out again as there will always be a scar where you hurt her. If she is not interested, respect her wishes and move on - respect her feelings.
Good Luck
2007-01-14 06:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by milljanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have really blown it by cheating on her, she is unlikely to trust you which wouldnt be a good thing for a relationship. You may just have to accept youve blown it.
However you could try apologising buying her some flowers n choccies and seeing if she would like to try it again, i mean its worth a shot.
2007-01-14 06:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If I were her I would never trust you again. You ruined the relationship and your chances for a trusting and loving relationship with her in the future. Take what you have learned and move on...and NEVER cheat on anyone again.
2007-01-14 06:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by Rhoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehmm. this kinda difficult, but actually you have to replace yourself in her position, how does it feel to be hurt by someone that you love...... after you were able to feel it think how will you act to the person which has cheating on you .
anger, dissapointed, hate..... are common things for those who are cheated, there for i just have two suggestions, first, try to make common friends after saying your BIGGEST AND DEEPEST SORRY, and don't push it ......... if she seems allergic to you WELL AT LEAST you have known what you've done to her is a biggest mistake. second, live your live ok, there are many things you can think off, after she dumped you.
god bless
2007-01-14 07:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by OLGA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If she's smart... she'll stay away from you forever! You made her think you were trustworthy! But you decided to cheat anyway! You ******* asshole. You don't deserve to even THINK about this woman! Cheaters are total losers. And obviously that's you.
2007-01-14 06:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm - why do you want her back? you sound focused on physical...she may want to be with someone she can trust. when someone cheats on you, it's hard to trust them. i would say find a way to earn back her trust. OR if you feel you will just cheat again, leave her alone and let her find happiness elsewhere.
2007-01-14 06:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u made a huge mistake...but no body is perfect...the only thing u can do now is try and win her trust back...and it aint gonna b easy...but if u can get her trust back again..u will b in a relationship that is stronger than before...i dunno wat to suggest for u to do to gain her trust but wish u the best of luck and hope u won't make another mistake like that
2007-01-14 06:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is hard to do but you may do this again if you upset with her or you see another pretty girl
2007-01-14 06:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋