Do you start when you take cloth off or when you want to get intercourse ?
Do you put condom when you do oral sex ???
If I did a 69 how can I protect my self , the condom can protect her .
Do you use condoms if you are in showers touching eachother ?
As some guys here said you can get STD's by a french kiss even , so what do you guys and girls do ?
2007-01-13 23:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
While the risk is much much less than by way of sexual intercourse, it is possible for you to become infected with HIV through performing oral sex. There have been a few cases of HIV transmission from performing oral sex on a person infected with HIV. While no one knows exactly what the degree of risk is, evidence suggests that the risk is much less than that of unprotected anal or vaginal sex.
Blood, semen, pre-seminal fluid, and vaginal fluid all contain the virus. Cells in the mucous lining of the mouth may carry HIV into the lymph nodes or the bloodstream. The risk increases if:
you have cuts or sores around or in your mouth or throat
if your partner ejaculates in your mouth
or if your partner has another sexually transmitted disease (STD).
If you choose to have oral sex, and your partner is male, use a latex condom. If you or your partner is allergic to latex, plastic (polyurethane) condoms should be used. Research has shown the effectiveness of latex condoms in preventing the transmission of HIV. Condoms are not risk-free, but they greatly reduce your risk of becoming HIV-infected if your partner has the virus.
If you choose to have oral sex, and your partner is female, use a latex barrier (such as a dental dam or a cut-open condom that makes a square) between your mouth and the vagina. Plastic food wrap also can be used as a barrier.
both of you should be using condoms---you the trojan type and she the vaginal kind----HIV/AIDS can also be contracted if you're having unprotected ORAL SEX----so many people out there are lead to believe that ORAL sex isn't really sex---when in deed it is.. body fluids are body fluids no matter if you are having sex the convential intercourse way or via MOUTH----
If you're in the shower and you're standing attention doing the SALUTE---you should have a condom on----
Unless you're in a monogomous relationship---ABSTINENCE would be your best answer---It is very obvious to me that you're very young ---and should'nt be doing the things you're talking about in the 1st place!
No one should be having unprotected SEX----unless they want a death sentence.
2007-01-13 23:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want an STD during sex, immediately put a condom on after you take clothes off and before any possible contact with each others sexual ogans. As for kissing, there is a small chance to get HIV, if there is some micro tear in the gum by brushing, and of course blood from one person would have to come into contact with this open wound in the mouth. Also, herpes simplex I or oral herpes if the person has a sore inside there mouth or on the lip. As for deep kissing, I think many people take chances because of a small risk exists, but you should definitely observe the lips of your partner before any kissing occurs to make sure sores are not on their and if so, do not kiss that person. If you want to be 98%-100% safe, oral sex condoms should be used, particularly for the person who is on the giving side of it. As for 69, giving each partner giving simultaneous oral sex on each other, you should might want her to put on a female condom or for a guy to use a dental dam for the guys saftey and for the girl's safety, you should have a condom on too. Hope this help
2007-01-13 23:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be minute tears in the condom, which could cause you to develop an STD. In the old days, people were encouraged to "double glove"....but I haven't heard about that lately. I would suspect some type of STD before pregnancy at this time. It won't hurt for you to get seen by your doctor. Best of luck to you.
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2015-09-25 00:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Charlotte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you insert your penis into her or visa versa that's when a condom should be used from the first time to the last time. Even when having oral sex a condom should be used that's why they have condoms made for females oral sex, and males oral sex. You do not need condoms in the shower if you are not having sex. but if your having sex in the shower you need to use a condom. A STD is a ( Sexual Transmitted Disease) meaning you only catch it by having sex. but if his/her *** is infected why do you want it in your mouth? When it should be in a condom?
2007-01-13 23:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by germeka 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Well, based on my Investigative Report on my college English subject, STDs cannot be acquired just by having a french kiss with one another. So don't worry about that. If you do 69, you won't as well acquire STD, just be sure you won't take in your partner's ****.
Just make sure that you will be having a sex with the person whom you know alot. Do not just have a sex with anybody whom you just have known. That's the safest way you can avoid having STD.
Take care!
2007-01-13 23:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to keep from getting an STD is don't have sex!
By the way having oral sex will get you herpes of the mouth if she is has them......
How about getting married first then you can have safe sex....
2007-01-13 23:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Texan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FORGET CONDOMS. They're gross and are a another liberal solution that doesn't work.
Have sex withiin marriage only, with your wife. That is the solution that works.
Regarding kissing, the only thing I can say is that you have to be careful today regarding who you go out with. The human race has gotten to be pretty filthy and there are a lot of diseases.
2007-01-13 23:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are kidding, aren't you?!! In your case, then, you should wear condom all the time and not only on your d*ck, but also on your tounge, fingers and head. O, yes, do not forget to wear it on your spctacles if you are going to have s*x by watching and looking at it!!!
2007-01-13 23:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start before you have sex. In fact practice with a few. I only takes on person one time and one second to give you something that coul destroy your life.
Always wear a rain coat.....
2007-01-13 23:17:42 · answer #10 · answered by ted j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋