2007-01-13 22:55:10 · 26 answers · asked by yani S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is a cheater and you're a sucker to fall for his lies. Next question?
2007-01-13 22:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you looking to get out of this relationship? Is he going to leave his wife? You can't go out in public with him, you can only see him when it is convenient to him, you can't depend on him because you never know if he will be able to get away...., and the BIG question is, what would happen if you became pregnant? Would he step up and be responsible or just leave! Test to see if he really loves you, stop having sex with him and see if he still comes around, chances are he won't! You deserve better than somebodies left-overs, there are alot of men out there that would be so much better for you.
If you decide that you don't want to see him anymore and he still keeps calling or looking for you, tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone you will have to tell his wife about him. If that doesn't stop him nothing will. Good Luck!
2007-01-14 01:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by Archangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only said I been there before just avoid him there is more men out there I know I been married 15 year now and glad I did avoid him
2007-01-13 23:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try....do it! He is married which means he is commited to another woman. You can avoid him if you try hard enough. If you have to tell him to stay away from you. This is a dangerous situation that will bring you nothing but trouble and heartache.Right now, he is stringing along 2 women.....what kind of man do you really think he is? A liar, perhaps?
2007-01-13 22:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The odds are against the scenario of him leaving his wife. Respect yourself and put your needs first. You deserve a guy who is committed to you only. If you have low self-esteem and think that this is all that you are wroth, consider some counselling to build on your self confidence. Time to start living YOUR life - what do YOU want
Good Luck!
2007-01-13 23:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by milljanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...you can't! Same story over and over. Reasonable answers have been given within. Now I will give you an unreasonable one and take it for what it's worth. Do not expect him to leave his wife. He probably never will. Enjoy what it is you enjoy about him, do not be possesive, do not try to own him AND above all go on whith your life as well. See other guys and explore.
2007-01-13 23:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best case scenario - you get him to leave his wife for you (which they almost never do). now you have a man who cheated on his wife for your signifcant other - and you be stressed waiting to see if he chooses to do the same to you.
worst case scenario - you leave him alone to do his dirt on his own with someone else...and you free yorself to meet a man who is emotionally available to you, you get married, have kids if you want them, and have a wonderful fulfilling life together!!!!!!!
what seems like the worst case scenario now will be the best case scenario later....
2007-01-13 23:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring in your father, brother or any male colleague to see his wife and tell her about this problem. Should he harass you more, just make a police report, simple.
2007-01-13 23:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is If he is willing to cheat on her, What makes you think he wont cheat on YOU. love him or not, you and i both know the "im going to leave her" promises never come true, but anyway, even if you do get him, he will cheat on you too.
2007-01-13 23:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by dreamzindigital_20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are not trying hard enough---what a ridiculous situation---this guy is a sick individual bent on ruining his marriage and your life. He is not a friend--get going
2007-01-13 22:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All married men say this same statement to their 'lover'
2007-01-17 16:42:38 · answer #11 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋