Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

I am 8 months pregnant and my husband left us but is not out of our lives. he calls all the time and wants to see me but i don't let him. He moved out and left us so i feel he shouldn't be around and also let me add tht he does not want to work on the marriage but i do. So i have a male friend (just a friend!) who just got into town and were going to go see my husbands band play tomorrow night and hang out with the band after. I have to pick my friend up and take him home. My husband knows my friend and i were supposed to date before he and i got back together the first time but in my opinion i am married now and i believe in my vows so we are JUST friends and nothing more.
Do you think he will flip when he sees i am bringing him since he is the one who left his family?
should my husband be jealous since he is the one that left?

2007-01-13 05:21:06 · 4 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I Record Video Of Girls Visiting My House Without Telling Them For Fun,Just Want to Watch and Fasinate about Them!

2007-01-13 05:20:29 · 8 answers · asked by Mr Om 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sooo..i got a tattoo a week ago. I put the pics of them on facebook so all of my friends could see...some of my friends showed their parents...My mom owns a hair salon and some of her clients are my friends parents.....then they asked my mom about my tattoo...I hadn't told my mom yet! She then called and told my dad. My mom doesn't care that I got a tattoo, she was just upset that I didn't tell her...But my dad is mad about both things. He's strict and so concerned about what people think of me, especially my grandparents.

I feel so horrible..I wasn't hiding it from them...I was trying to find a way to bring it up into conversation. I was going to show it to them.

Help me find a way to appologize to my parents!

2007-01-13 05:20:21 · 6 answers · asked by oneblue1browneye 1 in Friends

i um am in LOVE with this guy but i never tried talking to him he live right next to me

2007-01-13 05:20:01 · 9 answers · asked by tears are my words 1 in Singles & Dating

Could you ever forgive a guy you knew who raped you? Just want to see your reactions. Thanks!

2007-01-13 05:19:51 · 27 answers · asked by Jenna 4 in Singles & Dating

Well, I have been really sad and I actually have started cutting since the 2nd of December which is when I found out my best friend committed suicide and then on the 11 of January my other friend was killed. I am really sad and every one tels me im depressed. I'm thinking of suicide and I need to know if I am depressed so I can get help before I do something stupid. Please help me.

2007-01-13 05:19:11 · 13 answers · asked by picture_perfect 1 in Friends

we have been dating for about a week or so now and she moved about 3 hours away for family reasons so i try to call her once everyday just to say hi and see how shes doing. but just recently she hasnt answered my phone calls and she doesnt call me back. i know this doesnt really mean anything but on her myspace there is another guy in front of me.i havent talked to her in a day. do i need to just wait till she calls me back so that way i know if she is still interested. what should i do about this

2007-01-13 05:18:46 · 10 answers · asked by superstuddly 1 in Singles & Dating

sooo..i got a tattoo a week ago. I put the pics of them on facebook so all of my friends could see...some of my friends showed their parents...My mom owns a hair salon and some of her clients are my friends parents.....then they asked my mom about my tattoo...I hadn't told my mom yet! She then called and told my dad. My mom doesn't care that I got a tattoo, she was just upset that I didn't tell her...But my dad is mad about both things. He's strict and so concerned about what people think of me, especially my grandparents.

I feel so horrible..I wasn't hiding it from them...I was trying to find a way to bring it up into conversation. I was going to show it them.

Help me find a way to appologize to my parents!

2007-01-13 05:17:53 · 8 answers · asked by oneblue1browneye 1 in Friends

2007-01-13 05:17:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the girl is doing for money till last year means 9years after marraige everything was fine but 2years back this girl came and evrrything is going in which way i donot understand i loee my husband but now he is totaly changed he finds out some excuses and bit me he calls her at home in my absent till late night they are there in the officenow he has arranged single bbd in the office since last one year they both whole night sends sms calls and give miscall to each other iwas having faith in my husband healh wise he is not keeping well i have supported him in each and every weak moment in his life only problemis financialy i am not supoorting him so now i am looking for job he asked me what i gave him after 10yearsmarried life he only gave me tention frustration iwant to come out of this he will not go for counciling can any counciler help me out immidiatly that i can come out from this i have 9 years old daughter office girl is mean and cheap she sometime trys to haress me

2007-01-13 05:17:15 · 20 answers · asked by mit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-13 05:16:48 · 16 answers · asked by VICKY L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like i am burning my brains out at either end!My bf and i started dating my senior year in highschool and got engaged afterward.Everything was fine till college started he only took 3 classes and ended up dropping 2 of them leaving just the one he ended up on probation.He could not keep a job and started asking me to borrow money which as okay but the problem is he never pays me back?He keep complaining if i dont that my family is much better of than his that i am being stingy.Really i dont think i am my parents pay for my college tuition and i am taking 4 classes.I also just signed up for barbrazion a school that gives classes for modeling/acting/personal development granted my parents pay for this as well but i work for my moms company that does landscape design.I get paid $8.50 an hour and since its winter only make 69-88 dollars a week because their is nothing much to do but file a little.Most of my money goes to pay gas, nessarys,cell phone,savings and car insurance.

2007-01-13 05:14:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we were 3 best riends in my college days and i am now away from my country and lost touch with both of them.i donot know their phone numbers or addresses or where they r now.i really wish to get in touch with them again.please kindly suggest how?their names are 1.Meghna waghrai and 2.vijayalakshmi.

2007-01-13 05:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by reena 1 in Friends

2007-01-13 05:12:56 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 05:12:10 · 12 answers · asked by l 2 in Singles & Dating

We are getting a divorce, he thinks Im cheating on him. He said next time I leave the apartment for a moment, he's gonna put all my stuff outside. I bought pretty much everything in the apt. furniture, everything. Does he have a right to it also? Can he put my stuff out of my apt? Can I call the cops if he does? Where can I find out all this legal stuff online?

2007-01-13 05:10:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother is driving me crazy. She is the reason why I have low self esteem. She never said anything positiv about me mostly neg. now that I am old enough(20) to get away from her. Meaning I spend the nigth mostly with my bf she gets upset saying it is disrespectful and how I am embarassing them and how i am the only one in my negihborhood staying out all night or coming in early morning. I dont care what the neighbors think i dont know why she care she dont talk to them. But she is obssessed with them. She always looking out the window like neighborhood watch. she got me hating them people. She always talk about them but never talk to them then tell me how I am giving them something to talk about when in reality I am trying to get the F*** away from her. Trust me she is driving me insane.
Why I wont move out??? Because rent is high in NYC and retail jobs dont pay well and I have not much work experience to get an office job. But do you think what the neighors think is important???

2007-01-13 05:09:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we presently like to do 4-5 hours a day, but i like it for longer duration

2007-01-13 05:09:40 · 12 answers · asked by star trek 1 in Singles & Dating

It has to deal with the color red in some way. Out-of-the-box, almost unrelated topics are fine. I've of the meaning of red- passion, love, blood, power, sex, insanity, caution. Please help.

2007-01-13 05:09:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-13 05:08:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been hashing this around for months now. Boundaries of relationships. When I first got together with my BF, he would not tolerate me chatting with other men. I simply ignore it, because we were not serious. Now however, we are very serious, and I no longer chat with my male friends. I basically, got rid of them all. Why then can he still chat to other women? He claims these women are from his classes or his place of employment. Is this not a double standard? He puts boundaries on me, but the moment I try to do the same, it doesn't seem to fly.

2007-01-13 05:08:05 · 18 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Singles & Dating

we dont know each other well on a freind basis
but are in a few of the same classes
so we know about each other

i would like to be able to ask her to a dance in 1 or 2 months

how?
need help

we i am pretty sure she is single

2007-01-13 05:07:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys I have dated always have said that they were into
pantyhose. WHat does everyoneelse think ?

2007-01-13 05:07:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16, and making a dinner for my boyfriend with fortune cookies for dessert. What cute/romantic fortunes could I put inside?

2007-01-13 05:06:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents are trying to seperate my boyfriend and me because i cut school to go see him and he lives REALLY far away. they took away all phone privlages and that was my main way of contacting him.

2007-01-13 05:06:50 · 13 answers · asked by chyna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like I am alone like there is noone there for me. For example if I were to get married I would enlope because i dont have anyone. weddings are family and friends, I have no female friendwhich equals no bridesmaid which is sad. If i were to have a baby Who would I invite to the baby shower? who would support me?? I just feel so alone in the world. I am afraid to tell my bf this because he wants to start a family with me and he is a huge family guy. he know I am not close with my family but he dont know how far apart I really am. I am so far that i am to the point that i would be alone if things dont work out with us. Like I can't be bothered to be in a relationship. I try to repair my freindship with the only female friend i have and it not balanced. She has other friends and bf that are more important. I am a quiet/shy girl so its very hard for me to make friends because i am not ghetto or like them project girls so I feel real alone. I dont know what to do.

2007-01-13 05:06:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-13 05:06:01 · 8 answers · asked by rezor 1 in Singles & Dating

Help! The two weekends that we had planned to have a bridal shower for my niece who lives in Denver had to be cancelled due to her inability to get back here to Iowa due to Denver's constant snow storms! Is it possible to have a totally online bridal shower with Pampered Chef or even some other company? Any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated.

2007-01-13 05:05:21 · 5 answers · asked by Kim R 1 in Weddings

we dated for 5 days when she dumped me. 3 months later we got back together and were together for two years then out of nowhere she dumps me. I ask her why she says "i just stoped wanting to be with you". The Thing that kills me about this is that i spent 2 years of giving her everything i put my heart into everything for her and she gave me nothing in return othen that a few times. We broke up 3 months ago and we still are freinds and she still asks me to do things for her and i do them cause we are freinds, but when i ask her to she never does. So im hurt by all that, and now she is interested in some other guy and kills me! How do i move on from this girl! Please help me

2007-01-13 05:04:41 · 20 answers · asked by scottie19 1 in Singles & Dating

any cool excuses ?

2007-01-13 05:03:28 · 28 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1 in Singles & Dating