we dated for 5 days when she dumped me. 3 months later we got back together and were together for two years then out of nowhere she dumps me. I ask her why she says "i just stoped wanting to be with you". The Thing that kills me about this is that i spent 2 years of giving her everything i put my heart into everything for her and she gave me nothing in return othen that a few times. We broke up 3 months ago and we still are freinds and she still asks me to do things for her and i do them cause we are freinds, but when i ask her to she never does. So im hurt by all that, and now she is interested in some other guy and kills me! How do i move on from this girl! Please help me
2007-01-13 05:04:41 · 20 answers · asked by scottie19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop being a doormat and get someone who respects you.
2007-01-15 02:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over a girl you've been with for two years is never gonna be easy. The problem is that she is taking too much from you, and you're letting her. Don't let her walk all over you. Everyone has been in a situation where you love someone, even though you know they are bad for you. Don't always do the things she asks. And i'm not saying be spiteful and rude, but show that you don't have to do what she says, because that will make her realise that she can't take advantage.
As for her being interested in a guy. You are bound to get jealous, no matter what. Try to distance yourself from her, and stay friends but don't let yourself get too involved. Try and meet new people, and distract yourself. It'll get easier mate, just hang in there.
2007-01-14 03:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Joshurawrr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is cruel but could help. If she had ever loved you as you did her she would not have left you. How to move on - have no contact with her - how can you be her friend when you hope she change her mind again. Friendship between ex's is never very good idea, remote chance of it working is if you not seen each other for a while. Go to an on line dating site - just star dating girls whom not your normal sort. As normal has not got you far! You will get over her, as time is a great healer.Plus reading fiction helps take your mind of things!
2007-01-13 05:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure everyone has told you the same thing but only time will help you move on from your ex.
However you will never move on if you keeping letting her use you like this. Its obvious she only wants you in her life because she knows you will agree to anything she asks you to do. She does not sound nice so i think you should just cut her out of your life all together.
I know it will hurt at first but if you really do want to move on then you have to do this, stop being a door mat for her to wipe her feet on whenever she feels like it.
You deserve better babe, good luck xxx
2007-01-13 06:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You definately need to break contact with her if possible. The only way you can heal is by stopping the relationship. It doesn't sound like she is very nice to you and seems quite selfish but I know it can be difficult when you have feelings for her. Stop seeing her. Get your mates support and take up a new hobby to take your mind off it, it won't work straight away but in time i promise it will.
2007-01-13 05:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way to get over someone is to cut off communication from them all together. Keep yourself busy and always turn to family and friends for comfort, support and advise. The worst thing about your situation is that this girl is using you and your feelings don't seem to matter at all. Give her the boot and fast!
2007-01-13 05:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really haven't moved on because she's still using you to do things for her.
You take a chance when you fall in love and sometimes it doesn't work out.
Make a clean break from this girl to give you time to heal and let the new guy "help her with things".
2007-01-13 05:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a clean break or you will never get over her ,she knows that you care and will continue to use you when it suits her , when she calls pretend your busy, get out and make new friends and go new places ' there is a girl out there that will appreciate you so forget about your ex and move on. i am talking from experience my brothers heart was broken by a girl 'even though she has moved on and had a family and good husband she calls him uo still and interferes in any new relationship he enters into 'as a result he can not move on . please take my advice . good luck
2007-01-13 05:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by jinx 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Scottie I know this is not easy for you but you will get over this in time, think of the person you were before you met her, confident I bet please get out there , perhaps the gym or any other hobby you have, believe me you won't look back, your worth it. Good Luck.
2007-01-17 02:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by a p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple let her go.It is so obvious that she uses you.Move on she is not the one for you.You will meet the right person once you completely get rid of your ex.She is your EX for a reason cut all ties to her.
2007-01-13 05:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spend time with other people without her ofcourse. You need time to get over her and surely you won't if she's there. Why don't you tell her nicely that you don't want to be firends for awhile. Better yet, don't befriend her anymore.
2007-01-13 05:10:23 · answer #11 · answered by Chicken Noodle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋