I feel like I am alone like there is noone there for me. For example if I were to get married I would enlope because i dont have anyone. weddings are family and friends, I have no female friendwhich equals no bridesmaid which is sad. If i were to have a baby Who would I invite to the baby shower? who would support me?? I just feel so alone in the world. I am afraid to tell my bf this because he wants to start a family with me and he is a huge family guy. he know I am not close with my family but he dont know how far apart I really am. I am so far that i am to the point that i would be alone if things dont work out with us. Like I can't be bothered to be in a relationship. I try to repair my freindship with the only female friend i have and it not balanced. She has other friends and bf that are more important. I am a quiet/shy girl so its very hard for me to make friends because i am not ghetto or like them project girls so I feel real alone. I dont know what to do.
2007-01-13 05:06:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When I say ghetto or like them project girls I mean loud I am very shy and quiet dont like to be loud.
2007-01-13 05:07:15 · update #1
I have nothing against project people my bf live in the projects. Its funny that people from the pj have better relationships then those (my family) that live in a house
2007-01-13 05:08:10 · update #2
you dont have to be loud or enthusiastically friendly to make friends...what you do need is confidence. Its ok to be shy, don't mistake that and turn it into being afraid of people.Take one of your interests,say knitting...find a knitting circle and just knit and talk about yarn...eventually yarn isnt so interesting and you are...thats how you get to know people.Find a common thread and go from there. You managed to land a boyfriend so you are not as alone or tiny and meek as you make yourself out to be. You need to be happy outside of your b/f presence if you want him to stick around....he'll want you even more if he sees that you're ok without him by doing a little something on your own- like knitting!
2007-01-13 05:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by justsayin... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should find a place that you like and try meeting other people or get a friend on line and start their it is hard feeling alone and I do think that this is something you should tell your bf maybe he has a family member that's wiling to be your friend.
2007-01-13 13:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His family will become your family, they will give showers and stand up for you at the wedding. Start making friends with his family because it is going to be important to him.
2007-01-13 13:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's a good thing to not be loud and want to fight all the time? :] And you see, that's special about you and that's a good thing. It sounds like you've got a great boyfriend, and you should really appreciate that.
2007-01-13 13:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Get out of the hood. There is a reason that they call that place the trap. And if you're not ghetto, then that's not the place for you. Go make friends somewhere else.
2007-01-13 13:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by bo, kingpin at large 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell your bf what is on your mind before you get pregnant.Keep this in mind it is not where you live it is how you live.
2007-01-13 13:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by mil414 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so then just forget about everyone else and concentrate on making ur own family
2007-01-13 13:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by chyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much info sorry
2007-01-13 13:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so then what is your question
2007-01-13 13:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by The Anti-Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋