the girl is doing for money till last year means 9years after marraige everything was fine but 2years back this girl came and evrrything is going in which way i donot understand i loee my husband but now he is totaly changed he finds out some excuses and bit me he calls her at home in my absent till late night they are there in the officenow he has arranged single bbd in the office since last one year they both whole night sends sms calls and give miscall to each other iwas having faith in my husband healh wise he is not keeping well i have supported him in each and every weak moment in his life only problemis financialy i am not supoorting him so now i am looking for job he asked me what i gave him after 10yearsmarried life he only gave me tention frustration iwant to come out of this he will not go for counciling can any counciler help me out immidiatly that i can come out from this i have 9 years old daughter office girl is mean and cheap she sometime trys to haress me
2007-01-13 05:17:15 · 20 answers · asked by mit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So thats where my wife has been hanging around lately. tell your hubby to send her back to me right away.
2007-01-13 05:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must pray to God .And you must educate your husband .You must show him what reason is , you must teach him what love is..Don't let a prostitute take your husband or your friend etc ....Tell your husband that ...within 10 years of marriage you gave him a child as an expression of your love not of his money, and this child it is a divine being , not a social position.Tell him to tell that promiscuous girl from his office that... he suddenly is very poor and eventualy he shall loose his job. And you will see that she won't send him other sms .Your husband must find the dignity of being loved not hunted for money or sex.You must show the difference between a true woman and the one who sells sex.So...
Tell him that you peep ..on the eyes of prostitutes...Don't be afraid that you will loose him , you need someone that loves you, not a stupid..who enjoys prostitutes or whores....You can find a better man at church if he ignores you, or wants the divorce.I am not representing the law , I just know literature...First , fight to win him back.Second marry the best...
2007-01-13 13:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you ask me tell him it is you and his daughter or the office whore ... if you dont then you are going to be part of the problem allowing him to do this is wrong I am married I have been married for almost 10 years and I am a old fashioned man I am the supporter of my family My wife dont need to work she stays at home ensuring my kids are well taken care of and thats what matters most to me she is a great women and like I told her if she wants a job fine it is up to her but she dont owe me sh*t she is working ten times harder then me she looks after 5 kids all day long and she provides meals for them and a clean house thats more then I do in one day and she does it for shitty pay all she gets is my love and devotion and the appreciation of our kids and just about anything that will make her life easier or to relax her
2007-01-13 13:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by cliff_aka_colt_4_5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go to a divorce lawyer. If your husband makes more then 35k a year then he/she will take your case for free. Try to keep as many records of their calls meetings as you can. I know it's hard but counceling has past you by and it doesn't sound like you even want to, just get out it's difficult and the next 2 years will be hell, but you have a nice accent and you will be happy again.
2007-01-13 13:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by PrettyEskimo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hon you have him legally she does not.. let him do his stupidity but continue to live off of him.
The worse thing you can do for is divorce him.. she can harasss all day but if he is that sick and he dies (caused by her) you own the business and everything. She will get nothing.
Your daughter will eventually learn what a snake her Dad is but right now just spend the money the more you spend the less he can spend on her :-)
2007-01-13 13:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your excusing your husbands behavior and blaming it all on the other woman, he is the one who encourages it, so my advice to u would be to file for divorce, take half of what he has, and get away from him, at least u will have your dignity and self respect, why are u allowing him to do this to u? if it is your business, fire the woman. but unless he is ready to stop seeing her there is nothing u can do. leave him and let them have each other.
2007-01-13 14:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can report both of them to the boss of the company and get them both fired,and your husband does not deserve you, he will have to pay child support and alimony and if you own a house you can get that to but he should have to pay for this also.
2007-01-13 13:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry..
Nothing left but divorce for you...
Best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love..
I know you are not looking for a lover right now ....
Divorce him , get child support, alimony, house, car, furniture,
everything he has...
2007-01-13 13:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your waisting valuable time. Find the best
divorce lawyer u can some of the best years of your life are gone and whats worse is that its already TODAY you will find happiness with a
new life and love
2007-01-13 13:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by daview1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For GAWD's sake, get rid of the creep and get yourself some rest. He doesn't seem to be worth the trouble!
It seems you may need a dose of self-esteem.
2007-01-13 13:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by buster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you could take a deep breath and type a scenario that we can actually understand...you know--implement the use of capital letters and periods and such....then we could help you with an answer. Your 'question' is unintelligible.....
2007-01-13 13:21:21 · answer #11 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋