Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

because if you give a woman money, you're a john
but if you give a woman shiny things, she think you're sweet

which would get a man laid more by a chick, money or shiny

2007-01-09 09:59:17 · 36 answers · asked by MiKe Drazen 4 in Singles & Dating

How old are the people on here? I want to know if there's anyone that is younger or close to my age.

2007-01-09 09:58:51 · 21 answers · asked by Simon M 1 in Family

Ok so one day a girl from my school sent me a message on myspace, just a "hey hows it going?" type message. So for the past couple of months now we've been sending each other messages pretty much everyday. But heres thing, she's in a grade lower than me so I haven't really had a reason to talk to her before. But this year I have a class with her since its a split grade class, so I end up seeing her every morning. The strange thing is even though we "talk" everyday online we havent actually spoken to each other before. We've just never been put in the position to talk with one another I guess. Whenever I'd have the chance to go over and say anything she's always talking with someone and I've never walked by her in the hall where I've had a chance to say "hey"... its funny because Ive been talking to someone like 5 feet away from her and still havent really had the chance to strike up a conversation. Is this weird? Do you guys think I should just randomly walk up and say something?

2007-01-09 09:58:49 · 5 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Friends

I live in Mississippi and after hurricane Katrina a lot of men came down to work for the construction comapny I work for setting up FEMA trailers. There was this one guy in particular that I had to work with everyday. He was very nice and was really missing his wife and son back home, he had never been away from them. He has been married 10 yrs and had a 9 yr old son. He was very nice to me and we talked a lot, I did not try to hide my attraction for him, but he told me he was very happily married. After about 6 weeks into the job a bunch of us went out and we all got pretty wasted, I had my roomate arrange for him to come to my house to wait for his ride. When we got there I told him I wanted sex and he kept saying no, but after about an hour and his ride was still not there, I guess he finally could not hold out any longer and we had sex. We still talked everyday (we worked together) I did everything I could to make him love me, and when I did tell him I loved him

2007-01-09 09:57:50 · 37 answers · asked by Catina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 09:57:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it fair that my ex husband gets my daughters every summer all summer long???I can not understand why some of you talked so mean to me! He does get them every xmas break when they are out of school! Not to mention he chooses to live 1800 miles away from his kids. The only week we have to go on vacation is 3 weeks before they are suppose to come home, because we have a time share, and that is our week. I just cant believe how everybody automatically takes his side! Why????

2007-01-09 09:56:21 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please tell me the best place to look. I know my original name and my biological big sister's name. Thanks.

2007-01-09 09:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by SCOTT C 1 in Family

Is there anything either of the people can do to make it work?

2007-01-09 09:55:48 · 11 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 09:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by dabadoo 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I ask the guy I like if he wants to go to the dance with me?

2007-01-09 09:55:42 · 3 answers · asked by Samoan_gurl0966 1 in Singles & Dating

For about the last two years my boyfriend who I live with has gone out on his day off and partied, gotten drunk, and failed to return my phone calls, not called to tell me what he's up too, and failed to even come home at times, but typically he comes home between 2-6 am. We have fought like cats and dogs over this issue. I understand he needs space and time out away to hang with his friends etc. But once a week? Every week? And so he hangs out and gets drunk and stays out late I can deal with that but why does he ignore my calls and not call me to tell me whats up. He also drives around and home drunk which really gets me fired up. Please, I have tried everything to get him to change including crying, screaming, counseling, and kicking him out. I am such a good girlfriend to him too. I go out with my friends, I call. I am there for him and support him when he needs me. I feel so used and abused. What should I do? This keeps happening and its once a week sometimes twice. HELP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-09 09:55:29 · 21 answers · asked by cherastitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont want a big wedding all about me. Any suggestions?

2007-01-09 09:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by Huh? 2 in Weddings

...it's been sixth months since we started going out, and the relationship is generally OK - she is very reserved and very, very, very reserved when it comes to romantic stuff. We were best friends for 3 years before we decided to become a couple. I have fallen in love for her, but I'm pretty sure she doesn't feel the same... generally, that hurts.

Anyhow, she has not once (in sixth months) even told me that she likes me, appreciates me, is thankful that we're together. Never has she said "I miss you!" or "Thanks for always being there for me!". I try so hard to be the best boyfriend and she knows I would do anything for her (I do anyway!), and all I need to make me happy would be the occassional "I miss you" or "I like you."

I've asked her about it before, and she didn't have an excuse and said she would try to do it more. No change.

What can I do? I wouldn't mind if she expressed her love in other ways, but she doesn't.

2007-01-09 09:54:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me to strip and put on panties while using web cam but she says her 16 yr old daughter will be with her watching should I?

2007-01-09 09:54:03 · 2 answers · asked by Pantie G 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend problem. I used to have this best, and when I say best I mean it, friend for at least 2 years. But then all of a sudden she's changed. She gets suspended a lot gets detention, smokes, she even cussed out the principal, etc. She always says she'll call me but she never does, and now she hangs with this one girl none stop, and only says hi to me in the hallways in school. What should I do, she personally didn't do anything to me, but she has just changed for the worst.

2007-01-09 09:53:14 · 5 answers · asked by rockangel_72 2 in Friends

meaning that all they want is sex....but they dont want to love the person their having sex with

2007-01-09 09:52:46 · 23 answers · asked by *[.DANGEROUS.]* 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well we got in a fight and nw she says were gonna have a show she even gave me a letter and were suposed to have a commercial i want to believe her but i dont think i can so i need help

2007-01-09 09:52:27 · 10 answers · asked by nameless 2 in Friends

I'm from Virginia but I attend Ohio State University. My boyfriend still lives in VA and he recently moved in with his aunt because the rent for his apt. became too high for him to manage. He is a nonsmoker and hates living with his aunt bc she smokes in the house and he has to sleep on the couch. He has applied to attend Columbus State next year, but wants to move up here this weekend because of his problems with his aunt. Originally, he was supposed to move here in Sept. My mother is supportive but my dad has threatened to stop paying my tuition/rent next year if my b/f moves in with me. To me it seems like a good idea because he can go to school here and pay much less for an apartment with me than in VA. Is it really a good idea tho?

2007-01-09 09:51:46 · 10 answers · asked by mpress7 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

You know, that feeling when you like someone a lot and you receive affection from him? What causes this?

2007-01-09 09:51:38 · 18 answers · asked by ~Just_Jessica~ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 09:51:18 · 4 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am against sex before marriages and these are close friends of mine that are only 16! i dont no what to do! i dont even know if i want to talk to them anymore. Other friends told me i should be supportive because the girl might become pregnant. I no i should help but this is terrible. the parents wont no so i wonder if i should just say something to them on how bad it is. please give some advice.. really appreciate it

2007-01-09 09:50:40 · 6 answers · asked by ski_mgf 1 in Friends

2007-01-09 09:50:30 · 31 answers · asked by Samoan_gurl0966 1 in Friends

My mom's side grampa died 8:00 today, andits not a natural death...
In the Phillipines, they have lots of ludacris door to door dealers, and my grampa bought some herbal aromatics (supposed to soothe), but instead it was a poisonous plant. He was stuck in the hospital for around 6 months before... he died :(. The last time i wsaw him was when i was 2, so i don't really know him. I'm so sad, what do I do. And now my mom wants me to write i think like a goodbye letter, in the coffin. But i don't know how to write one, and my mom's side is deeply religious, but i am a bit atheisty. I dont know what to put, and every time i think about it i burst in tears.

2007-01-09 09:50:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been off and on all year and when we first started going out it went really fast and all of a sudden he said he wanted a break. Basically we didnt speak to each other for a month and then got back together and it has been really great. Except he wont kiss me. I've told him I want him to and he said that he doesnt know how so he's nervous and has been avoiding it. But we're both 17 and shouldnt he want to be kissing me! I'm always afraid that he just doesnt want to be with me but he tells me he likes me so is he just nervous or should it be over? How do I get him to relax and make it fun for him? I just want a good make out session but I cant even get a peck on the cheek. Someone help me.

2007-01-09 09:50:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad is in Iraq and Im going to make a braclet with a short saying on it about him/him being gone. Any ideas?

2007-01-09 09:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by LaBlueEyes 2 in Family

Women have the periods, the labor pains, the pressures of making sure the household runs smoothly. Men have blue balls, the pressures of being the man in a relationship, and no choice but to be the verbal punching bag when us women are having a bad day. Both sexes cheat, and tell white lies but when it all balls down to it which has it harder? Best answer gets the 10 points i dont care how blunt and offensive it is. I want the truth!I want answers!

2007-01-09 09:49:50 · 7 answers · asked by meka g 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I lost my virginity wen I was 15. then I started to hook up with 5 different guys..im pregnant and don’t know whos baby it is, how can I find out without my parents knowing

2007-01-09 09:48:33 · 18 answers · asked by heather 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I got into a serious argument today. It all started when he had a conversation about our finances with his parents. (my boyfriend and I live together) They have lent us some money over the past week, apprx $100. My b/f just finished up school, and I am the only one working right now. I don't make that much money and we have had to struggle to make ends meet. My boyfriends parents seem to think that our spending habits are really bad, and they think it's my fault. I do not spend money on anything other than food, gas, & cigs. We occasionally go out to eat, but not that much. His parents seem to be old fashioned and think I should be taking lunch to work everyday, cutting coupons, and basically staying in instead of going out. I personally think this is unreasonable, as I am 21 yrs old! The also said a few things to him about me and my family that really hurt. I don't understand why they are doing this? Am I right or wrong? This is causing problems with our relationship.

2007-01-09 09:48:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he found this stripper and she does not want to give her job. but they love each other so much. so he lets her do it they r going to get married. he quit his job and his colloge just for her.and he is also telling me she has dieseses.HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-09 09:47:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I've been friends with this guy for the past 2 years, and through out this time we've told each other that we love each, and stuff keeps happening. He treats me as if we're dating. But he wont ask me out. I don't understand, Why won't he just ask me if he wants the closeness that we already have plus more. There is alot of touching and toungue involved. Am I going to get hurt from this? What do I do? I am so confused?!!!????

2007-01-09 09:47:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating