Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

okay Im married and have 2 kids.. last night my husband and I were about to fall asleep so we turned off the lights.. about 3 minutes later his cell phone rings and its a girl... he starts talking to her like if Im not around and he asks her so are you still in Iraq? so Im like omg what do I do? so I started asking him who is that? like 3 times and I hear the girl say oh shoot Im sorry and she hangs up.. okay this dumb nut tells me right after that its a friend that he new since he was little and that she new that he was married... the devil came out of me and I started kicking his ***!!! I know that it was wrong but my question is if she new that he was married would she still call at that time at night and talk to him? help!!!

2007-01-09 09:22:40 · 10 answers · asked by PRI 1 in Singles & Dating

thinking about stuffing my ...... in some spandex just for laughs, and reactions.

2007-01-09 09:22:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend saw an email from this "guy" friend I have in country that I recently visited.In the email my friend just sent me an ecard saying Happy Holidays & I wish You & ur special 1 the best in the upcoming year...well he wrote this in vietnamese & my boyfriend doesn't read vietnamese that well.He thought my friend was saying some lovey dovey stuff which he wasn't.Then he came up with the idea that when I went to vietnam I cheated on him with this guy & that we had something going on beyond a friendship...We spoke on the phone on my way back home from work (We live together with his family).When I got home I tried to explain but he ignored me & after awhile I got tired and started packing my things.He got up & shouted "You have 1 day to get the **** out of my house".He started cussing at me calling me a ******* ***** & stuff...So I left ...Keep in mind that I left my house (& my mom) be with him because she did not allow us to be together...O & I'm 23 yrs old & he's my age as well.

2007-01-09 09:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by JUSTxSOMExGRL 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious...

2007-01-09 09:22:10 · 4 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 09:21:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband left me around three months ago and now he wants to get back together but he won't move in with me until he is ready he says that he doesn't want to rush it but he says that he loves me and we will be together But than I don't understand why he won't just move in. should I move on or should wait for him.

2007-01-09 09:21:18 · 23 answers · asked by tanya k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can anyone give me some websites for wedding dresses. I'm getting married March 2008 and i want some ideas on a style..thanks

2007-01-09 09:20:24 · 10 answers · asked by krmzjt21 2 in Weddings

i like this guy alot but he dont talk to me at school and he doesnt want his friends to know we go out. we took things to the next level and i for some reason regret doing it because when hes around his friends hes really quite and doesnt talk to me or he acts like an ***.he acts like hes the only dude made for me and im usually a strong headed person who doesnt get tricked by a guy but i have and i need help getting back to me i dont want to be his fool.i dont know what to do im really worried about people finding out about what we did i dont know what to do i need some really life changing advice plez try to help me out!!

2007-01-09 09:19:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with pleasure...

in exasperation or frustration...

in sadness...

in awe...


and any other reasons for sighing you can think of...;0)

2007-01-09 09:19:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 09:19:28 · 42 answers · asked by sara31294 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl after she gave me her number and met for coffee. She felt very comfortable with me from the get go because was beet red alot when I talked to her and she would extend her arm out towards me with her palms up and ask me a lot of questions about myself. She also had me sip her drinks a couple times, and asked me if I wanted to go out for drinks with her at a nice mexican restaurant after coffee. Her and I flirted some more and she laughed at practically anything I said. She also wanted to show me her new house she was trying to buy.and when I asked her for dinner she smiled broadly and said "I'd love to".

We were supposed to go out again tonight and she hasnt' returned my calls. What's the deal? It's been a week now and she's always returned my calls and has taken lengths to get in touch with me.

I know it's not me. Or is it? Why are they usually so insincere?

2007-01-09 09:18:14 · 6 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

and did it work?

2007-01-09 09:17:43 · 2 answers · asked by steve r 2 in Singles & Dating

She first walked in as I met her for my eye appt and looks incredibly hot. The first thing she said to me was after i introduced herself to me that she dated a guy with the same name as me a while back and now hes in TX. I wanted to say so badly to her well lets keep the tradtion going, what time do yo uwant me to pick u up for dinner on Friday, but noticed her wedding ring.

As she told me to lean back in the chair i said are u going to clean my teeth she chukced and said i would have to come back later for that.

Is she flirting with me? or am in la la land..

2007-01-09 09:17:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and one of my bestfriends are not friends anymore becuase she always talks **** be hind my back and talks **** about my other 2 bestfriend and calls one of the haandy capted and makes **** of all 3 of us be hind our backs becuae we are punk so do u thuink that is a stupied reson not to be friends?????

2007-01-09 09:16:39 · 15 answers · asked by **Kiss**Me Deadly**baby** 1 in Friends

2007-01-09 09:15:51 · 11 answers · asked by michael j 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a married women and I went to give my son his pill at his dad's house and my ex- kissed me. lips and all I told him that I couldn't do this because i'm married i have not told my hubby yet.

ok what I'm asking here is should I tell him that i kissed my son's dad ?

2007-01-09 09:15:45 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He lives in minnesota, and I live in Louisiana, and I asked him if this summer they could come home three weeks early so they could go on vacation with me and my family, and he is not wanting to give those 3 weeks up, saying that is his time. I have never been able to take my girls on a summer vacation with us and I don't think thats fair!! I think it would be fair, if every 3rd year he let them go 3 weeks early so they can come with us. Love to hear some opinions on this! Thanks!!!

2007-01-09 09:15:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so our first wedding anniversary is coming up and I want to make it really special...however we're kind of on a budget. We only have one whole day and night together before we get our baby boy back from the babysitter...so I want to make it super special. This past year has been stressful. He was deployed. We had our first born 13 weeks early, so he was our miracle. However lately a lot of attention has went into the baby and I want this evening to be about us. Any ideas?

2007-01-09 09:15:07 · 6 answers · asked by mysterious_qt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 09:14:35 · 18 answers · asked by Mr Potatohead 7 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy on and off for two years,and I think he wants to go back out with me.I don't know if I like him,but I do think about him,ALOT! But,i dont know if I should or not.Should I?

2007-01-09 09:14:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am making my list of people to send my wedding invitations to and I was curious to know if you send them to your bridesmaids and groomsmen. Thanks alot!

2007-01-09 09:14:21 · 24 answers · asked by Noella 2 in Weddings

sexy questions or are they too much?? I don't think they are but I am getting "hate mail" lol

I like to express myself and am happy and secure with my sexuality and clearly others are not.....

2007-01-09 09:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl at work that I like but I mest things up by being to aloof with her from the start.
I never meant to be so cold and indifferent with her but there wasn't much else I could do in my situation.
Usually after the way I've acted most women would not speak to me anymore, but despite that she continues to speak to me and often gazes at me in a very strange way.
I just want to know if you believe she is toying with me and perhaps making fun of me for being such an a**hole with her, or if there might be something there.
Also I can not ask her unless I'm sure because I might compromise my job (she's the bosses daughter).
Thanks.

2007-01-09 09:13:24 · 2 answers · asked by Nighttrotter 1 in Singles & Dating

I helped her pack her bags.......was this nice of me and should I of helped her?

2007-01-09 09:12:50 · 24 answers · asked by Puma 4 in Singles & Dating

so they know i might be interested?

male friends say i send out the wrong signals and thats why i dont get asked out on dates.
i dont want a one night stand.

what should i do?

2007-01-09 09:12:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When doin the dirty deed--- How long till you **finish**? What is the avg time, and does it vary.

Oral takes me about 20 mins
Sex takes me about 45 mins

2007-01-09 09:12:35 · 11 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I had a conversation the other day about sex and immediately afterward had the best sex we've had in months. Hoping lightning would strike twice, I tried to make another move the following week, but she wasn't interested.

I was so disappointed because I'd considered the experience to be a turning point in our sex life, but apparently I was the only one who felt this way. I want to keep trying to initiate sex, but I'm a shy guy (yes, even with my wife) and this sort of thing doesn't come naturally to me.

We both have high-stress jobs, but we have no kids. We're 24 and 22 respectively, and that seems too early to be having so little sex. I'm talking maybe once a week if we're lucky. Sometimes it seems like weeks have gone by with no sex at all.

We've done some wild, fun stuff in the past but more often than not we do the obligatory missionary in-and-out. Boring. Is more too much to ask for? If not, then how do we make it happen?

2007-01-09 09:12:34 · 10 answers · asked by Jeff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 09:12:21 · 6 answers · asked by tania 1 in Singles & Dating

She told me i have to file for it first is she correct?

2007-01-09 09:12:14 · 5 answers · asked by ljelic151 2 in Friends

2007-01-09 09:12:10 · 18 answers · asked by Conor MC 1 in Singles & Dating