My boyfriend saw an email from this "guy" friend I have in country that I recently visited.In the email my friend just sent me an ecard saying Happy Holidays & I wish You & ur special 1 the best in the upcoming year...well he wrote this in vietnamese & my boyfriend doesn't read vietnamese that well.He thought my friend was saying some lovey dovey stuff which he wasn't.Then he came up with the idea that when I went to vietnam I cheated on him with this guy & that we had something going on beyond a friendship...We spoke on the phone on my way back home from work (We live together with his family).When I got home I tried to explain but he ignored me & after awhile I got tired and started packing my things.He got up & shouted "You have 1 day to get the **** out of my house".He started cussing at me calling me a ******* ***** & stuff...So I left ...Keep in mind that I left my house (& my mom) be with him because she did not allow us to be together...O & I'm 23 yrs old & he's my age as well.
2007-01-09 09:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by JUSTxSOMExGRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok my friend who doen't have an account is seeking answers so that above is her...She really really needs advice so please help out...THANKYOU, Oyeah they have been together for 5 years...
2007-01-09 09:24:11 · update #1
It's a shame that after 5 years of being together that he wasn't aware of the e-mails etc with this Vietnamese man. Perhaps if they had discussed the situation and fact that she was chatting with another male on line he might not have blown his fuse. Not trying to defend his actions or anything but the internet does allow for many opportunities for cheating and if one partner is going to be chatting with a member of the opposite sex their partner should always be aware of it in advance. Suggest that she try once again to chat with her boyfriend after he has cooled down a bit and honestly inform him of everything that was written in another language and that her visit was purely innocent while on vacation.
2007-01-09 09:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be to tell him to take the ecard print it out and research it on his own. Then when he realizes you told the truth tell him now he can stick it where the sun don't shine and move on... You can love if you don't trust.
2007-01-09 17:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need him. You can make it on your own. If he loved you he would trust you. And he doesn't. There is much better out there for you. You can make it.
2007-01-09 17:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to accuse you he is no good for you!
2007-01-09 17:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋