I met a girl after she gave me her number and met for coffee. She felt very comfortable with me from the get go because was beet red alot when I talked to her and she would extend her arm out towards me with her palms up and ask me a lot of questions about myself. She also had me sip her drinks a couple times, and asked me if I wanted to go out for drinks with her at a nice mexican restaurant after coffee. Her and I flirted some more and she laughed at practically anything I said. She also wanted to show me her new house she was trying to buy.and when I asked her for dinner she smiled broadly and said "I'd love to".
We were supposed to go out again tonight and she hasnt' returned my calls. What's the deal? It's been a week now and she's always returned my calls and has taken lengths to get in touch with me.
I know it's not me. Or is it? Why are they usually so insincere?
2007-01-09 09:18:14 · 6 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would reach out to her one more time in a few days and if you get no response, then unfortunately, things took a turn for the worst...don't try to figure it out just remember she's female don't try to rationalize their behavior or you'll get a blood clot in your brain
2007-01-09 09:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre analyzing the small details of her body language too much. also, I doubt you specifally stated your intent.
You have to make it crystal clear to the girl you are there as a romantic interest. Just by having a date doesnt mean sh!t to a girl
You have to be willing to risk the friendship for that.
2007-01-09 17:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by undrgrndhiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something like this happened to me and the reason was that the girl got back with her ex so she was avioding me. Maybe that is the reason that she dosent want to get in touch with u.
2007-01-09 17:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She is not into you OR
2. You waited too long to call her and she figured you weren't that into her.
If a guy has my number and does call it within one week...I forget about him and find someone else who is more interested.
How long did you wait before you called her??? If it was a day or two and she did NOT call, she is not into you.
2007-01-09 17:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes busy, meet someone else, or really wasnt that interested u know had a change of heart........maybe was already taken and was planing on leaveing but patched things up
2007-01-09 17:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by debbie o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You missed your window of opportunity. If she was ever into you, she's not anymore.
2007-01-09 17:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋