okay Im married and have 2 kids.. last night my husband and I were about to fall asleep so we turned off the lights.. about 3 minutes later his cell phone rings and its a girl... he starts talking to her like if Im not around and he asks her so are you still in Iraq? so Im like omg what do I do? so I started asking him who is that? like 3 times and I hear the girl say oh shoot Im sorry and she hangs up.. okay this dumb nut tells me right after that its a friend that he new since he was little and that she new that he was married... the devil came out of me and I started kicking his ***!!! I know that it was wrong but my question is if she new that he was married would she still call at that time at night and talk to him? help!!!
2007-01-09 09:22:40 · 10 answers · asked by PRI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
welll...
maybe she forgot about the time difference.....
2007-01-09 09:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by geezer 51 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a time difference between here and Iraq. She probably forgot or she wouldn't have called when she knew he would be with his WIFE. Don't apologize for the "devil" coming out of you. Guys with dumbas-s excuses when they get caught with their pants down give the rest of us guys a bad name. So your next question should be, "How long has this been going on." Let's face it, this is not the first time they have "talked". Don't let him bullshit you that it was. Tell him either he's honest with you or he'll have to be honest with your lawyer.
2007-01-09 17:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get too worked up over this, it could easily be a one-of occasion. For know, give your husband the benifit of the doubt but if it happens again you have a right to ask.
2007-01-09 17:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by without.question 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she knows that he is married and it really was innocent why did she hang up the phone like that, if it was innocent and she did hear you talking then she should of just kept on with the conversation. you have every right to be suspicous and you just need to talk to him about it and not jump to conclusions.
2007-01-09 17:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably forgot about the time difference, if he's telling the truth she's in Iraq and not lieing cause you were there, to tell you the truth she was probably scared about something that happen at that moment in Iraq than you.
2007-01-09 17:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.... The question should be, if she knew he was married, and it was completely innocent... why would she hang up the phone after realizing you were around???
2007-01-09 17:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuor husband is out of line and you have a right to be suspisious...but kicking his *** doesn't really solve anything...I'd put it to him about what is really going on...sounds pretty fishy to me
2007-01-09 17:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was inappropriate,insulting and disrespectful behavior on his part....You should be offended and hurt...
He needs to know about it in no uncertain terms...
2007-01-09 17:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prolly told her the marriage was not going well (on the verge of divorce). she's naive, and beleived his lies. not your fault or hers, its you hunband's. tell him you wanna speak to her next time she calls. be ahead of the game girlfriend.
stay strong
bye
2007-01-09 17:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by printhur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur man is so dum u were right to do wat u did u go girl
2007-01-09 17:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Dreamer 02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋