i like this guy alot but he dont talk to me at school and he doesnt want his friends to know we go out. we took things to the next level and i for some reason regret doing it because when hes around his friends hes really quite and doesnt talk to me or he acts like an ***.he acts like hes the only dude made for me and im usually a strong headed person who doesnt get tricked by a guy but i have and i need help getting back to me i dont want to be his fool.i dont know what to do im really worried about people finding out about what we did i dont know what to do i need some really life changing advice plez try to help me out!!
2007-01-09 09:19:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't want to be his fool, then don't. Drop him and move on. What you have done with him can't be undone. Just move on and hope no one finds out. If they do, deal with it the best you can.
2007-01-09 09:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by tootsie1115 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off if you were worried about people finding out you would not have do it. NO you played yourself cause you just gave him permission to wipe his feet on you anytime and you still be there smiling. the only thing you can do now is leave him alone & get over the fact that he might tell what's done is done.And for gods sake your in school there shouldn't be a next level but grades.
2007-01-09 17:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by baby11kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need life changing advice - you already know the answer, but are too afraid to admit it. You're not being played, he's just a little boy. You're an adult, and whatever age you are, you seem ready to handle an adult relationship - so leave him to play with his friends, and find someone more worthy - this time look beyond the physical for someone who has a body and mind to match.
Good luck!
2007-01-09 17:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. This is what you do...Hold your head up wherever you go. Don't be ashamed, learn something from what your part in this was (maybe you're too easy?) and move on. Don't be afraid of people finding out. It's none of their business and you don't have to answer to anyone.
DO NOT go out with this guy again. He is a loser. And if you are going to have sex...use protection!!!
2007-01-09 17:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who just looves you in private and is a butt in public is either socially retarded or just trying to get laid and isn't even cool about it!.
Yes, it certainly sounds like you're being played to me.
It's always flattering to be pursued yet you sound mature and wise enough to now know the difference.
This time.
Your job is to follow your feelings and hunches and act accordingly.
2007-01-09 17:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being played. Get out while you can. He should be proud to be dating you, and not worry if others find out. The only reason he wants it secret is so he can also sleep with other girls. Odds are, you are not the only secret girl he has.
2007-01-09 17:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u see him u act the same way he does towards u!!! since u took it to the next level, then i would say his friends already know!!!! just dont worry about it things happen!!!!
2007-01-09 17:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him.... cut your loses. Women always do this! Why do you choose to be treated like ****??? Must you have too go for the ***** in the world?? Find a nice guy... ditch him. If you don't then don't ***** about it later... your call
2007-01-09 17:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by emtyen69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a PlayStation controller protruding from your behind.
In all seriousness this guy needs a reality check, as that is just not right either he tells his friends or you do!
2007-01-09 17:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion - if you THINK you are getting played, you probably are. That fact that you picked up on it makes you smarter than the average teenage girl. You should pat yourself on the back, and dump the loser.
2007-01-09 17:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋