Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

This girl that works in a restaurant I go to once a week either looks at me frequently or sometimes stares at me. She also seems to be in my part of the restaurant often when I am there. I do not mind her looking because she is quite attractive and I will look back at her sometimes and normally catch her looking at me. I would like to get to know her better. Do you think she finds me attractive and should I approach her without much fear of rejection?

2007-01-09 09:37:03 · 3 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

I live in California and met a woman from the phillipines , so there are no other partys involved just her and I , she said it is a ton of money and I dont understand why? including or noty including travel expenses can someone offer me a better understanding of this?

2007-01-09 09:36:44 · 2 answers · asked by to_scottd 2 in Weddings

me and my fiance are getting married in a court house i was wondering if its appropriate to wear just a little casual wedding dress just like people wear when they go on an island like virgin island to get married and i hope its not to expensive when i rent it how much would it be and what website could i go to rent h prettiest and cheapest one.
thanks god bless you all happy new year.

2007-01-09 09:36:05 · 19 answers · asked by dont fuck with me 1 in Weddings

We were at this party and my friends boyfriend for almost a year kissed me. Hes also one of my really good friends, the kind of friends you can tell anything too. And at the party we were at he told me he didn't want 2 be with her anymore and that he wanted 2 go out with me and I kinda like him, I'v known him longer than her and 2 break up with her he told everybody that we slept together, even when I told him I just wanted 2 be friends, now her and everybody elsa won't even speak or look at me. And this is the kind of place where everybody knows everybody and their so hate'in on me. Can someone give me a litttle advice on what 2 do?

2007-01-09 09:36:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Personally, I don't want to be married. I don't even know if I want to live with a guy. I don't think I can be happy with the same person for the rest of my life, I think eventually I'll get bored. Your thoughts?

2007-01-09 09:35:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay...theres this guy i like alot. so like a couple months ago, at a dance, my friends asked him if he would dance with me and he said that he didnt know.

besides, i ve only talked to him like one time..so i have one class with him and we always seem to be looking at eachother, but for the last week or so, he hasnt as much. he seems really shy and so am i. i dont know if he likesme because agian, we never really talked to eachother.

his friend is always asking my friends who likes him so he could find him a girlfriend since he's never had one before. and like last friday my friend called him and sai dthat i thought he was sexy.... THEN on saturday my friend texts me and asks what im doing tonight b/c HE texted her saying he wanted to go somewhere with her and HER FRIEND (prob meaning me). she said that he said that he thinks he kniw who like him and it was one of her frends agian.
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO SO HELPP =)
**much apprecaited

2007-01-09 09:35:23 · 6 answers · asked by umm hey 1 in Singles & Dating

we have a lot of makeup and dresses that are his size my friend is also gonna bring a manicure and pedicure set. he is a REALLY deep sleeper

2007-01-09 09:35:22 · 24 answers · asked by halobeast 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Qualities?
Attributes?
Character?
Personality?
Does her past really Matter?

2007-01-09 09:34:43 · 3 answers · asked by xiavera a 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband goes on several "conferences" and "workshops" leaving me to take care of our two children (one is autistic) by myself for 5 to 8 days at a time. After waiting all day to see when he would be home, he just called me at 4 pm to tell me that his 7:30 am flight was changed and he missed it this morning. He was just leaving the airport when he called me. He does this all the time. He will actually tell his Mom or sister about it but never call me. Am I totally crazy or is he just an inconsiderate jerk?

2007-01-09 09:33:02 · 41 answers · asked by StormyC 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i know if a guy really likes me without asking him or him just coming out and telling me ?

2007-01-09 09:32:08 · 3 answers · asked by lovefergieangel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 09:30:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that men will fall for girls they have nothing in common with, will sit with them for hours watching tv they don't like, even when the girl isnt particularly keen on sex, or interested in the things he's interested in, when there are women he could find who would be up for all the things he's up for? I mean, is love really just that arbitrary? Does it just choose its victims randomly? There must be a reason.

2007-01-09 09:29:56 · 6 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that when I'm at the gym, after I'm done using the bike the guy that works there runs over and sniffs the seat?
Should I complain about this individual or just let him get off on my scent?

I'm very serious!! This happens!!

2007-01-09 09:29:45 · 25 answers · asked by CURVY 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend Lizzie got mad at me for putting a nickle down her shirt (and she couldn't get it out cuz it was stuck in between her boobs) so she yelled at me and told me She wasnt my friend anymore(and we have been best friends for ever). Then in 7th period today she said dont talk to me and pulled my hair!!! So I kicked her and she pulled my hair again!! And she kept pulling my hair till school was over!!! What should I do?

2007-01-09 09:29:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am not proud of it, but I had an affair last year. It was with a younger man,a type I had never been with before. I was flattered that he chose me, as wrong as it all was, but it was still all so very exciting. We had great,though yes, furtive times and I fell for him hard. I never had any intentions of leaving my husband, and I am so very very lucky it was never found out. My lover and I were "together"for almost 2 1/2 years and all during that time he dated off and on. I had been married for 9 years when it began, and I guess I was just bored,plus I was also starting to drink more. It was a really screwed up time in my life and I know I should be grateful that I have such a wonderful husband, but I can't help thinking about "him". Plus this is a small town and I can run into him as often as I want to. I have been trying to avoid the places,and have been doing okay, but today I saw his truck again, and I got the urge to call. I did'nt.

2007-01-09 09:29:31 · 15 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am newly single after a 7 year relationship amd am 5 months pregnant . Never really did the daiting thing before since i got tied down so young . Now i am 22 and scared that i will be alone for ever with a baby. I work fulltime and am a college student . (1 year left!!! ) i am just looking for some opinions hopefully that will help ease my mind

2007-01-09 09:29:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

O.K. This is a long story kinda. Ok, it was a school dance (7th grade) and i told my friend who i liked. He told his Girlfriend and she got me a slow dance. we danced 3 times (out of 4 slow dances) and we both liked each other. That was my first dance and im still kinda shy about her. The weekend my friend sayd to some1 that i wasnt going to ask her out. When he said that he was talking about at the dance. She somehow overheard and got mad or something. Then at school, i guess people saw us dancing and then everyone started thinking we were going out. she doesnt like the publicity, and the same with me. Now in the middle of school 2 of her friends say pretend nothing happened or something at the dance. THEN i asked her other friend and she said she just didnt want the publicity and still wanted to go out or something....i wanna ask her out but itll seem stupid if shes says pretend it never happened. should i just wait for something to happpen or take my chances.

2007-01-09 09:28:47 · 9 answers · asked by corvette806 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend craked on me in front of my crush

2007-01-09 09:26:56 · 10 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Singles & Dating

alrite...at the beginning of this year i went into grade 10 with some friends..but i only had one that was really close to me ...and well i decided to make the decision to try and make new friends..and for me its not that hard...im not popular or anything..i just know alot of ppl..but this year i had a grade nine drama class..and i made a new friend her name was Vanessa..and well i had just lost my best friend that i had known since i was 4...so to me she felt like she was the closest person to me..we started doing everything together and we became best friends and just recently we have this drama EXAM its our final exam and i went and asked her to work with her and i thought she would just be like yes or id love to but instead she just was like oh sorri im working with Hilary..and you have the option to work in 2 or 3..all my life i had to deal with exclusion and i thought it would never happen again but it did BY MY BEST FRIEND everyone already has a group (of 2 or 3 ..wht do i do?

2007-01-09 09:26:49 · 6 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Friends

When you first get a girl's number is it better to call her or text her to start getting to know each other? And if you are texting how do you know if she is interested?

2007-01-09 09:26:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i fell for the worlds most beautiful woman ever and had an amazing time together, i loved every single thing about her. sadly we broke up and we met on a night out 2-3 months after we broken up and i felt the same way then as i did on the second night i had met her. axactly a year ago. it felt lik love to me, but can it be possible, im crazy about her now and were good mates but i want so mch more.what do i do and is it possible?
scott.g

2007-01-09 09:26:29 · 12 answers · asked by scott g 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 09:26:16 · 9 answers · asked by cookiecooks99 1 in Family

ok my x-bf and i broke up about a year ago. i've been dating this new guy for almost 9 months now. and im having trouble stopping my ex from coming to my house still. i have asked him many times to stop coming to my goddamn house, but he wont stop. he claimed he doesn't come to see me, he comes to see my mother, (W. T. F). i feel powerless. i have no feelings for him whatsoever, i just want him out of my life for real. im tired of bumping into him when he comes over.

my family is so unsupportive. (lets say if my mother knew i've asked him not to come over, she would yell at me. i am not even kidding). when we broke up, i did not hate him, now i cant stand him. i know he's doing it on purpose, thats what pissed me off the most.
my new bf is mad as hell at the situation, and theres no way i can fix it. he has never been to my house. soon i will want him to meet my parents, how awkard will it be, having that freak coming over as if he owns the my goddanm house.

what should i do or say?

2007-01-09 09:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 09:24:47 · 9 answers · asked by *never give up* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex where going out for a while and then he broke up with me becuz his ex was saying that she loved him so much when i had said ya i guess becuz we had just met...... if he asked me it agian i would deffinetly say that i liked him alot more then she did and i see him like 4 times a day at school and my friends arent really helping there just making it a big joke... i really want him back but how?!and please dont say "let him go" becuz i cant!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-09 09:24:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been in PA for a couple months now and haven't been having much luck finding a job or even many friends. I'm thinking about possibally returning to Cali. or maybe going down to Fla. for a while. I fear moving again, i've done it so many times, i wonder if i can change my life and what about my newest friends
My other delema is a little more complex. I have a child in IL whos mother is mentally unhealthy and hates me and everyone else. I left there to try and give her some peace but, she hates me even more now. Shes keeps me from having any part of my little girls life and even though i should just move on and forget i find my heart always wanting to lead me back there. She didn't let me be part of her life when i did live there she just took as much money as she could and involved the cops or other men everytime i wanted to see her. I'm affraid if i move again that i will loose all contacts to her but, i need to establish a life again if i ever want to have the chance to leagaly

2007-01-09 09:24:24 · 6 answers · asked by Hopless Romantic 1 in Family

It is just a hard time in her life, as is anyone in there late 20's trying to be independent. How can I encourage her to hang in there?

2007-01-09 09:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by ~Lizzy~ 3 in Friends

سأحبّك حتى تفصلنا الإله وكلّ شيء أعمله، أعمله لك. عندما أشعر بالحزن أفكّر بانك عندي فأبدو سعيدا ثانية. فانك من وضع الإبتسامة على وجهي

2007-01-09 09:23:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I concieved before he left to Iraq. We were stationed in Alaska and I decided it would be un-wise and un-safe for my to live by myself in that state/climate. I don't get medical coverage within the region that my hometown is located, so I was left with the option to stay with my in-laws (who are in the same medical region). At first I thought it was a wonderful idea, but the longer I stay at their house the longer I go CRAZY! I have always hated when people touch my stomach but being pregnant makes it even worse; people seem to be magnitized to my belly. My mother in law being #1 on the list. She grabs it, kisses it, talks to it, shakes it, pokes it, and so much more. Now this may not seem that bad, but she'll do it for 30 minutes at a time, or will wake me up before she leaves for work to do so, etc. She's very emotionaly sensitive and I'm not sure how to tell her without hurting her feelings. She's obsessed and this will be her 3rd grandchild! WHAT DO I DO?!?!

2007-01-09 09:23:16 · 23 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family

If you were approach by another woman and she said she was interested in you but you have never been with a woman what would you do? Would be be interested? Would you be open to see what happens? Would he be disgusted? Please give me some advice here and let me know what would you do?

2007-01-09 09:22:46 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating