O.K. This is a long story kinda. Ok, it was a school dance (7th grade) and i told my friend who i liked. He told his Girlfriend and she got me a slow dance. we danced 3 times (out of 4 slow dances) and we both liked each other. That was my first dance and im still kinda shy about her. The weekend my friend sayd to some1 that i wasnt going to ask her out. When he said that he was talking about at the dance. She somehow overheard and got mad or something. Then at school, i guess people saw us dancing and then everyone started thinking we were going out. she doesnt like the publicity, and the same with me. Now in the middle of school 2 of her friends say pretend nothing happened or something at the dance. THEN i asked her other friend and she said she just didnt want the publicity and still wanted to go out or something....i wanna ask her out but itll seem stupid if shes says pretend it never happened. should i just wait for something to happpen or take my chances.
2007-01-09 09:28:47 · 9 answers · asked by corvette806 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sack up and ask her out man, what have you got to lose? She likes you, you like her, who cares what other people think.
2007-01-09 09:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by snookums 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you should go and ask her out and tell her that you know I know you don't like the publiicity so am I. I am very shy but my heart right now beating so fast if you want to feel it you can but, I truly would like go out with you. If you want no one to know we going out then just between us nobody else. it would be great and easy.
I do hope you can see why I like you because you being you. you just being you becasue you made me like you more and made want to know you more. Your smile and when I dance with you I feel safe and feel conforable being around you. when you got mad found about about this publicity and then act like nothing happen. you don't need to feel that way or feel only person I am too. I think we gonna have a great length of this because the more you trust me and the more i trust you... it would be funny until we in high school and then everyone see us holding hands and they would ask us how long you been together? we can tell them well no need to know about us... yes we are together but other than that not need to know.
Really need to tell her how you feel and if you feel you need to kiss her go for it. reason why she will melt and feel weak. How I know my wife and I been together for 9 years now.. so, i think you should go for it and give a try an tell her who knows might happen... if not then we know that we can always be friends. I don't want to end and not talking to each other i want always if works out great if not then i could use a friend like you because the trust we already build.
if you go and do it and come back if that works give me best answer if not then maybe becasue you hearing and I am deaf but my wife is hearing. smiling.
2007-01-09 17:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, your question is a bit complicated but i think i get it. im in 9th, so im not too far fom you, and my brother is in 7th, and he gets a mess of girl problems. if you really like the girl, it doesnt matter what any of her friends say, talk to her. become closer with her and ask her if she really does like you. dont listn to what anyone else says, he could be lying out of jealousy or thy dont likt th thought of you and her together. dont be scared b/c it will only hold you bak from your opourtunities. if she doesnt like you that way, at least you can still be friends. you will find hat having a friend thats a girl can come in handy later. you can figure out what girls like you, or have someone to talk and open up to. make sure you can trust her though. and one more thing, dont listen to 7th grade gossip. its like 98% of the time not true and just creates drama, and you should ask the person if its really true. hope it works out
2007-01-09 17:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her at the earliest opportunity as there is no time like the present. I have erred on the side of caution all too often. You've got nothing to lose!
2007-01-09 17:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the hardest things for a man to do when asking women out on dates is to accept rejection. Once you can get over that its smooth sailing.
2007-01-09 18:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by CamaroBoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never be afraid to take a chance.
2007-01-09 17:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn.. boy ur young. why don't u like publicity again? those kids are gonna get over it in about 1 day. if you like her, go get!!! who cares wat other ppl think?!?!??!? they just kidss!!! you should tell her that too.
2007-01-09 17:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by marsha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
catch her when she's alone and ask her out
2007-01-09 17:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your chances
2007-01-09 17:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by sherry312 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋