Personally, I don't want to be married. I don't even know if I want to live with a guy. I don't think I can be happy with the same person for the rest of my life, I think eventually I'll get bored. Your thoughts?
2007-01-09 09:35:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My wife thinks I'm her entertainment director for making her life fun and interesting.
I think she's bored that I'm not "doing my job"..
uuhhmmmm...
2007-01-09 09:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by MK6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are lots of people who don't want to get married and for all different reasons. I didn't want to get married and I always turned guys down when it got to that stage. That was until I met someone who was like me. We got married and I still feel really independent and not at all tied down. If I feel restless and bored that's my problem not his and I just need to get out more and make more of a life for myself. Whether you're single or not it's still down to you what you do with your life. One person can never be everything anyway, you get different things from all the people in your life and from the things you do. In the right relationship there is freedom, you can be monogamous but still be free to do what you want and have the life you want as long as you are on the same wavelength as your partner.
2007-01-09 09:45:53 · answer #2 · answered by getfit chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I use to feel the exact same way. And to be honest after I got married when I was 21 I couldnt stand the man I married thought variety was the spice of life. So thank god we divorced. At age 33 I remarried and do not regret it one minute, you just have to find the right guy not a guy you can live with but a guy you can not live without.
2007-01-09 09:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I entirely disagree with you. I think marriage is a beautiful thing, and i definitely want to get married some day. If you can find one amazing person to spend the rest of your life with, then why not?
2007-01-09 09:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to get married.
I think the possibility of living with someone for the rest of my life is possible, although slim. There is just so much that can go wrong and I'm pretty unwilling to compromise in some things. I don't want to hold anyone back and I don't want to be held back. I don't want to rush anyone, and I don't want anyone to rush me. That balance is almost impossible to find. And most people ultimately "settle" because they don't want to be alone.
Nothing wrong with being alone. But don't tell that to someone who believes the only reason to live is to grow a family.
Happy singlehood...
2007-01-09 09:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always wanted to get married, since I was old enough to know what marriage was. And now I am married (for almost a year!!) and I'm so unbelievably happy. But that being said, I don't recommend it to anyone who isn't 100% sure and committed to it because it is HARD WORK.
2007-01-09 09:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to get married right now. I'm 29 and have a hard time sharing my space "forever". I hope one day, I meet someone that will make me not think this way. I am way to independant. It's not the same person forever, it's the space issue for me.
2007-01-09 09:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say wise people learn from others experiences and considering that i got married to the one i loved and thought i couldnt live without and it ended in an ugly divorce just recently i would say I DONT THINK SO!
Even if you are in love ,believe me love takes a back seat when you wake up to a zillion problems every day which were non-existent when you were single.Its just too big a price to pay.Namely FREEDOM!
2007-01-09 10:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by ytee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No two people are the same. One of the worst things we can do is compare ourselves to any one else.
Some can live in bliss together forever, some can't even do that for hours.
Just go with whatever works for you.
2007-01-09 09:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Rowdy Yayhoot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, surely you know marriage or living with someone w/o marriage doesn't have to = "rest of your life"
I've been married and don't feel it important that I do that again...but that doesn't mean I wouldn't enjoy having a partner again and sharing my life with someone, as long as it was good and right for us both.
2007-01-09 09:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I use to think the exact same thing. When the right guy comes along, all those thoughts changed pretty fast. Good luck
2007-01-09 09:38:36 · answer #11 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋