2007-01-09 09:51:18 · 4 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When you fall out of love with someone you don't even feel attracted or them or want to be around them. You think about other people or wanting to find someone else. You think about everything that makes you not want to be with your partner and how unhappy you are. There is no comfort in falling out of love.
When you are still in love with someone you still feel attracted to them and you want to be around them. You don't necessarily get butterflies in the stomach because you have more emotional attachment to the person than a physical attraction. It's less about the sex and more about just spending time with the other person doing other activities...
You can be more at ease with your partner and sometimes get too comfortable I think...sometimes this is where guys begin to get kinda thoughtless in how they behave because they are in the comfort zone. Farting and belching is seen as more exceptable to alot of guys after they have been with someone a long time...
Hope this helps...
2007-01-09 09:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you fall out of love with a person you would probably feel kind of uncomfortable in their presence and probably don't want them around at all. However it you are just progressing into the relationship and getting comfortable with them you would still enjoy having them around but you might not be quite on your best behavior as much as you used to and if you aren't careful that might start to think that you no longer cared and were beginning to take them for granted.
2007-01-09 18:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, that one can be difficult to determine because sometimes they can feel the same. usually if you don't miss them if you're gone for a period of time (not hours but days), perhaps there's something wrong. you may have fallen out of love with them. at least that's how it was for me to determine. sometimes, to bring that love back as well as getting rid of the comfort stage - you need to spice things up a bit. re-engage with one another. i'm not just talking about sex, but something the both of you can come together and realize that you do love one another and bring back that old feeling.
2007-01-09 17:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are confusing love with that initial sex thing, anyway after 2 years or so, sometimes sooner, you just have somebody there to keep happy and fed mostly. It can be nice too sometimes. Boring too, but nice anyway sometimes. Two people working at life can make it a lot easier.
Sometimes like my parents, its almost like its just one person. 54 years together I think.
2007-01-09 18:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋