i am against sex before marriages and these are close friends of mine that are only 16! i dont no what to do! i dont even know if i want to talk to them anymore. Other friends told me i should be supportive because the girl might become pregnant. I no i should help but this is terrible. the parents wont no so i wonder if i should just say something to them on how bad it is. please give some advice.. really appreciate it
2007-01-09 09:50:40 · 6 answers · asked by ski_mgf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they are truly your friends you need to accept them for who they are and respect them for what they did - because that was their choice. They did not force you, or put peer pressure on you to do anything that you didn't want to do. If something happens and she becomes pregnant it is their issue to deal with - not yours...let them go to their parents if they need to. If you do - you will lose them as friends...its that simple - I know I would never trust you as my friend if you went behind my back....be careful
2007-01-09 09:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's right for you might not be right for them. Now if she gets pregnant and doesn't tell her parents by the thrid month then yes I would send them a unsigned note in the mail. Good Luck
2007-01-09 18:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by baby11kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they had sex things happen!!! just because ur waiting til marriage doesnt mean that all ur friends r going to be like u, everybody is different. if u dont want to talk to them well i guess ur not a true friend!!! listen to ur other friends and be supportive
2007-01-09 17:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody makes mistakes. Stand strong for what you believe in but don't dump your friends. You can tell them of your dissapointment but cannot control what they do.
2007-01-09 18:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all I want you to study your verbs
second, they share their secret with you but it is still a private matter so stop judging and be a friend
your moral it yours don't push it on others
2007-01-09 18:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell somebody knowledgeable, that you totally trust
2007-01-09 17:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by sherry312 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋