meaning that all they want is sex....but they dont want to love the person their having sex with
2007-01-09 09:52:46 · 23 answers · asked by *[.DANGEROUS.]* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your brain was submersed, at 3 months old in the womb, actually pickled in testosterone!!!!!!!!!! you might be thinking about sex every 3 seconds as well
men are horny and have little choice about it, it is VERY basic!!!!! and natural, there is nothing wrong with that.
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2007-01-09 09:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by lowroad 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here is the truth, most men don't just go after women they want a relationship with. Most men going after women they would have sex with. It is a very important part of relationships and for guys it is huge. Is it a bad thing? I guess it depends on how the guy acts or treats the person he is with. Men will always be like this, it is something you need to get use to.
Also, sex is easier than love.
However there are guys out there who are looking for relationships. But I guarentee sex is on their mind just as much. Any man who says he wants a relationship and is not thinking about sex, is a liar in my book.
However, women are becoming the same way.
As I said, sex is easy, relationships and love are hard.
Best of luck.
2007-01-09 10:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by yourlordandsavoirjesushchrist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman and i think i have an idea, men want sex to satisfy the immediate urge, or arousel which yes is all part of nature they cannot help that also it is a kind of cop out for them, because they can have sex with umptine women and walk easily away from that, but to love someone there is more involvement here, and some men seem to be almost afraid of that kind of commitment sex is detached, in the fact that these men are not emotionally attached to the woman, in order for them to love they have to become emotionally involved and that scares them.
2007-01-09 20:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It easy to seperate the two. I can love you and never wanna have sex with you and vice versa.
The point is; they are not associated to each other in the way society keeps leading us to believe. I would rather not have sex for a long time then fall in love in a short time. Reason being, too many people confuse things such as infatuation and attraction for love. When it comes to sex, there is no confusion, ya either do it or you don't and it is what it is.
By the way, women do the same just as much as we do.
2007-01-09 10:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't apply to all men, but most men are so hyped up on testosterone the only thing they can focus on for more than a minute is sex. It's natural pig behavior. If you meet a real guy sex won't even cross his mind until he loves you.
2007-01-09 09:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't put sex before love. I had a load of chances to have sex before I met my girlfriend, but I didn't do it. I love her, so, go figure.
Not all men are the same, remember!
2007-01-09 09:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have been taught by women to behave this way. If a guy does fall in love with a woman and treats her the way she always dreamed of being treated she will get bored with him and move on to a man whose world doesn't revolve around her.
We usually learn by Middle school or High School (some never learn) that the way to get women to want you is not to be the kind of man they want....but to be the kind of man they want to change.
2007-01-09 10:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men are like that, I am not I put off sex as long as I could with my girlfriend for atleast 5 months but I did it because I loved her, those other guys do not know how to love a girl for them, they love her with their "toy"
2007-01-09 09:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Cyrax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if there is a special look in the eyes that goes beyond love sometimes, it stems from the pysical attraction and because of that a man can't help himself when he starts to bust his zipper, its instinct, human nature which is basically derived from ANIMALS. Lets face it things will go a whole lot easier, if the sex is introduced either in the beginning or shortly after......................................
2007-01-09 10:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by WURSTNGHTMARE61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual pleasure is very powerful to men.
If a man is truly in love with a woman, He is willing to wait until the woman is ready. If he does not want to wait, he is not in love.
The heart has different feelings than the beef steak below the belt.
2007-01-09 10:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Big P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't the way it was with me when I was married.I wanted to love the person and then have sex with that same person.Sex without love is not much fun to me.
2007-01-09 10:01:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋