Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

Did you find that person again?

2007-01-09 10:48:26 · 5 answers · asked by brinkhaul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well ok, Im 14...might as well start off like this> for the last two years i was homeschooled and this year i came back to school (8th) grade and I got a boyfriend. Weve been bf/gf for a month now w/out goin on any dates er whatever but then he asked me to the movies this friday and I told him that id ask. Soo, i ask my mom ok- and since ive never hadda boyfriend before of Course this is a first. She tells me she has to think about it and that "id actually prolly be less likely to do anything at this age then when you get older but then again i dont know." And this gets me mad cuz she doesnt trust me! But anyway shes gotta "talk" to my dad about it right? Well recently----ten minutes ago---- I casually brought it up and my dad told me my BROTHER would have to come as a chaperone and idano if he is serious?! But whatever...it doesnt look like im gonna get to go so what do you people think? Am i too young to get dropped off @ the movies then be picked up when its over???

2007-01-09 10:48:13 · 6 answers · asked by kykygoo 3 in Singles & Dating

i bumped into a neighbour today ...when i asked how are you...he said that he was tired as he'd spent too much time lately 'Googling the fendangos'...anyone actually know what this means???...as i have no idea...;0)

2007-01-09 10:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out today my parents are breaking up. I know it's a fairly common thing and I'm not different than any other child of divorce, but that doesn't make things any easier. I'm angry at my parents...angry at me for being angry at them....I'm just angry at everyone. I dont know what's going on. They never fought and everything seemed like normal, and then all of a sudden they told my sister and I....I don't know.....it's just kind of crazy right now. How the hell am I supposed to deal with this?

2007-01-09 10:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by pookie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for several years. For fun, I tried setting up a threesome, my wife agreed to see what would happen. Well, after getting the other girl to start kissing me, my wife told me to stop making out with her and I didn't for about ten to fifteen minutes. Now a half a year later, my wife started playing on the Internet more and more, but I just put it off as her finding a new toy. She told me she had a developed a good friendship with this guy in a far away state, and I just said good, not wanting to make her feel as if I was controlling. I started to get suspicious when she began clicking out of the program as I would walk into the room, so I checked it after she left one day. After getting into her e-mail I found where she had sent several pics of herself in erotic positions with only her bottoms on. I am obviously outraged that she would betray my trust, but I'm not sure how to continue.

2007-01-09 10:46:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I left him because he was very controlling but now i think he can change. The problem is that he wont tell his female friend that we are back together. I have even caught them Instant Messaging and texting eachother. He says they are just friends but why wouldnt he tell her that we are back together?

2007-01-09 10:46:29 · 5 answers · asked by tanya k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been 2gether a little over 2 years (i'm 20 y/o) . He thinks I've cheated on him, which I haven't; I'm going 2 pay 2 get a lie detector test to prove it to him. He treats me soooo horribly over it. He tells me he hates me, throws things at me. ... He calls me a slut, whore, and disgusting. His best friend told him we slept together and we didn't... he's always staring at me and I know he's attracted to me but I can't stand him. That's why he thinks I cheated. Everytime I go 2 leave him he cries and begs me to stay and says he's sorry. I'm not going to leave him b/c I love him and after this test, everything is going to be OK. Anyway... he has treated me so badly that about 4 months ago I had someone in a training class @ work that I thought was cute. I told him about it and I left out that I wondered what it would be like to hang with him. I told him today because I felt guilty. Now he says he doesn't want to be with me. What do I do? I am heartbroken

2007-01-09 10:46:18 · 9 answers · asked by chanteuse87 5 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at school but he's not in any of my classes but he's my neighbor and i see him at the ice rink every friday. he is really sweet and he's funny. i REALLY like him. but im not sure if he likes me back. should i find out if he likes me or should i just ask him out? and if or when i ask him out how should i do it? would he feel weird if the girl asked the guy out? then should i convince him to ask me out?this would be my first bf he said yes. im really nervous. help!

2007-01-09 10:46:18 · 4 answers · asked by brunette babe 2 in Singles & Dating

Over this past summer i became close with friends with this girl i met 1/2 through my sopomore year. We spent alot of time together..shopping, concerts parties....you name it. Lately shes been acting VERY distant and when i talked to her about it she said she needed a break from me...because appraently were always together. So over the holiday break...we took our break and she decided she didnt want to be a clse friend anymore. It completely tore me apart and it still is...ive been having so much trouble trying to sleep lately....anyway. She went back being close buddies with this other girl that she used to be friends with...but they had a fallout, so they didnt talk for close to a year and now they are. i have NO problem with this otehr girl..i consider my friend too. I hope someday we will be friends again..becasue quite litterally i would NOT be the person i am today withour her. I'd just like to know how to make myself get over myself and live with the fact that our friendship isnt going to reappear over night. I keep looking at old pictures and reading old letters she wrote me on her bored days at work...and i get sader and sader....So any advice what you would do or what i could do would be alot of help. thanks for reading, and sorry for the typos.

2007-01-09 10:45:50 · 12 answers · asked by xemoxheartx 1 in Friends

2007-01-09 10:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

she says she can be with you forever and not be bored

does she love you or no if she says that ?

2007-01-09 10:45:05 · 8 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what love is

2007-01-09 10:44:38 · 18 answers · asked by Becky T 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend (mark) is good friends with all these people in a band. one of those people in the band are named John. Mark called me with John on the other line. We talked for a while, and Mark showed John my myspace. Apparently, he thinks I am "insanely hot" and was talking to Mark about how bad he wants to "bone me." I was joking around on the phone and told John I'd give him a lapdance if he gave me and some friends a ride to the movies. So i probably led him on or something. Because I don't do things like that. Mark is having a party on Saturday and the whole band is going to be there. I'm afraid this guy John is going to try something on me and I'm not sure how to handle this. I've heard some bad things about John also, that he's an alcoholic and has a bad home-life. I know the typical answer is to "not go" to the party but I'm going to eventually meet this guy John somewhere because he's friends with a lot of people I know. And I really want to go to this party. what to do?

2007-01-09 10:43:54 · 13 answers · asked by jooooooolie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 10:41:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my partner brought me an eternity not sure which hand it goes on

2007-01-09 10:41:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

No more time 2 spend wit u, to talk to,you to hug u, wat am i 2 do?
Everyines n da way now, ur at work anyhow, wit no mo time to spin wit me but on yo spare timw,as we do thing different, u begin 2 smile again, we start to laugh, den da time starts 2 pass, no mo time again, i try to stay calm, and then it dawns, i cant hide it , i try so hard, but u hav to choose, me or her, and then i knew it , no mo time again

2007-01-09 10:40:31 · 10 answers · asked by princez 2 in Singles & Dating

Feel free to go crazy with this question.

2007-01-09 10:40:00 · 8 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3 in Singles & Dating

PLease help!

2007-01-09 10:39:53 · 3 answers · asked by ViCTORiA <3 2 in Friends

well i told one of bobs other friend that i liked bob. he said he wasnt going to tell bob but i dont know because they went to soccer after school.today when bobs friend came in classes he keeped looking back at bob.at the end of class bobs friend said to me i know something that you dont know and then walked over to bob and said to me im going over to see bob. please help and tell me what this is supposed to mean or just help me

2007-01-09 10:39:41 · 13 answers · asked by aero_girl2007 1 in Friends

2007-01-09 10:39:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious--

how long were you in a relationship before you said I love you?


and how long did you know each other before u got engaged---- how long were you engaged before you got married.


just wondering-- - thanks!

2007-01-09 10:39:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Should I go up to him and tell him or keep him a secret crush?And he seems like he likes me too but I am not quite sure. His friends keep saying he has a girl friend but he hasn`t actually gone out with her. The thing that bothers me is he addmits to having a girl friend and yet still he flirts with me!What do I do?

2007-01-09 10:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by TomBoy 360 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 10:37:12 · 59 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 10:37:04 · 10 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 10:36:28 · 11 answers · asked by ski_mgf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my boyfriend are planning to get married in febuary but we kinda wanted to suprise everyone so no one knows. but the thing is that he lives in stl and i live in sf im happy and i want to but i panick about leave my friends and especially my parents and i know about but they dont know. so know i dont know im i thinking too much about it? should i just relax and be happy? i dont know

2007-01-09 10:34:58 · 14 answers · asked by allie 2 in Weddings

She sings made up songs all the time, doesn't listen to me when I tell her to stop [bugging me], and most of all, sometimes when I'm telling her a story, she'll ACT like she's interested then at the end say "I don't care." Other times though, she's very sweet but lately she's teasing me hurting my feelings a little too much. What should I do and why is she suddenly acting like this?

2007-01-09 10:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think my 45 year old boyfriend is obsessed with porn and sex. He has an incredibly substantial video collection, not to mention what he keeps on his computer. I don’t mind a bit of porn now and then myself, but he just has too much. Any time there is a show on which relates even remotely to sex he watches it. Is he more than just a typical male?

2007-01-09 10:34:45 · 29 answers · asked by Slikemema 1 in Singles & Dating

on my page i marked i was in a relationship and there for friends he said thats nothing to be upset over, it just 4 fun (especially since he treats me like a queen) but i cant help it! am i wrong?

2007-01-09 10:33:39 · 10 answers · asked by dominique shari 2 in Singles & Dating

It’s just I’m in my early 20’s and I’m still a virgin. The reason I am still a virgin is because I want my first time to be special with the right girl. But I wonder sometimes, would she feel really special that I saved my self for her or disappointed. So girls hypothetical question, if your guy saved him self for you would you feel really special or disappointed because he was not experienced?

2007-01-09 10:33:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating