Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

My girlfriend who i have dated since highschool has broken up with me and i have no idea what to do. In the beginning of the semester we decided to take a break which was tough for me but we still ended up being boyfriend and girlfriend (she came to visit me at school i visited her at home, we still were physical together, and neither of us did anything with anyone else) 3 months later she breaks it off completely and says that she can not see me as being anything more than just a friend with her. It confuses me because she said she had the most fun she had ever had with me the last time we hung out 2 weeks earlier and we had sex. Around a month has passed and a roomate of hers has lukemia. I really want to be there for her but instead another guy (who is friends with her roomate and lives in the same building as them) is talking to her and comforting her. She now says that she has feelings for the guy although she has only been talking to him for about 2 weeks on the phone.

2007-01-09 10:59:18 · 18 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 10:59:15 · 8 answers · asked by Pooh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 21 and have been broken up with my fiance of a month now. I know in myself its too early to date but after a month id like to date again. Ive met this guy once and am able to get his number i have been thinking of him since i have broken up but i know that i want to date him when i feel right should i take the chance when i am ready to date him? Or should i just move on and be free for a while.

2007-01-09 10:59:02 · 3 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Singles & Dating

Can the song, "I'll Get Even With You," by LeAnn Rimes be considered a friendship song? Rebecca Lynn Howard also recorded it.

Someone told me it was a song from a girl to a guy. Then someone said they thought is was a song to God. But could it also be used for freindship too? I have this female friend of mine who has helped me through a lot, and I wanted to dedicate this song to her, but now I'm doubting what my heart says, because someone said it was meant for a girl to a guy. I don't want her to freak out on me. Can someone help me?

-Hollywood

2007-01-09 10:59:01 · 5 answers · asked by Hollywood 2 in Friends

there is no wrong answer but lets be practical.

2007-01-09 10:58:37 · 11 answers · asked by phatso 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I have an ex girlfriend that I went out with for almost a year. I loved her, and I'm pretty sure I still do.

We always fought though, but then afterwards, we would be happy and it felt like nothing ever happened. The problem was that when we were happy- we were eprfect for each other, yet we fought constantly.

Right now, we're trying to be best friends. And despite us being friends, she can still get mad really easy and be hard to deal with no matter what I do or say. A lot of times she makes it feel like my fault, but when I sit (feeling bad) and think about it later, I realize what I did wasn't bad in the least. (It's usually just sometinhg I say during a convo, and it's a normal response but she thinks I'm being a jerk.)

And on top of that, I don't know if she still likes/loves me. A lot of the time, she acts like she does.

So- what should I do? I'm really lost, because I want to be with her. I love her with all my heart....but I don't know.

2007-01-09 10:58:15 · 23 answers · asked by Gilbert Grape 1 in Singles & Dating

White males/Asian females are already the largest interracial coupling in America and also the most successful when longevity, divorce rate, and opinion polls are taken into account. Asian women are generally petite, beautiful, cute, loyal, feminine, hardworking, and great mothers. Whats not to like? So don't you think white guys and Asian women were made for each other?

2007-01-09 10:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy named paul and i seriuouly love him more then anything. But before i met him, i had fallen for this guy named sammy. he rejected me twice but we are best friends. also i might be leaveing soon and i wont see him anymore and i love him too much. i think maybe if we were not friends anymore, it would be best. what do i do?

2007-01-09 10:57:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-09 10:57:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He pays the mortage is the reason why he say he shouldn't have to pay. His ex wife gets child support and thats the reason he says he always broke. I do help with other bills. i have gotten carpet upstairs and I had carpet taken up from downstairs and payed for wood floors. I bought our 3000 bedroom set. I'm not keeping tabs on what i do and have done in a house he's lived in since childhood (stuff that should have already been done) i just want to know everybody opionon on this issue

2007-01-09 10:57:18 · 9 answers · asked by toonice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 10:56:52 · 18 answers · asked by libralexiis 2 in Friends

how do u know when ur truely in love ?

2007-01-09 10:56:21 · 13 answers · asked by ashley19948 2 in Singles & Dating

There must be a fundamental reason. For some reason women stop other women from being slappers. What drives this?

2007-01-09 10:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 20 and still a virgin i'm kinda scared about sex. i wanna know if it hurts. how do u describe it

2007-01-09 10:55:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy tells you that he loves you and you ask him why he loves you what kind of an answer are you expecting to hear?
A. He loves your various body parts
B. He "just does"
C. "I don't know"
D. Anything to do with sex
E. None of the above--explain what you expect to hear.

2007-01-09 10:54:51 · 21 answers · asked by Mr_B 5 in Singles & Dating

When me and my husband first got together I had made some terrible mistakes. We made a conscious effort to make it work, however, even though I stopped doing drugs, I make sure that my world now revolves around him and making sure that I do everything the right way he is still waiting for me to do something to make it up to him. I have no idea what I could possibly do to make it up to him. Personally, if someone cheated on me there would be no way to make that up to me, but if I had decided to make it work despite what had happened then I would know that i would have to let it go completely and move on. First give me your opinion on the situation and second if there is a way to make it up to him, please let me know, I am open to suggestions.

2007-01-09 10:54:20 · 17 answers · asked by wyllow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 10:54:18 · 22 answers · asked by LadyRebecca 6 in Friends

I have a crush and he's just a little overweight (barley overweight at all) But He doesn't get that I'm flirting with him. For the last two days I found him staring at me kinda smiling but I'm confused if he even likes me. He sure doesn't show any signs that he likes me but if he does I don't know what to do and if he doesn't like me WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????

2007-01-09 10:53:24 · 6 answers · asked by beauty&style guru 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 10:53:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 10:53:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i always smile when i talk to this one guy, but i cant help it, he make me happy! i dont want to creep him out, so how do i stop smiling?

2007-01-09 10:52:49 · 11 answers · asked by GoGetEmTiger 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my girl broke up, but only because we couldn't see eachother, we still loved eachother at the time. But now i know that she doesn't feel the same anymore, she doesn't love me any more :(

I cry everynight, i think about it all the time, but now i said to myself to not give up. I have my hopes up for the future, it can be like a new beginning. But some people tell me you can't fall in love with the same person anymore..is that true?? I really love her, and we had a special relationship. No matter what, we will always be friends, but i want it to be more than that. Please give me any advice you can give me, i will appreciate it. :)

2007-01-09 10:52:18 · 5 answers · asked by huerito323 2 in Singles & Dating

and i want a small wedding. We are planning to split it 50/50....

how many people is a medium to smaller size wedding?...and how should I tell her that we should save money instead of blow it on a wedding..

P.S.....we wont get married for another 2-3 years...but its nice ot get this stuff out the way

2007-01-09 10:52:14 · 14 answers · asked by rmerch2000 2 in Weddings

Is it neccessary to talk to your significant other everyday?

2007-01-09 10:52:13 · 4 answers · asked by miss-ag 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated, says he has stopped, but won't give me the password to his e-mail, (the one he used to talk to the other women)

2007-01-09 10:51:59 · 18 answers · asked by BEINGHURT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 yrs old and i think i have low self esteem. i dont think im pretty but my mom is always telling me that im beautiful. i think she's just saying that to make me feel better. i guess my real question is would a regular guy be interested in me? im 5'6", black hair thats shoulder lenth, brown eyes, and i weight 116 lbs, and im a 38b. i like to watch movies alot like romantic comedys or chick flicks, i also love to play golf, i like to read scary stories and romantic stories. so, would any guy/girl be interested in me? thankx, myeia

2007-01-09 10:51:38 · 5 answers · asked by myeia_101 1 in Singles & Dating

Well see, i finished high school last year right, and now im 19 and attended first day of college in toronto.. however the girls dont seem to like me :(... i dont know why... i got a couple of buds at college that I met and became friends with.. but i need a gf!! what i do? be honest girls... i look strange or sumthing?? why theynot talk to me?? i heard some are shy and want to talk a lot.. is that true?

2007-01-09 10:50:54 · 16 answers · asked by Shawn Miller 1 in Singles & Dating

I like really like him. He says he "Likes her as a friend, because she like Green Day and sports." Is that a good excuse or is he just crushing on me???

2007-01-09 10:50:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most corporations offer free counseling for their employees and their immediate families. Does anyone know the phone number for the program at the Home Depot. I looked online and couldn't find it anywhere!

2007-01-09 10:50:18 · 5 answers · asked by turners_pics 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, I'm in 8th grade and going to highschool soon. I'm in love with one of my best friends. I'm not just saying, OMG!! He's hot! I'm so in love with him! No no...I've been in love with him fro almost 2 years and tried to stop loving him. He was a druggy and is stopping for his health (yay!) and i would always get so mad at him, but coulden't stay mad or anything. So, here's my issue. I always thought he didn't like me but he and i got a lot closer than we were and people are thinking that we should go out and some say he likes me. He changed his life plans and decided he wants to take a cooking class with me in high school and to go to college with me and to even have a restraunt with me because I said my whole plan for college and my eventual restraunt. He had some other plans but said mines was a really good and that he wants to be in my cooking class and go to college with me and everything. But today, people kept saying that he should ask me out, but said he was too young.

2007-01-09 10:49:47 · 19 answers · asked by Katie M 3 in Singles & Dating