Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

Ive been married for 3 months and have a baby with him. My husband is an alcoholic. Hes had a DUI etc in the past 2 years, comes home drunk about every 3 days, sometimes doesn't even come home. It has become a real problem for us, we fight constantly about this. I think ive fallen in love with his brother over time and im pretty sure he likes me as well. We are perfectly suited for eachother and get along great. Would we ever be able to persue a relationship and not be frowned upon by the family if I completely called it off with his brother?

2007-01-09 11:15:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am not fat, athl;etic, not tall or short, 120 pounds, brown hair and eyes,prep,sadly i am size 38c. they always look and smile and thats it.

2007-01-09 11:15:04 · 4 answers · asked by beach girl 1 in Singles & Dating

He is talking about marriage and kids. He is nice and sweet, but he is kindda big(which doesn't bother me) but he has a huge stomach and that is really nasty to me. Do anybody have a way to help me look over this?

2007-01-09 11:14:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 24, and have known this guy for almost 5 yrs, he knows ive had a bf for almost 4 yrs, but since he knows im moving soon, he called me drunk and confessed that he's been in love with me since the day he met me, my friends had teased me about this for yrs saying that he had a crush on me, but i never believed it. What do i do now? Stay friends? Act as if nothing happened? I tried to talk about it the next day and he acted like nothing happened

2007-01-09 11:14:13 · 15 answers · asked by marmar 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.. i told my best friend that i liked this guy named justin..and she said she hated him..so i thought i had a chance with him[because some of my friends said he liked me too]..so i flirted with him for a few days and thats when i could tell he really DID like me. now all i have to do is wait for him to ask me that question..but it turns out.. that a day later..hes going out with my best friend!
i was so confused..and dissapointed.i dont know what to do..is she just dating him to make me jealous?
please help me:[

2007-01-09 11:13:48 · 5 answers · asked by BRITTANYHEARTBREAKER 1 in Friends

my dad says im to young to have a cell phone brecause i just want one because my friends have one. should i A be responsible with my homework and books because i have a lot to do. i want a cell phone bad because my mom is always on the computer and so one cellphone you can get on the computer because if i have to research something is that a good motive.


My brother is 7 and he wants one if i get one. im 11 so should i get one and if i do will that be a bad example? or he could get that disney mobile with the allowance thing please help!?!?!?!?!?!

2007-01-09 11:13:41 · 10 answers · asked by b a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hes really tall black hair and really cute! I act like i dont like him and Im afraid if I ask him out that he'll blow me off and embaras me!What should I do?

2007-01-09 11:12:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she must think i use to be an actor or something,.,. she tells me to cry often for her,.but im physically unable to that often,.,.only while in her kitchen cutting her onions for the steak dinner i always enjoy with her,.,.without red wine of course,.,.

why is this,.,.with onions,.,.,.,.???

2007-01-09 11:11:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Here aresome details in what he does:
- He cuddles with me to watch movies
- He kisses me and says i kiss good:D(we made out once)
- He comforts me when im down
- He buys me sweet presents
- He compliments my mom(she really likes him and approved him)

Do you think he loves me? He hasnt said I love u, and that would make me just about the happiest girl in thw world! Do you think he's too shy? Do you think he loves me?

2007-01-09 11:11:13 · 19 answers · asked by Sophie s 1 in Singles & Dating

i still think about it sometimes?

2007-01-09 11:10:54 · 12 answers · asked by Sammi 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 11:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 11:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my "boyfriend" and i have been having a lot of troubles lately. we've been together for the better part of almost 2 years now. im doing everything in my power to make the relationship work & he practically does nothing. He hurts me because he knows how much i love him & he doesnt show me any love at all. even though he claims he loves me. i've been told to leave him & that's what i'm trying to do & it is so hard. i love him with all of my heart but theres nothing else i can do. Sooo, i havent called him in 3 days & he's called me twice but i don't answer, because if i do, ill just go right back to him. I keep having this dream that we are at a hotel with my family & my bf (tommy) is there. The main part of the dream is that i want to get into the hot tub with him but things keep getting in my way, like i have other stuff i need to get done first. & in the dream we are both naked. what in the world does this mean?

2007-01-09 11:09:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend go out together alone all the time we talk online and on the phone like everyday and he told me he loves me !! i said i love him back and i do mean it but how do i keep our relationship interesting like what should i talk to him about if i really want to know if he cares about me ? i got my heart hurt realllly badly b4 and i want to know if he'll do the same !! HELP ME

2007-01-09 11:08:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and a friend are both married and weve known each other for years and only recently had a sexual relationship. We only been together 1/2 dozen times and sometimes he acts liek hes feeling me and then other times he seems bothered and distant..mostly when I say no to sex...He calls me often and when we hadnt talked over the holiday and finally hooked up the sex was amazing..I assumed we missed each other. I think helikes but he and I both have been reluctant to say how we feel other than that we are diggin each other. I know I have developed feelings for him I think he has feeling for me..He calls me everyday from work and wants to see me on his break or after work before he goes home. I do not know how he feels do you think he may have feeling for me or is it just sex? He says He love making love to me.

2007-01-09 11:08:18 · 11 answers · asked by Confuzed360 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my (male ) friend told me last year he loves me and i do feel the same but hes freaking me out hes planing our future about kids and moving in together and us getting marriedwhat am wondering is why is he talking about this so soon xx thanks

2007-01-09 11:07:17 · 18 answers · asked by tasha a 1 in Singles & Dating

idk if he likes me back!! hes 14 and im going to be 14 soon... how do i
a.) get him to like me
b.) get myself to ask him if he likes me or tell him i like him

im really shy. and hes giving me "lessons" on skating... if it helps. pleaseee answer!! very important!! thank you sooooooo much!!!

2007-01-09 11:06:50 · 6 answers · asked by xojessox 5 in Singles & Dating

I met this really great guy the other day...we've been getting on great and spending heaps of time together. We have heaps of fun and are always kissing and cuddling...I'd think we were on our way to being together officially if it wasnt for one thing...he lives in a different country and is just here visiting his dad. We see each other everyday and are getting closer...so what are his intentions if he is only going to be leaving back to his country soon...

2007-01-09 11:06:19 · 21 answers · asked by hello hello! 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 11:06:12 · 1 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Singles & Dating

Alright..I am getting married in about 6 months and I'm having a hard time with something. My fiance dated a lot before we met and I didn't. In fact, he is my first really serious relationship. When I look at his hi5 website and I see all these girls on there, it makes me feel bad. I know he loves me, but it just worries me that all these girls are contacting him. I know he's not sending them messages (i have his password) but it still bothers me. Should I just let the past be the past and let it go? HELP!

2007-01-09 11:05:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hsve this friend who can sometimes be ur best friend and then she can be a prep,no it all and u just cant stand her. I dont want to tell her off because she will start crying for attention then everybody will be on her side and she wont learn her lesson.What should I do?????

2007-01-09 11:05:07 · 14 answers · asked by ladyranger4348 1 in Friends

In the midst of a fight i looked on my girls phone and saw that she dialed the number of a guy she use to see along with a few other people she worked with. Shes sworn to me that she hasnt seen this guy and that she only tried calling him because one of her co-workers asked her to call him because of a question about thier paychecks. He didnt call because they werent close. I asked her "if your calling him because of work related stuff why wouldnt you just call me and let me know you called him afterwards?" she said "i have so much other stuff on mind that i totally forgot i called" we got into some pretty critical s$%t over this guy and im finding it hard to believe that she would just forget to tell me. lol she also told me that she wouldnt believe herself either. i with her 24/7 and im pretty postive shes not cheating because of medical reasons but i still think she is B-S ing me. Could she really get a sudden case of amnesia like that and she did is that something i shoulddealwith?

2007-01-09 11:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by xdreamsub 1 in Singles & Dating

he is always talking about pleasuring girls and their certain girl parts. he says he is not bisexual. i swear sometimes i think he is just pretnding to be gay for attention. do normal gay guys talk like that.

2007-01-09 11:03:15 · 12 answers · asked by midnightjoker 5 in Friends

what do you do when your boyfriend tells you that he loves someone else from his past after speaking to her on the phone and she tells him she loves him? He tells you that he loves someone else out of the blue after a a few brief phone calls to her but tells you that he needs you as a friend and needs you to stay in his life? Just expects you to accept it and wipe out almost 4 years of loving him and suddenly be a friend in his life?

2007-01-09 11:02:45 · 37 answers · asked by mymanomer 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a bf who i love with all my heart and have been with him for 2 months now. The problem is, that i also have a male friend who i really feel a connection with and did from the minute i met him, we were like best friends from the start and helped eachother through some really difficult times. We unfortunately lost contact over a year ago. I hadnt seen this friend in all this time even though i thought about him and was worried something had happened to him due to his past. I saw him today while i was out with my bf. I introduced them and my friend asked whether we were living together (we arent) and i told him we arent.

I havent stopped thinking about him all day now and why he would ask a question like that out the blue. does anybody have any clues? or am i just reading too much into it?

I am 25 and this man must be at least 40 now. I really wanted to ask for his number again but thought it was wrong to ask while my bf was standing there.

2007-01-09 11:01:27 · 11 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Singles & Dating

Guys, what dishes would you be most impressed if your girlfriend made for you as a surprise? To get me to pick your answer as best, you'll have to include a main dish and a dessert.

2007-01-09 11:00:29 · 25 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have two kids. We have been sharing custody. The month's I have the girls I pay $350/wk in daycare expenses. When he has them his mom watches our oldest and his Uncle watches the baby while he works and chases women. Initially he said he was going to give me $400 per child in support during the months I had them. In the past year he has skated around paying child support and waited until he got the girls on one of his visits to up and quit his job on the police force. Granted he's 33 yrs old. Now he is only making $1200 per month in income with his night job at Sam's and is filing for Chapter 13 bankruptcy. I asked him to get a 2nd job and he said no b/c he is going to college during the day.

He knows me having to pay daycare and other stuff is just too much by myself. It's like he keeps making these life changes so that he can lower his support. He says he will be able to pay $500. Should I agree to that? How will his bankruptcy factor if I file for child support?

2007-01-09 11:00:07 · 7 answers · asked by LuvMyGirls 5 in Marriage & Divorce

(in dream words) this guy i like (Jimmy) and i were at his football game and i sat there and cheered him on and after the game he changed and we hung out for about an hour and we shared a pop and so anyway when his parents got there he had to go so he look deep in my eyes and i looked deep in his and we hugged for about five or so minutes talking about stuff i dont remember adn then he kissed me really fast on the cheek and left......Please Help What does this mean? (i dont talk to him and we go to school together)

2007-01-09 11:00:07 · 7 answers · asked by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Birthday Monday 15th Jan whose goona wish me Happy Birthday??

2007-01-09 10:59:49 · 51 answers · asked by Littlehoneybee 2 in Family

hi, i asked a question about my husband a few days ago, and now i saw hin phuking another girl, and he doesnt know i saw him...how do i tell him i know? should i leave him??

2007-01-09 10:59:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce