Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

I normally wear Adidas sneakers, which are flat as hell. I am exactly 5'5". Some guys notice me then.

However, if I wear shoes with 1.5 heels, I swear more guys notice me. Is the 1.5 inches really that important? I mean, it only makes me 5'6.5".

2007-01-09 11:49:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Help me please, what does it mean. I don't understand. We have been married for three years and I do not want to get divorced eather. What should I do?

2007-01-09 11:49:46 · 29 answers · asked by brenda29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok right my friends whos a guy told me last year that he loves me and always has we have been firends for about 5 years anyway recently he has been talking about getting married and has even asked me to marry him and that he wants kids with me and want to move in with me it all getting abit much and is freaking me out we talk on the phone and text each other every day but we havent seen each other for about a year because he moved away ( not far away about 20 mins away) anyway what am wondering is why is acting like this is he crazy or does he love me to much its weird to me btw yes i do love him aswell xx thanks xx

2007-01-09 11:48:56 · 30 answers · asked by tasha a 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a girl i still love and after almost 3 years we still talk but we broke up beccause of number of reasons but we both still desire to be with each other and I know I want to be with her but on the other hand how do I know she really wants to be with me even though she tells me she does......

2007-01-09 11:48:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay...so my friend, Sean, just called me and told me about a rumor my ex, James, is spreading about me and him. He is jealous of him because I really like him, and he likes me. (But we have decided to wait until we are sixteen to date.) I broke up with my ex like, two months ago because I found out he was cheating on me, he wasn't a virgin (we are thirteen), he lies all of the time, and he was pressuring me to have sex. (But I didn't, yet almost did.) Now he is spreading a rumor that I am not a virgin and I am pegnant with Sean's baby! First of all, everybody is now believing it! Second of all, I swore to myself that I would wait until marriage (and he knew that). What do I do? Nobody will even believe Sean and I! (Except my closest friends!) Please help! I don't know what to do!

2007-01-09 11:46:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He may also be following the guy I'm dating. I'm thinking all of this is illegal - is it?

2007-01-09 11:46:25 · 16 answers · asked by cg81762 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married just over two years now. We get along GREAT...have told each other we've married our best friend! We share common interests, love being together, have great sex, but there is something I want that he feels like he's already doing. He 'picks' on me and tells me that he likes getting me fired up b/c he thinks it's sexy. BUT...somtimes he picks on me SO MUCH that it just pisses me off to the point that I end up yelling at him telling him to leave me the F$%K ALONE!!! I don't mind giving each other a hard time, it's entertaining, to a point. My problem is that I feel like I am the only one still working to impress him. I miss flirting both verbally and physically. He has told me that 'you married me and I know you love me.....y do we need to flirt?' I just miss him putting effort into things like that. I recently started excercising more and started dressing a bit more sexy to let me know I am his wife and not just a friend.

2007-01-09 11:44:45 · 29 answers · asked by April 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 11:44:44 · 15 answers · asked by Molly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and I've been seeing him for 5 months has written me every chance he can is sending me more gifts again .the start he likes So does this mean he is really interested in me ?

2007-01-09 11:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by shypoet 1 in Singles & Dating

A man I really like is taking me to dinner for our first date and I want to really dress up and wear high heels but he is only 5'7"
and I am 5'6" and with heels I may be a bit taller than he is. It may sound like a silly concern but dressy shoes are usually high but I don't want him to feel uncomfortable.

2007-01-09 11:44:19 · 12 answers · asked by lana t 1 in Singles & Dating

im now going to bed everybody

good night girls hugs and kisses on ya cheek
good night boys ( the £3000 is in the boot of the car )

2007-01-09 11:43:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 11:43:09 · 14 answers · asked by tdg2007 1 in Family

I have a crush, told him my feelings, he never said anything. Later I gave him a Christmas Present and he hugged me and thanked me a million times! We went on Winter Break for 2 weeks and now he doesnt say anything to me...So who's court is the ball in? Should I say hi or let him?

2007-01-09 11:42:44 · 16 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

i am dating a woman that is getting a divorce, it was not a good marriage for her and was basically over four years ago, she gets worried that she is dating to quick, i always tell her that there is no set time limit for how long you should wait, or if you should even wait until the papers are signed it is what makes you happy that matters, should a person wait if they find someone that makes them happy would be interested in knowing what other people think

2007-01-09 11:42:33 · 23 answers · asked by warren_h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 11:42:05 · 17 answers · asked by browneyegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 11:41:59 · 6 answers · asked by Joe C 1 in Friends

One of my best friends is annoying me to death. She is constantly burping and farting loudly in front of me and my husband. I realize everyone does this but there are ways to hide it. It is one of my pet peeves. I make comment like "Gross! and Disgusting!!" but she just laughs it off. She even does it when we are out in public and at restaurants. It is just not lady like I mean I not a prude or anything but I know how my husbands feels about girls who do this as well and he's not impressed by her rude sounds either. What do I do? Just leave it alone? Am I over reacting?

2007-01-09 11:41:53 · 2 answers · asked by LO 2 in Friends

2007-01-09 11:41:28 · 5 answers · asked by Molly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i like this guy in all my classes. but my friends would never aprove because they hate him. they said that if i liked him they would dump as a friend in different words. but i dont know if he likes me. some people tell me that . he is a friend of mine and we always sit next to each other . and hes nice to me . but he makes fun of my friend but only cause his friends do i dont think he means it. and there have been several times when we are like two inches from kissing and something happens. i guess im asking
do you think he likes me as a friend or as a girlfriend. and do you think my friends have the right to think what they think?

2007-01-09 11:41:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends boyfriend is one of the friends who dont approve of me. They told him to break up with me. He is giving into peer pressure.

2007-01-09 11:40:59 · 8 answers · asked by Ana 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had a friend since I was three. At seven we started flirting with each other. Last year he asked me out. This weekend both of our parents are going on a ski trip and leaving us behind. He really wants me to sleep with him. It feels right but should I?

2007-01-09 11:40:29 · 17 answers · asked by loving live:) 3 in Singles & Dating

why do girls do that?

2007-01-09 11:39:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had a friend since I was three. At seven we started flirting with each other. Last year he asked me out. This weekend both of our parents are going on a ski trip and leaving us behind. He really wants me to sleep with him. It feels right but should I?

2007-01-09 11:39:27 · 11 answers · asked by loving live:) 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok this is whats going on... me and this guy who lives an hour with me were talking and we would have a fun time we would talk about diffferent things but then later on it got serious when we found out that we like each other. we were both reluctant but we decided to give it a shot. we would see each other like i would tell him where i'm gonna be and he would meet me up there and we would have fun. he even gave me my first kiss.like we went to this party and we had a great time. i plan to tell my mom when i'm 16 which is next month.what should i do now bcuz she didn't even want me to talk to him...

2007-01-09 11:38:33 · 32 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 11:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by Sid90 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever since I have got home from vacation I have been sitting in my house all day and all night. I have literally not move from my house. It is really starting to bother me. I have no friends and no car. Does anyone have any good advice?

2007-01-09 11:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by zalaxus 1 in Family

2007-01-09 11:37:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With the holidays and all, I've been feeling nostalgic. I've been thinking about him more often. I care for him a lot, and I also love him...as a great friend. The problem is that he is IN love with me...and YES he is a married man. We were best friends before his marriage. And now he's realized that he loves me. (Well now it's too late). I talk to him on the phone regularly, and see him once in a great while. I've had the urge to tell him that I love him, but I can't get myself to do it. I don't want him to think that we can have something more than a friendship.

So how do I tell him that I love him...without making our relationship/friendship more complicated?

2007-01-09 11:37:28 · 42 answers · asked by ina 1 in Friends

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, he's a great catch but we differ on one issue. He wants to study in my country for three years and I want to go overseas and study and start a career there. The sooner I go, the better my chances of gaining citizenship and starting my life. The problem is, I want him in that life. What path do I take?

2007-01-09 11:37:21 · 10 answers · asked by Vena cava 3 in Singles & Dating

can anyone help me on how to get this boy's attention and to look at me !! I REALLY LIKE HIM!!! but he's just playing hard to get !

2007-01-09 11:36:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating