I've had a friend since I was three. At seven we started flirting with each other. Last year he asked me out. This weekend both of our parents are going on a ski trip and leaving us behind. He really wants me to sleep with him. It feels right but should I?
2007-01-09 11:39:27 · 11 answers · asked by loving live:) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it feels right, then its totally up to you. You didnt mention your age though, so hopefully you're old enough to make those kind of decisions. Before you jump the sheets, get the info about STD's and Birth control to protect yourself. Another thing, make sure that you are going into this for the same reasons. Do you both want sex just for sex, or is it out of attraction and love that make you want to have sex with each other? Thats really important, since he could just end up ignoring you right after sex.
2007-01-09 11:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might feel like it's right, but you can't just have sex with someone because you've known them for a long time. If you are sure that your feelings are real, then do it the right way. Go out with him, see what it would be like in a different relationship with him. If you just go and have sex with him:
A) you'll break your parent's trust, which isn't good if you want to be with him
B) things will be awkward between you two if it doesn't work out perfectly and will be a HUGE strain on your friendship.
Tell him that he has to prove that he's not just be in it for the sex. But if you're ok with it being a one-night stand; then go for it. But keep in mind that it's going to be at the risk of your friendship.
2007-01-09 19:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by luvcry247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking... u probably arent ready. Dont rush into sleeping with him. If you arent ready, then dont do it. If you choose to do it, be safe about it and use protection.
I think you sound pretty young, and are probably curious but u have a long life ahead of you to try to learn about it all. Don't just give it up bc its someone u know and they show interest. Are you guys dating? I think if you arent dating and you are under the legal age.... its a bad bad idea, esp if u get caught by the parentals
2007-01-09 19:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are and if you really like the guy. don't give into pressure and don't sleep with him because you don't want things to be weird between you two because even if nothing happens things will still be awkward because he actually asked you. in the end it's your choice but this weekend things will change between you to whether you do anything or not. don't force yourself to do this if you don't want to. i slept with a guy when i was younger because i thought it was the right thing to do but in the end i regretted it, and i still do. don't do it because you think it's right do it because it is.
2007-01-09 19:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa active hormones ;) at 7??!!!
hey how old r u now? if ur 16 or over, u COULD, if u know u wouldnt regret it. is he pressuring u, cuz if he is thats bad... but if ur like 12 then dont cuz it could mess up the rest of ur life, and u might regret it..unless u just KNOW u r right 4 each other. good luck! Hope u make the right decision!
2007-01-09 19:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by cutie317 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy myself I know for a fact we talk alot with our hormones and sex is very appealing and can really cloud good judgement.
Ask yourself if you want to be married and have a child with him now, if the answer is no than I would think sex is definately not a good choice. If he is truly your friend he would understand.
2007-01-09 19:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by rj j 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that the fact that you can't answer this question yourself, that you are asking us on Yahoo Answers means no.
No you should not sleep with him.
2007-01-09 19:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. If you feel that is what YOU wanna do, then do it. No one can ever answers question like that for you, because its you who knows how you feel!! Just search your feelings!
2007-01-09 19:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by OPTIMUS DIME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, sex can really ruin a friendship... i guarentee you if you do have sex, it will be awkward seeing him from there on out. from the sounds of your friendship, i wouldnt want to waste it on stupid sexual temptations
2007-01-09 19:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by chris_m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you should wait until you're married. and are you guys even dating? is he worth the risk of getting pregnant?
2007-01-09 19:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by rentalsocks 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋