my "boyfriend" and i have been having a lot of troubles lately. we've been together for the better part of almost 2 years now. im doing everything in my power to make the relationship work & he practically does nothing. He hurts me because he knows how much i love him & he doesnt show me any love at all. even though he claims he loves me. i've been told to leave him & that's what i'm trying to do & it is so hard. i love him with all of my heart but theres nothing else i can do. Sooo, i havent called him in 3 days & he's called me twice but i don't answer, because if i do, ill just go right back to him. I keep having this dream that we are at a hotel with my family & my bf (tommy) is there. The main part of the dream is that i want to get into the hot tub with him but things keep getting in my way, like i have other stuff i need to get done first. & in the dream we are both naked. what in the world does this mean?
2007-01-09 11:09:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ive had the dream 3 times now, & we never make it into the hot tub
2007-01-09 11:11:06 · update #1
hey i just remembered i have a book that tells u what ur dreams mean the hotel means- a shift or loss of personal identity or it may indicate a change in a relationship or the price that has to be paid to sustain it the stuff geting in the way is -things u need to work throught before you can be together the nudity is- perceived faults or feelings of vulnerability to some situation in life i really hope this one one helps
2007-01-09 11:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying to get into the hot tub because that represents a nice, calm relaxing relationship that you want with your boyfriend. . Things that are getting in your way are your family and also your hesitations and problems in your relationship. When you are naked in a dream, it shows uneasiness in the situation.
Sounds like you know what to do, but you have become comfortable with this guy and are still hoping he will change.
Think long term. Make the break. Maybe you will both mature in time and go back together, Its more likely that you'll find someone that treats you the way you should be treated and you can live 'happily ever after'.
2007-01-09 11:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by jean l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The "hot tub" is refering to your relationship. You are trying to get to him but there are other more important things you need to do before you reach him. The fact that you are both naked is probably your sub concious telling you that you lust over him and its just the physical side of him thats attracting you to him.
I know you love him, but you deserve better, and a heart broken mends in time. Be strong, and let him go. U know its what you want and what you need.
2007-01-09 11:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by bexbickles 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like the dream is depicting what you feel inside.You know he don't love you and know he don't treat you good but either way you still want to be with him.But, you are not with him because your friends and family are telling you you shouldn't be with him, so you don't want to let them down and feel like a used fool in their eyes.So what your dream is saying is that you are allowing yourself to be held back by what others want from you, instead of what you really want to do, because you know they are right either way.
Give it time, the dream will die off and he will stop calling and before long you will find a better man that you will love just as much that hopefully treats you better.
But first in order to have this,In the mean time girl learn to respect yourself and that loving heart of yours.Protect it, stand up for yourself and be proud to be you!
Good luck and stay strong!
2007-01-09 11:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dreams can't solve anything but it might be telling you go do other stuff before u go bak to him. Maybe there r other things u need to do before u run back to him.
Talk to him and tell him that he doesnt do **** and if he really loved u he would do something to mkae it work but if he doesnt he isnt worth fighting for.
Call him and tell him that. He should understand and if he doesnt maybe u should move on.
2007-01-09 11:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Chels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe family symbolises the logical and right part of your brain..which knows that you should not be together..being naked and hot tub is exactly the symbol for sex..usually we mistake sexual attraction for love..after years of being with someone, dependence and sexuality is mostly the thing that is making couples unbreak-upable..so your subconscious knows that you won't be happy with him and you should not be together,but you have sexual attraction+dependence..
2007-01-09 11:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by rseny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that your always blowing him off and your the problem of the relationship not him.You've been trying to hard to get him.He needs his space let him realize how much he truly loves you.
2007-01-09 11:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means that you are bearing your soul in a public place for no good result. Just take a break from it all for some perspective.
2007-01-09 11:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't really bother what the dream means when it comes to relationships or in fact anything. think practically and go ahead from there and make up your mind what you really want.
2007-01-09 11:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should keep away from these kind of people cuz they can get you in truble so yah i think you should brake off
2007-01-09 11:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by chemwork 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋