i still think about it sometimes?
2007-01-09 11:10:54 · 12 answers · asked by Sammi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may never forget about it but you will eventually get over it. That's a situation that'll definitely take time to get over and as long as you're still friends with this "best friend", it'll seem like everyday you're thinking about what happened. It seems like you're giving your boyfriend a second chance, just be sure you're firm with it and explain to him that there won't be a next time or a third chance....this is his last shot to prove that he really loves you the way you love him and that what he did was a mistake.
2007-01-09 11:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sammie Jane you will never forget what he done to you,and you will always be suspicious of anything he does,good or bad.
Same thing happened to me and I drove us both nut's because the trust was gone and of course she was still cheating on me too.And yes I still think about her and how much I cared for(loved)
her but was able to move on although we have a son together.I have put up so many barriers that she could never possibly break through them,and I do get to see my boy regularly.
You can try to make it work and maybe it will but you will never forget and sometime in the future 2and2 will not add up to 4 and then it will come up again.Hope it works out for you,hope I helped a little.
2007-01-09 19:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by harleyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, dont pput the term of best friend anymore. Ur ex-best friend is a sore loser.
ssecond, you wont forget..but you can forgive. Is this man worth ur forgiveness? does he really, really, really sorry for what he have done? it cost you a lot. Your trust & ur friendship.
you SHOULD TELL him that, along w asking him: what will you feel if im the 1 who cheated on u w ur best mate? & finally tell him that he has hurt you really bad. This is very important, you should tell him all this & make sure he listen to you.
There are plenty of men in the sea, someone who is hotter, nicer and have honesty character in them if you ever break up w ur bf. But if you both love each other deeply & really want to work it out, go ahead & give it another shoot.
Relationship is based on communication, trust, honesty, care and passion. Once the trust is gone, relationship is out of the window..& you wont be happy. You can rebuilt ur trust again slowly...
All the best
2007-01-09 19:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have U Ever Heard Of Forgive & Forget, Forgive Urself 4 dating a Player And Forget His Name & Face
2007-01-09 19:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by DSM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How should we know? If you have a strong will and an ounce of common sense you will be over it soon. If not you are doomed to a life of ignorance and possible man-hating. You will have watsed precious moments of your life worrying about a human being that doesn't care about you.
2007-01-09 19:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by friggin_express101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you should be thinking about it!!! but in all honesty.. screw the boyfriend.. if he cheated on you, he's not worth your time. seriously. the real problem is... what kind of best friend would do that to you? i'd say, dump the guy and have a serious talk with your friend.
2007-01-09 19:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by k. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend. This one broke the bond of trust between the both of you.
2007-01-09 19:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i believe you will always think about it. i am sad for you, and i am sorry. I would never be able to get the mental image out of my head of him with another woman.
2007-01-09 19:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, "Once a cheater, always a cheater". You've been hurt once and I guarantee if will happen again if you stay with this loser.
2007-01-09 19:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will, and if you obsess over it, it will ruin your life unnecessarily. So give it time and get over it.
2007-01-09 19:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by laboratory.mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋