Me and a friend are both married and weve known each other for years and only recently had a sexual relationship. We only been together 1/2 dozen times and sometimes he acts liek hes feeling me and then other times he seems bothered and distant..mostly when I say no to sex...He calls me often and when we hadnt talked over the holiday and finally hooked up the sex was amazing..I assumed we missed each other. I think helikes but he and I both have been reluctant to say how we feel other than that we are diggin each other. I know I have developed feelings for him I think he has feeling for me..He calls me everyday from work and wants to see me on his break or after work before he goes home. I do not know how he feels do you think he may have feeling for me or is it just sex? He says He love making love to me.
2007-01-09 11:08:18 · 11 answers · asked by Confuzed360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is using you for sex.
2007-01-09 11:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best idea is sit down and talk about this --- there are more people than you involved so you better be very sure of what you want before doing anything --- if he wont then just keep saying no --- he will either stay or go and that will be part of your answer.
the big one is do you want to leave your husband for someone else???
2007-01-09 11:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is wrong in so many ways you would be lucky anything like love could come from this. Either quit being a cheater or get divorced!
2007-01-09 11:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by InvicibleStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off,
You shouldn't be haveing an affair!
That is very bad. It just shows that you don't love your husband.
And he is just useing for for sex and to have a good time.
2007-01-09 11:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by cloudburst147 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try not sleeping with him for awhile..then if he continues to come see you maybe it is more then the sex.....but if you continue to give him sex and he is coming then how will you know what it is he wants.... and what man would not keep coming if he is having the thrill of free sex behind his wife's back
2007-01-09 11:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by je 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he love you by wanting to see you during his break. In break time for lunch, you know he is running like crazy.
2007-01-09 11:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all it aint abot if you think he likes u but do you like him, do you really think you can live with this guy a happy life, jus answer this to find out if u or he likes u = if i were to sell my soul just so he/she can live a happy life, would he/she do da same
2007-01-09 11:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by DSM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you?Don't you have any morals?This will all come back to you!!Oh and of coarse he's using you.
2007-01-09 11:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the sex.
2007-01-09 11:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre playin with fire.
2007-01-09 11:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋