Hes really tall black hair and really cute! I act like i dont like him and Im afraid if I ask him out that he'll blow me off and embaras me!What should I do?
2007-01-09 11:12:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never feel afraid to ask someone out. The worse thing he can say to you is no. If he turns you down, that just means that there is someone else out there that is better suited for you. Make every excuse you have to spend as much time with him as possible. Remember, the only way for him to get to know you is if he spends time with you. If you act like you don't like him, he may begin to think that you really don't like him. If this turns out to be the case, he might try to avoid you wherever he can. Make sure before you ask him out that you really do like him for who he is as a human being. If your focus is on how he looks physically, it may prevent you from seeing who he really is. From a guys perspective, this is where a girl tends to mess up. If this turns out to be the case, this guy might end up being a jerk without you realizing it. If you really do know him for who he is as a human being and you still like him, that is great. If things turn out the way you want them to, that's even better.
2007-01-09 13:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ask him out, it will just boost his ego....
Make eye contact, if he talks to you, always smile, be attentive. If you really want him to ask him out or make it obvious you like him, while in converstation move closer to him, let him know you are comfortable with him in your personal space. alot of guys will be outgoing one minute, then be shy the next, I am one, lol. do not get worried, if he is afraid to look at you or walk by you, chances are he likes you in return but is afraid you do not share the same feelings. I am actually going through the opposite situation right now, if you like him... let him know so he has a chance. His friends may come up to you and ask you what you think of him, answer truthfully, it will get back to him and if hes still not talking to you, it might be because he is in a relationship, or may not feel the same about you. Do not stalk a guy... no matter how gorgeous you are, it is still freaky... lol, hope this helped,
Matt.
2007-01-09 19:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Rob S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Da Guy Dat U Really Want To Like Is One Dat Should Be Thier With U N Cares 4 U not u trying to make somebody else like u dat usally leads 2 depresion
2007-01-09 19:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by DSM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either go for it, or you don't. I know we love to play games, but it wastes time and energy. Get it over with. Expect the worst and hope for the best. But be confident that you are worth it.
2007-01-09 19:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by mmpietropinto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to act like you like him first-be honest with actions so he can see the real you. Then if you think you can then go for it! you only have 1 life. no matter what happens you tried. and you'll never regret that.
2007-01-09 19:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by nonphysical 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg r u serious i just now went throu this ok ask a friend to ask him if he likes you and if he does go along wit it and flirt and chat ok the ask him out or if he says yes do it right then but if he says no dont let it get you down cuz he may be lieing so he'll look cool ok so wat a while let this friend ship go on a ride and take it to a love street lata u hear wat im sayin kk love ya
2007-01-09 19:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh yeah you cant really make someone like you. I guess you could hang out with him and talk to hiim more and maybe he might be more interested in you than before.
2007-01-09 19:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself if he doesn't like you for who you are then u r prolly not the right person for him and prolly better with someone else that accepts u for who u r. and trust me i know how you feel i have going through it since fourth grade and i am in sixth grade now and it is still with the same guy
lol
well i hope it helps
2007-01-09 19:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ruthanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the hurt in asking?
2007-01-09 19:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by C&J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant force someone to like you but it does not hurt to ask him out. Its worth a try at least
2007-01-09 19:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by Brooke H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋