He is talking about marriage and kids. He is nice and sweet, but he is kindda big(which doesn't bother me) but he has a huge stomach and that is really nasty to me. Do anybody have a way to help me look over this?
2007-01-09 11:14:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not being shallow. I like him for him and I don't care about how he look, His stomach just feels nasty on me when we have sex.
2007-01-09 11:42:20 · update #1
If you really like him, you will not be disgusted...obviously youre not that into him
2007-01-09 11:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by marmar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you liked him, you would see the inner him... and not what his body looks like. If you cared about him as you say you do then his body, no matter how big would be the best you have ever seen.
So my advice to you, is either find a new man... Or stop being so shallow.
I bet there are things about you that he don't like... and still he is with you, talking about marriage (which no man ever talks about unless they really care for you)
And that is what love is about, when you can look over in imperfections of others, to see the inner them!!!
2007-01-09 11:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really doesn't make sense. You like him as a friend period. So don't give him a reason to think otherwise. So he has a big stomach? Someone will ove him for him and if you don't move on and leave the poor guy alone. You seem very shallow for making a staement like that.
2007-01-09 11:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yours is not a complex situation. You are getting confused here. You are not really in love with him, are you ?
Probably, you just want to be a very good friend of his. That's why you are getting repulsed by the thoughts of having sex with him. Take no time and understand yourself correctly before things become more confusing.
You would not feel disgusted by his physical looks if you loved him. But you only like him and hence you can be a good friend of his.
2007-01-09 11:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cyphor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dealbreaker. If the attraction isn't there in the beginning, it sure as hell won't be there as time goes on. Trust us on this one. You need to tell him it won't work out.
There are other men out there for whom you will have physical chemistry and attraction. This isn't the guy for you. It's not fair to him if you stay in it, either. Just let him know, gently, that it is not going to work out for you.
2007-01-09 11:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange, I was in the exact same situation a couple weeks ago. It will never work if you aren't sexually attracted to him. Sex is an important part of an adult relationship. Find someone who you are attracted to and let him down easy. :)
2007-01-09 11:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by BudLightRocks56954 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then what are you doing with him? Does he have a nice "big" wallet? Is that what you're interested in? You say his big-ness doesn't bother you, but that's all you talk about. You're super shallow. I hope he rolls over on you in his sleep.
2007-01-09 11:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex with him. Let him know that u dont want this yet in ur relationship.. and if u cant see ur self havin kids or gettin married to him then let him know! it will tell him how u feel about yalls future.
2007-01-09 11:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by longhornchick200318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont pick and choose whom to love,if you were attracted to him you liked him for his personality probably his humour or good heart.marriage and kids the whole package,his stomach is something he can change if you asked him to go with you to the gym in the most polite way this way you will save your relationship.
2007-01-09 11:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by schats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what we WANT could make us cry, what we NEED might pass us by if we dont catch it by Lauren Hill. And its so true, we want a supa fly fine man but he'll be the one to break our hearts but the nice guys finish last with women. I aint gone lie, my man is fine but also has imperfections, so do i and so do u. but if u cant sleep with him, dont lead him on, that will hurt him more.
2007-01-09 11:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by dominique shari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't physically attracted to him theres nothing you can do about it. you can fantasize about someone else when your in the moment but youll just feel guilty when its all said and done and its him youre looking at, when its him telling you he loves you. sexual attraction is very important, unless you want to just stay abstanent for the rest of your life, but eventually you will stray and cheat. is it worth breaking his heart years down the road just so you don't hurt his feelings today?
2007-01-09 11:24:24 · answer #11 · answered by leah pryor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋