I hsve this friend who can sometimes be ur best friend and then she can be a prep,no it all and u just cant stand her. I dont want to tell her off because she will start crying for attention then everybody will be on her side and she wont learn her lesson.What should I do?????
2007-01-09 11:05:07 · 14 answers · asked by ladyranger4348 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If it was me I would be hanging out with other friends and when she tried to be my friend i would tell her what bugs me about her.(set her straight) Good Luck. Hope it goes well!
2007-01-09 11:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by sporty_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible she does not realize she is doing it?
But if she acting like your best friend and than almost stabbing you in the back you should tell her about her actions so she can realize how she is acting. And if she does take it the wrong way and you are telling her the truth about herself than you have nothing to worry about.
2007-01-09 19:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by rj j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is VERY succeptible to peer pressure. I would simply tell her that if she has to change like that every time she turns around, then she needs to figure out who her true friends are, and in the meantime, you'd rather not subject yourself to not knowing whether she's really your friend, or using you to avoid her own loneliness.
2007-01-09 19:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by wwturner2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend just like that she is so mean some times but what i do is i just tell her she is being rude and it makes u feel bad and start crying and everyone will be one your side she will feel bad and then she'll stop and when she starts agin just do it agin it worked for me hope it helps
2007-01-09 19:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by car crash hearts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i too have been in one of these situations. I like u was timid to tell her off but u just have to or else u'll be miserable being "fake" friends. Even if she does go off and cry for attention, u did wat u had to and if she doesnt learn her lesson well, u tried. If it were me i'd just go for it, just dont be TOO harsh :-)
2007-01-09 19:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by peyton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her when she is bitchy and talk to her when she is nice and if she askes why just tell her the truth by saying u can show off at times ect
2007-01-09 19:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her tell her how you feel trust me i had a friend just like that and after we talked things totally changed dont get rude or mouth off just get her alone and talk to her about it
2007-01-09 19:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that it's sometimes hard to be her friend and that you're willing to fix the problem if she is. Then make sure you BOTH work towards fixing it.
2007-01-09 19:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her on days that she wants to be ur best friend
2007-01-09 19:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by shipswanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her off neway...because if she ignores you she's not rly your friend to begin with. just tell people the truth about her. they'll know your right in time.
2007-01-09 19:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by marebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋