Well see, i finished high school last year right, and now im 19 and attended first day of college in toronto.. however the girls dont seem to like me :(... i dont know why... i got a couple of buds at college that I met and became friends with.. but i need a gf!! what i do? be honest girls... i look strange or sumthing?? why theynot talk to me?? i heard some are shy and want to talk a lot.. is that true?
2007-01-09 10:50:54 · 16 answers · asked by Shawn Miller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude u got to take the initiative to go talk to them and i mean like not like "hey sexy hows it going " that kind of talk but like try to be their friend kind of talk ......it might get u off to a better start and well looks is just a preference so its about preception ....but good luck
2007-01-09 14:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by hahaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look pretty normal to me dude.Not like your some hunch back or troll. I think mostly you are being to self conscious of your looks and maybe are reflecting this in your personality around women.
Look, Just be your real self and don't even pay too much attention to trying to be something you think they want.I mean, instead of waiting around to see if one gives you a special look or something, just go up to people that you know in a party setting and join in on conversation with them all.When you just act casual you will soon end up in some sort of conversation that you know something about or have interest in and then can start asking the ladies other questions.Women regardless of what they say, love to talk about them self if they think someone really wants to listen.Then offer them to go do a shot with you or something and when you feel more loosened up, get out and dance with them.Just be cool and find your humorous side.Women love down to earth funny guys.They like good looks but they like personality even better.
2007-01-09 19:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy knowledge, first few week to month in college, girl are looking for someone smart to help with the homework. Your look make you a player. So if you want the girl, be the smart one in class and get the attention. Otherwise, it is going to take a lot of elp, time wise will be at least 9 month.
2007-01-09 18:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well you dont need a girlfriend to feel good about yourself i mean give it time if you are intrested in some girl kinda show them a bit by talking to them or flirting get to no them BE YOUR SELF and they might start to like you
2007-01-09 18:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill be confident about yourself and it will happen just keep being friends w/ ppl eventually you'll get the girl 4 u.
2007-01-09 18:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by College Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very good looking, but remember if you don't strut it, we can tell. Meaning, show that you think you are a sexy guy, and we will pick up on it too. Why should we believe it if you don't.
2007-01-09 18:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by mmpietropinto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i don't hink you are unattractive at all...in fact, I think you are kinda cute (don't get too excited, i'm old...tee-hee), and second of all, don't worry that you don't have a gf in college yet. It isn't as easy as one would believe...
2007-01-09 18:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop whining about how you don't have a girlfriend at the moment. It doesn't matter. And stop talking about women as "they."
2007-01-09 18:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. your pic isnt big enough.
2007-01-09 18:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by Freddy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your lovely, give it time.
2007-01-09 18:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋