how do u know when ur truely in love ?
2007-01-09 10:56:21 · 13 answers · asked by ashley19948 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is many of the traditional things that you think of when it comes to love. Deep in love actually takes time. People fall in love and it can happen quickly. I believe that you know when someone is just right for you. No B.S. I saw my wife and and I knew that she was the one. Like a ton of bricks. 3 dates and I asked her to marry me. 15 years later and 3 kids added the mix and we still are in love. I knew that she was the one quickly. In all of these years we have had 3 fights? Usually 1 every 5 years about who ate the last cupcake or something like that. Nothing serious. I think too often people settle for less and try to make a relationship work with the wrong person. Unfortunately most of my friends are now on the 2nd wife or husband. The biggest thing is a couple of factors. Ask yourself the 3 big questions.
1) Can you imagine life without them in any way shape or form?
2) Do you feel at peace and totally comfortable and that feeling of bliss over whelms you?
3) Can you communicate on all levels? It is important.
Write down everything that you like and don't like about them. That reveals quite a bit. You know in your heart when you truly feel it. Falling in love and being in Love is the best. Enjoy it and let it happen. I know that it is something that you cannot really control. When 90% your thoughts on that person and your are connected on every level and you just want to be together. Those are the traditional signs. I hope you are experiencing it and feeling great. If you are on the fence and wondering about your relationship? The list will help too.Hopefully you are in happy place and things are going great. More power to you. Take care and good luck.
2007-01-11 11:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mario L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its different for everyone and I don't believe that anyone can tell you. Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. When you are in love it is as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. It is the best of both worlds! Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Love is not about jealousy. It is not about conflict. It is not about testing. Love is a positive feeling. If it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity or spitefulness it is not really love but merely a pale copy. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love should feel good. It should not feel bad. Love should make you want to be a better person, it should not lead you to do something self destructive. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow. Love is a good thing. Anything less is lust, deep friendship or attraction
2007-01-09 11:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is kind of hard to explain.
Love is just one of those things.
Love is what you percieve it to be.
Love is everything.
Love is love.
love is an attempt to change
a piece of dream into reality.
you will know when you are truely in love because its one of those over the fence, cant eat, cant sleep, cant think of anyone other than that one person feelings. but trust me, you'll know.⥠you'll be thinking of one special person probably while your reading this, and they may be the one.
2007-01-10 13:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by DUHLAiNE♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you cant live without the person u r in love with. Love is a feeling that two people share in a relationship. If u feel u love a person and he returns the love back I think thats when you are truly in love. You must feel special when you are in love, your guy must do that for you.
You will feel it inside when you are in love
2007-01-10 19:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youll know because you cant go fifteen minutes without thinking of your loved one. YOu see a pretty girl or guy and it makes you think of yours , truelly . When you know you have the one nobody else matters or is as important. If you would trade your heart just to see her smile one more time knowing that she is eternally yours that to me is love . When everyone talks sh*t to you and about you because of your nonwillingness to let her go that is love . I would trade everything my friends, family, all to have my one chance---you are my family ... and I know you know this. Dont get fooled by imitations I ve been gone. Come see what you have forgotten who can make you complete and vise versa.
2007-01-09 11:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your heart will tell you. Keep in mind that a strong love grows so intense over time, you may love him at first of course, but if it is true love , it will continue to grow and you will fell like the luckiest girl in the whole world.
2007-01-09 11:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation is when you can't eat, can't sleep, can't concentrate, all that gooey stuff. Love is when you're inspired to do and be your very best. Love is when you know your partner's faults and love him/her anyway. Love is when you live the every day boring life and still want to be together.
2007-01-09 11:01:43 · answer #7 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ure in love if..........
u wanna live..juss 2 c him smile... 2 c him happy nomatter wht it takes!
ure in love if u cry whn u mis him !
ure in love if u imagine the rest of ure life.... ure kids... ure old age ..wid him !!!!
ure in love if u think that the best place in this wrld... is in his arms!!!
n yessss ...
ure in love ...........
if u pray to God for his happiness....
2007-01-10 01:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Gurmeet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you cant think of nothing else but that person and you try to find ways for him to notice you...
and sometimes you bug them to much to hide what you truly feel about them ^^<
2007-01-10 22:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by alexis Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just do... ur stomach muscles tighten, u mite feel sick.... really weird stuff happens to ya....
hhhm, the guy above, good answer... u cant stop thinkin bout them....
2007-01-11 06:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by flee1906 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋