He pays the mortage is the reason why he say he shouldn't have to pay. His ex wife gets child support and thats the reason he says he always broke. I do help with other bills. i have gotten carpet upstairs and I had carpet taken up from downstairs and payed for wood floors. I bought our 3000 bedroom set. I'm not keeping tabs on what i do and have done in a house he's lived in since childhood (stuff that should have already been done) i just want to know everybody opionon on this issue
2007-01-09 10:57:18 · 9 answers · asked by toonice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its OK for him to refuses but not all the time. he need to help out to . just as much as you do .so don`t be to mad .love as its ups and downs.
2007-01-09 11:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have agreed to separate money when you 1st got married. But have things changed since them? Was there children involved then? Well, there is now! If times and situations have changed then you need to sit down and re think this his and my money issue. I will tell you - I don't think it can ever work that way!!! Someone will always feel like they are being cheated. And if you married "till death do us part" then why worry about his and mine!!! It's supposed to be ours!!!! I think you need to talk to him before you are both talking to the judge in divorce court!!! Good Luck!
2007-01-09 19:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by dreamteam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what else can be done if he is really broke? he has to pay his child support or he will be in jail. he has to help take care of that family too. too...meaning also , he needs to help you as well. but if he is broke wouldn't you rather keep him out of jail?
2007-01-09 19:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you but i do think that the daycare bill should be split. what he pays his ex has nothing to do with your house hold that is a bill he is responible for.
2007-01-09 19:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's paying the mortgage and you're paying daycare isn't that about equal?
2007-01-09 19:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like marriage why isn't your stuff combined sounds like you just live together and why shouldn't he pay for daycare it is his kid too.........i would have a discussion with him that has to change if you pay for this and he pays for that sounds like more of a problem then just the daycare............
2007-01-09 19:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by christina c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shouldn't the bill's be combined?since when is it your bill's my bill's in a relationship/marriage
2007-01-09 19:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by pumpkinbugaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah you should be mad.
2007-01-09 19:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...Furious..
This is total disrespect on his part..
2007-01-09 19:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋